From Laos, Suntisouk Center News: Word is Spreading!

Connie and LMI staff

Yes, folks, word is spreading! 

It’s been 2 weeks since my last post and I must say, news from here is uplifting and positive.

  14 new students at various levels and ages have joined our different classes.  We have 3 more additional village chiefs in our free class offered to those particular officials.  We have 2 new beginning level adults, sisters who want to learn English as one will be going to America to marry a Hmong-American Hmong, by the way, is an ethnic minority in Asia, being one of the more prevalent in Laos. The young man has been looking for a wife.  (From what I understand, the families of the couple involved knew one other so set up a meet-and-greet of sorts from afar. The girl is waiting for visa and documentation approval, which takes up to a year or longer.)  I gained 2 children in my elementary school class.   

Furthermore, I have just started a junior high school class of 5 which hopefully will grow. While the little kids are endearing, they can be a handful so teaching at a higher level than elementary education has become a refreshing experience.

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This news is exciting but as the director, it also is a bit worrying.  We only have 3 continuously active English teachers:  Afiju (Sierre Leone, our Global Mission Fellow who will leave in June), Amos (Philippines, former director’s son) and myself.  Modester (Malawi, also a GMF) teaches 1 1/2 hours every morning at a local kindergarten but is mostly engaging in the LMI (Laos Mission Initiative) youth and young adults programs. She will be taking on no new teaching assignments and also is leaving in June.

With limited educators, private classes of one or two students is not something we can do on a regular basis for the future.  I am working on advertising for larger classroom settings, which means better time management for us teachers, more money for Center repairs (so many in this OLD complex we are renting) and supplies. 

Why Word is Spreading 

 My guess is the free “Let’s Sing in English!” event which has been going on now for 3 weeks, every Friday afternoon from 4-5 p.m.  Originally, this was to be a 6-7 p.m. event but let me explain what happened to that evening time slot.

I mentioned that there were several elements involved in the start of this idea I had, which began 7 weeks ago.  First was creating fliers in both Laos and English.  My great administrative officer, Khamxay, did an excellent job of putting those together for me and copying. 

Next was the appointed visits to our village chief, with me carrying a gift basket put together by the staff.  To save money, we bought goodies separately at the grocery, hauled out used baskets gifted to me and Angie for Christmas and then the staff packed the baskets to make them look nice. 

What goes in a gift basket?  Ours included:  cookies, Ovaltine (very popular in Laos), fruit juice container, Nescafe instant coffee , tea bags and a few other interesting items.   

Angie, former director who has moved into the Laos women’s leadership training role, brought me both to visit our village chief  for a personal meet-and-greet as well as including a nearby elementary school principal.   

Both were very receptive of our presence.  The staff translated.  We shared our concerns for education among the Laos people.  The village chief and principal both responded positively to our hoped-for attendance of the event.  Our fliers were left with both and I had a feeling of great confidence that the 6-7 p.m. timeslot would go over well. 

Principal Calls with Suggestion 

It was the elementary school principal who called with a request:  Can we separately do the Let’s Sing in English from 4-5 for 3 of her grades?  Every week for 3 weeks, the teachers could walk the students over after their class ended at 4.  We’d do Grade 5 first, then Grade 4 and Grade 3. 

What a wonderful idea!  I absolutely agreed and felt this would be a good opportunity for me to practice first with the kids and then adjust for the 6-7 p.m. timeslot. 

Lots of Careful Prep Work means Lots of Success 

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Our first Friday event had me  and the staff scrambling to get 51 chairs in place.  We have only 49  stackable chairs in the entire Center.  I raced around, grabbing every chair out of the classrooms and moving them into the main hall with the help of the staff.  We cleaned the hall floors, turned on the air-con for comfort, and set up the PPT projector which had to be brought from the classroom.  Then we had the sound system as well to check.  We got the hall bathrooms into working order, swept the outside courtyard and prepared cookie snacks for the children after their visit with us. 

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We threw open the sliding gate at 3:40 after we were informed the students were on their way and we waited anxiously.  Here they are below.

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In they came, shy at first but eager to learn and with so many smiles. After our warm-up exercises, our English chant practice,   movement song time, group work and eventual volunteer performances, they were energized and ready to learn more.   

Their teachers, including the principal who joined as well, grandly participated along with the little ones.  In other words, fun was had by all. 

Our elementary school 4- 5 p.m.  session continued onward for the next 2 Fridays with Grades 4 and 3. I made some adjustments as the English levels required which worked out extremely well.  

What a great connection for my very first Center outreach program!   Here are some visuals of the 3 visits we had.

Don’t think that was all me, however.  All the Center staff were involved, including former director Angie, to help usher students in and out, help with the PPT, set up the chairs, lead students to and from the bathroom, monitor group work, give verbal translations and make sure children received their cookie snacks we provided after they ended their time with us. 

6-7 p.m. Public Invitation:  A bust 

I had had great hopes of that 6 – 7 p.m. public invite.  I was ready to go after the elementary kids left that first Friday.  The staff graciously hung in there after hours to help. We repositioned chairs, swept the floor again, checked the bathrooms, kept the air-con running, waited by the gate for the next wave to come and . . . . 

No one. 

Only my private class of 6 elementary school kids came since their parents were told no class but we’d have singing night. 

Due to this, I ended up teaching them a regular evening class with the hopes that maybe next week would be different. 

It wasn’t.  Nor was the 3rd week any more successful.  I quickly learned that Friday night, people are tired and want to begin their weekend, not come to an English language event at a small, unknown, hard-to-find language center. 

I ended up sending the staff home at 5 p.m., much to their happiness, and we decided to nix the Friday evening Let’s Sing in English event.  

The elementary school I hope will continue, repeating again Grades 5, 4 and 3 with new songs and activities.  This will be done as long as the principal wants us to continue.  I am waiting to hear of her decision at present.

In Closing: Check out the Center’s Facebook Page! 

I have more ideas stirring about in my head for large invite gatherings. As a newbie to Laos, it will be a matter of listening to staff suggestions, asking locals what they are interested in, figuring out what’s doable and experimenting.

In the meantime, please check out the Facebook page of the Center.

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These amazing posts are currently being done by Khamxay, my stalwart administrative officer whose many duties keep him incredibly busy.  He’s also taking business classes in the evenings at a college very near the Center.  How he continues daily with such a kind, joyful, enthusiastic and willing spirit is beyond me.  I’m guessing a large part of that is that he’s a Christian, not to mention an unpaid pastor along with his dad at a countryside church outside of the city.   

Every day I’m here, I learn more and more about the strong commitment of my Center staff to education and serving others.  They are so inspiring!  With such an uplifting group, and with so many overseas supporters such as yourselves who follow this site, how can we possibly fail? 

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Village Chiefs in Laos

I believe I mentioned in a previous post about village chiefs. Here I’d like to expand a bit more.

I remember several conversations with Angie, former Director of the Suntisouk Language and Vocational Center, concerning this topic. When she began talking of our visits to Laos village chiefs, I had visions of elderly men, sitting in grass huts, wearing traditional native outfits and being in distant countryside areas. To me, the words “village” and “village chief” brought up images of the below Laos landscape:

And while the above is true for distant remote areas, as the 60-people community I visited shows above, in cities and towns, it’s a bit different.

Villages in Vientiane

 For urban and larger town settings, a village (under Laos Communist Party guidelines) is somewhat like a USA city precinct with the Village Chief taking on the role of something between a precinct committeeman and a mayor. The appointment is made by Party members of that village who elect someone to be the chief. Candidates have to have been a Party Member for at least 3 years, be between the ages of 21 – 60 and have lived in the village for at least 2 years. 

Meeting the New Village Chief

The structure of government is very organized and clearly stated. 

 In fact, I found out just how structured a few weeks ago when our Center was personally invited by official invitation to attend the welcoming in ceremony of our new village chief. This is the first time the Suntisouk Language and Vocational Center’s foreigners (Angie from the Philippines, myself as an American and Daniel Yang, a Hmong-American) have ever been invited to such an event. In fact, it’s the first time any foreigners at all have been extended such an honor. Even the overseas residents from the nearby international school, French Embassy, international business ventures and also foreign restaurants weren’t invited.  In the 7 years the Center has been in existence, Angie mentioned (as director) we also were never included in such an important community gathering, thus making this first time so very, very special.

Here are pictures from the 2 1/2 hour introduction as well as meet-and-greet of our newly appointed village chief.

I learned the following about my village, Thongkang.

  1. A village is comprised of 20 or more households or a population of 100 co-existing people in the same area.
  2. My village’s name is Thongkang. It is comprised of 441 households and 2,110 people (I’m now one of them!)
  3. Our Vientiane district is called Sisattanak. It has 73 villages. Thongkang is one of them.
  4. 30% of households in my village are making improvements to their houses or are building new additions to beautify their homes.
  5. If someone dies in the village, 3 million Kip ($136 US) is given to the family as a memorial gift from the village chief’s office on behalf of the village.

Why were we Invited, the only foreigners?

The Center is giving free classes to any village chief or his/her staff who are interested in learning English to communicate with their foreign expats in their neighborhoods. We have so many here from all over the world, not to mention the many international schools that the kids go to. The big cities in Laos, especially here in Vientiane, are swarming with foreigners and foreign visitors.  Our village chief and staff class is very small (only 4) but it has helped us gain a reputation as wanting to help others.

As you can see, it pays to have students in high places! Our village deputy chief leaders and those who hold posts in our neighborhood Communist Party appreciate this opportunity to learn, share and understand those from other cultures through language. 

The above ladies have English skills from basic A-B-Cs (unable to read) to simple conversational skills. Their busy schedules, taking care of community duties and also families, often have them coming later than their 5 – 6:30 timeslot. Despite being tired and exhausted after a long day, they rush on their scooters to attend class. I am not their regular teacher but I do spend time with them before my primary school kids start at 5:30.  Getting to know them on a personal level is a rewarding and eye-opening, especially for me as a newcomer to Laos. 

I am hoping, as the word gets out, that more of our local leaders will join in. Already, two have invited those from other villages to join us. Little by little, this class will grow. You wait and see!

My next entry? 

Stay tuned for my personal visits to our village chief to welcome him into his new position, introduce myself and advertise our Center as a service-oriented establishment. Also included in the next entry will be my visit to the nearby primary school, where the principal’s request of furthering our relationship proved to be a lifesaver. (Watch this space for the marvelous story, with pictures to follow.)

May peace and joy surround you in all your endeavors this week. I know this is already proving true for me.

  

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One of my greatest supporters, Searoba, leaves this world

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One truly heartwarming treasure of being in this kind of service to others is that of incredible friendships.  I have so many, with memories that I hold dear along with pictures of those who have already left this world or who are still with me, to send emails, text messages or cards. I’m the kind of person who takes these relationships as gifts from God, meaning they are not to be dismissed with a terse “thank you” or a passing thought. 

No, I hold very close to my heart all who enter my life in such a way. Really!!

And I know that when meeting you all while in America, especially if I’m leaving for an extended period of time, and for those who are getting up there in years, this might be our last time together.

That was the case with 94-year-old Searoba Mascher, from my hometown church in Marshall, Illinois.

A Name to Be Remembered

Already, I can feel you readers looking at that title and wondering, “Why in the world would someone name their child such a strange name? Does it have anything to do with the Sears and Roebuck catalog of old?”

And the answer would be, yes!

I remember asking Searoba such a question while in the church office where she was helping me put together my latest newsletter. She explained the Sears & Roebuck catalog was her mom’s favorite. It was a staple in the family for finding and purchasing so many wonderful items. With great ingenuity, her mom combined the two together to create, indeed, a unique and unforgettable name: Searoba.

Now, of course, we have Amazon. Over 100 years ago? Sears and Roebuck. These examples would have been during Searoba’s toddler years. I include them below. My, have styles have changed!

One wonders if, years from now, someone will name their child Amazon with the same sort of sentimental fondness toward buying as Searoba’s mom did toward Sears & Roebuck.

My Posted Condolences For Searoba

With our online capabilities to send condolences on funeral home sites, this is the one I posted after hearing of one of my greatest supporters having passed.  I include it here:

In so many continents, world countries, and I would guess in just about every US state, there is someone whose life has been touched by Searoba and whose memories of her have been firmly imprinted on his or her heart.  Her unique gift to bring people together, from overseas guests  to those in our United Methodist church community as well as the many organizations she diligently participated in, is truly that:  a gift.   I personally experienced that gift the past 4 years of being “stuck” in Marshall, unable to return to my church placement  due to Covid.  This delay offered numerous opportunities  for me to talk to Searoba on a more personal basis. We spoke in the church office, fellowship time over coffee, in the pews before or after worship, at the ice cream socials when she was scooping out ice cream or at the cashier’s box,  in the Marshall UMC kitchen when she was cooking, delivering items  or serving. . .  Every conversation we had revealed something new about the woman who so  faithfully and prayerfully led a strong life of service.  I learned how she received her name, her childhood adventures in a by-gone era of rural farm living,  her spearheading efforts (including the grant proposal writing) to establish Lincoln Trail College’s study program center and about her many travels with husband Clyde as well as the task of taking care of him as his life ended.  It was quite astounding to listen to her never-ending baking sprees for whatever function lay in her pathway, or tales of her many outings and hostings of foreign exchange students, including  visits to their home countries, when possible.  Our last conversation in December, 4 days before I left for Southeast Asia, was her interest in my upcoming placement. She was such a blessing and great contributor to mission projects and missionaries, myself included. Searoba, your physical presence will be greatly missed but in so many hearts and minds, you will live on forever and ever. Heartfelt prayers sent to family and friends,  from Connie in Laos.   

Here are a few pictures I compiled. Not sure which of those goodies is Searoba’s but she was known for whipping up whatever was needed. 

The Obituary Itself

The obituary doesn’t do her justice but here it is for all the cut-and-dry details of one of my greatest supporters, Searoba Mascher. Her funeral is today and while I’m nowhere nearby where I can attend, I certainly am with her family and others in spirit and thought.

http://pearceobits.casketpics.com/obituaries/searoba-m.-mascher

A Cherished Snapshot

Here is my last photo of us all together at my farewell tea, held by Mary Ann Stepp in her home. L-R: Searoba (seated), me, my mom Priscilla, Bev (seated) and Mary Ann. A blessed gathering, a blessed memory.

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My Midnight Blue Honda Scoopy

Evading collisions.  Dodging potholes. Plowing through dust clouds. 

Early Sunday morning, I zip along the city and countryside roads on my way to church. The 35-minute journey on my midnight blue motor scooter, the Honda Scoopy, is a long and challenging one but the 2-hour worship service and lunch afterwards with my newfound brothers and sisters in Christ is the reward.  And what a joyful reward it is! 

Finally, I am able to get around on my own without depending on Modester, my Malawi neighbor and colleague, to haul me around on the back of her motorbike.

The Search for Transportation

There are so many bike shops and big dealerships throughout the city of Vientiane. Which one is the best? Which has the biggest selection? What brand should I get? What kind of price am I looking at?

When taking on such a purchase venture, it’s always best to have a local. Not only that but foreigners are not able to buy vehicles on their own. The license and ownership documents must list a Laos person. Among the Suntisouk Language and Vocational Center staff, the one who is my go-to guy is Khamxay (pronounced kahm-tsigh).

Khamxay, community coordinator

This able young man is always the one in the Center to do all the foreign teachers’ needs: registering us for employment, helping to process our visas, assisting in opening our new bank accounts, copying any classroom materials we might need, creating fliers for special Center events, advertising us on Facebook to increase notoriety, collecting fees from students . . .

Khamxay is a whiz at doing anything, and I soon found out this also proved to include motorbike shopping.

A 5-hour Adventure

We left at 9:30 a.m., with Khamxay hauling me around the city on the back of his scooter. We visited 4 different motorbike shops and ended up at one which was located along the roadside going out of town. Khamxay mentioned this particular vehicle distributor he had bought his bike from a few years ago and another Center staff member as well. The selection was one of the best I’d seen from the previous three, with various colors available in the automatic, which is what I preferred. Naturally, the automatic transmission scooter is the higher priced one but it is the easiest to ride and most practical for me, being not too manually savvy when it comes driving a motor scooter.

There were numerous options (Yamaha, Honda, Suzuki, Italian Vespa, UK’s Kymco) and sizes but the top pick for me was the Honda Scoopy. 

Next was the color.

One would think choosing a color wouldn’t be a huge decision but for me, it was. I had at first wanted a flashy red but upon inspection, I noticed every dirt speck and accidental brush-up brought streaks of dirty black on the glossy finish. The entire lifetime of the vehicle, I’d be spending fretting and fussing over rubbing out every mark I’d see. (Notice in the below picture, I’m already eyeing one of those smudge-marks which is giving me reservations about buying this one.)

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Khamxay recommended the midnight blue, which I agreed was a perfect look for me.  I selected the matte finish rather than the glossy, just because it was more to my liking. As you can see, I’m a happy girl!

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Interesting Purchasing Details

Freebies: I received a free helmet and windbreaker after handing over my $2,400 USD to the seller and his assistant. Khamxay recommended I put on the windbreaker ASAP, even though it was 92 degrees outside. I obliged, as seen in the photo with Khamxay.

Battery Connection: To drive it off the lot, the battery had to first be connected.

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Gas: Of course, I needed some gas. The assistant was to fill me with 1 Pepsi-sized bottle of gas, just enough to get me to the nearest gas station. However, because of my great enthusiasm with our picture together, not to mention my hundreds of thank yous, I was given 2 bottles instead of one. 

Motorbike License: Khamxay had already copied his ID card and filled out the necessary forms for the bike to be registered under his name. (As mentioned before, foreigners can’t buy vehicles but we can drive them or easily rent them.). The license plate takes 2 months, which the shop processes with the city government using Khamxay’s documents. In the meantime, I carry a paper with me that shows the vehicle has been purchased and is not stolen.

Driver’s License:  I have an international license which I applied for in America for $20. Accompanied with my USA driver’s license (the two must be shown together), Khamxay was able to apply for a Laos license for me. In fact, he’ll be picking that up for me this coming Monday.

Week 2 of Honda Scoopy-ing

I haven’t minded at all walking the 25-minutes to the Center, or the 5 minutes to the little area stores I enjoy patronizing, or the open-air market to buy my vegetables and meat. But I must say it is quite exciting to cruise along with the locals on my Honda Scoopy, merging carefully into traffic-filled roads and joining fellow bikers on their travels to and from home or work.  There is a great sense of freedom and being one with the Laos commuters. With my helmet on, I become an indistinguishable entity, no longer clearly visible as the foreigner. I’m one of the crowd.

Just one of many steps in settling into a new overseas home. Let’s hope it continues!

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The Center’s upcoming “Let’s Sing in English!” Singing Night:  Begins February 9

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Yet another book in that previous post list is the above, which was recommended by an educator to music teachers. This is why I am so appreciative of Youtube. There are so many excellent postings for anything you could possibly want to learn or know about.

I’ve been working on a unique way to bring people to the Center by hosting a free “Let’s Sing in English!” Friday night event for February, March and April at the Center. Anyone can come and learn some English songs. This will be for beginners to lower intermediate language learners of any age (children, adults, elderly). The purpose is to advertise the Center since few know of our existence, have some fun in learning and hopefully get people to return, bring friends and spread the word of our service to the Laos community.

Already, the Center staff and I have begun to advertise. We’ll have postings on Facebook and fliers as well. Hopefully, word will get out and we’ll have a good turn-out. We shall see!

Here are the unedited versions of our singing night. We’ll scale down for those that will be handed out. The Laos staff has already given suggestions and input. Sure is nice to have a team so enthusiastic to help.

Closing off for now. Next post, my BIG birthday purchase: The motorbike!!

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My Birthday Presents to Myself: Books!

“Connie, can we send you anything, like we did to China? What’s your mailing address?”

With my recent birthday, I had quite a few people ask me the above question. In fact, I had asked Angie (Center director, who is from the Philippines) this same question several months ago. I assumed packages could be received, much-needed supplies sent by those willing to do so and even mailing myself items that didn’t fit in my suitcase could be easily done.

Angie’s reply was not one of great hope.

“I’ve never tried it before,” she said. “We never have mail delivered in Laos unless it is through DHL. There is really no public mailing service unless for big corporations.”

Being an American, I am only familiar with FedEx or the US postal services’ Priority Mail service. I had to look it up.  DHL is the global leader in the logistics industry. It specializes in international shipping, courier services and transportation

I did a search about DHL distribution centers. There is a total of 11,700,000 DHL mailing offices in the world.Out of those, 3,755 are located in the US but only found in large cities. Chicago has 2. Houston has 103. 220 countries use DHL with the Netherlands being the top ranked one.

Obviously, with 11.7 million offices around the world and the US only having 3,755 of those, it’s not a very popular way to send things internationally in America. 

No wonder I never heard of it.

The Problem of Mailing 

As an optimistic person, right before I left America, I mailed myself an envelope of small paper items from my local post office.  That  was sent December 4, 2023, with addresses to the Center in both Laos and English, a Laos staff telephone number added for extra precautions and off it went for $14.24.

Today is January 20.

I have yet to see any signs of it.

Good thing it wasn’t an $80 box!

How to Solve Mailing Problems

Thus, sad to say, there doesn’t seem to be a solution to mailing things to me here unless using DHL, which appears to be non-existent  in small-town areas or even mid-sized cities in our 50 states.

So how do I get needed supplies that can’t be found here?

Have people hand-deliver in their suitcases.

If you recall, Angie asked me to bring American chocolates to the staff (I brought Hershey kisses) as well as vitamins for her.  I loaded up on student reward stickers and a few other things I thought might come in handy but I was just guessing.

Now I find myself in need of so many things!  But without the ability to have things mailed, I am left with waiting for willing visitors from the States to graciously make way in their suitcases  for what I want.

Lucky me!  Someone is coming at the end of the month. After a quick pleading email from my end, this  reply was given: “Sure, Connie!  Happy to help.  Have sent to me what’s needed  from Amazon and I’ll hand-deliver.”

$100 worth of Birthday Presents to Myself:  Hand-delivered Resources For my Teaching (and studying)

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Here are my purchases above:

  1. Children’s books for Laos Language Learning:  my personal use, for additional Laos language study.
  2. Medical English Dialogues for English Language Learners: Angie informs me we’ve had classes with Laos medical professionals in the past, teaching at their hospital with the administrator’s approval, to improve their ability to communicate with foreigners and international NGOs who come to help in the medical field. We’ve had no targeted materials for medical vocabulary so this one should get us off to a good start.
  3. Flash Cards for Kids: I’ve been needing these for my classes with beginners and know they will come in handy for future learners.
  4. No-Nonsense Buddhism for Beginners: This is both for myself and also for future Buddhist Monk English classes. 67% of those in Laos are Buddhists. Beautiful temples, full of novice monks, are found in every nook and cranny of this city, as well as others. The Center sponsored an English course for temple monks 2 years ago. The expat community is large in Vientiane and foreign visitors often come to temples to wander about. It’s important for the monks to be able to communicate in simple ways and this is one way to help. I need the basics in Buddhism which will, in turn, allow me to prepare properly for whatever the temple community that hosts the classes feels it needs. 

I’m SO looking forward to having these arrive next week.

Be looking for more news from Laos in the next post, including innovative ideas of getting people to visit the Center, not to mention my newfound freedom!

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And Happy Birthday Again!

This morning was my first Laos lesson with Ajan (Teacher) Soi. I have signed up for 21 lessons, 1 1/2 hours each, every other day. I have done daily lessons before, in China, but not while teaching or coming up with new strategies to help the Center make money. My brain has been working overtime trying to think of ways to get us out out of the red from 2023. I’ll share with you later about those plans, proposals and write-ups.

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After that first 1 1/2 hours, I honestly felt this language is impossible to speak or pronounce correctly. Every sentence I repeated and simple phrase when flying out of my head within several minutes.

But Soi has been very encouraging and so patient as I struggled to say a simple, “My name is” or “Excuse me” or “Nice to meet you” or “Sorry.” I still don’t know my numbers. Oh, well. Step by step!

She charges so little, I think.  I am paying a total of 4,250,000 Kip ($202), of which $20 was given to the Center for classroom use and air-conditioning. Let’s hope my 21 lessons will get me past my anxiety stage and give me that feeling of confidence to communicate something, even if a little, with the Laos people.

My Birthday . . . Again!

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The staff surprised me after my lesson with a coconut birthday cake. Everyone sang happy birthday to me once again, then each went around the table to give me special birthday wishes. Monday is always a very tiring day after a nice weekend. This certainly was a way of brightening up the going-back-to-work blues.

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I cut the cake into 14 small pieces, which were eagerly gobbled down in matter of seconds. Without enough porcelain plates , one of the staff members ingeniously cut the cake box into squares to be used as temporary plates. I’ll remember that for next time, when it’s my turn to treat a staff member to his/her own birthday treat.

Tomorrow, by the way, is the big day: Motorbike shopping!! My birthday treat to myself continues onward as I prepare to buy myself a Honda motor scooter. 

Be watching this space for the results! Freedom is on its way.

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Unit 5: Happy Birthday!

Yes, folks, it’s been my birthday all day today!

I’m not one to mope about as a newcomer who doesn’t know many people. If you want to make your birthday special, you have to be proactive in doing so.

This past week has been my first teaching stint at the Center. I have taken over the elementary school children’s class, the fee-paying one, from Angie, the former director. She is moving into working with the women of Laos and had requested someone to take over the Center. That is me but I am not fully yet in this position as I’m still adjusting. 

Little by little, I’ll be doing more and more each week. I’m still waiting for my work visa to be fully processed (sure takes a long time!), I’m starting language classes next week and I really hope to go motorbike shopping soon. I enjoy walking to the Center every day, which is only 25 minutes, but journeys to church and across town are still not possible without assistance. (That would be Modester, riding me about on one of the Center’s motorbikes.)

My Evening Class:5:30 – 6:30 p.m. Every night

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My 4 elementary students have been so much fun! I have my brother and sister pair (Yoasakone, 13, and Lucky, 9), Inthonon (11) and Phou(9). Phou is at the highest level, having finished up to Book 4 but the others are still on Book 1. 

Needless to say, this makes Phou somewhat antsy and a handful. I have been keeping him busy by being the teacher’s helper or throwing in some new activities not in the book to challenge all 4. I think I’ve got it now. It’s been quite a few years since I taught the kids but I’m finding it’s like motorbike riding: It all comes back to you fairly quickly.

Serendipity!

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It’s hard to believe but today’s lesson was entitled ” Happy Birthday!”

In order to make it special, for both myself and my four young learners, I had us first go through the basic birthday conversation in the workbook and then I invited the students make me birthday cards. After all, it really was my birthday. What’s a birthday without cards?

Next was to line up outside the door and greet me using their newly learned birthday dialogue, including handing me their birthday card.

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Not only are cards a must, but what about birthday presents?

We had a finale of circle singing to me in English, “Happy Birthday to you”, before my gift to each student: a small gift bag with candy, pencil, pencil sharpener, eraser, chocolate wafer bar and an individually wrapped cake, a Laos Little Debbie is what I call them. There are so many varieties and flavors to choose from in the local mom-and-pop shops but I chose the custard one. 

As you can see, we really had a very unique and special class together.  When everyone goes home overly happy , including the teacher, you know the lesson was a successful one.  This was one of my best!

Other Birthday Greetings

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Modester, the Center’s Global Mission Fellow (GMF) and my amazing colleague, was the first to wish me a happy birthday with an early morning text.  The Center’s staff sang “Happy Birthday” to me in English and Laos.  I also made sure to share numerous Little Debbie Laos snack cakes with them and that also included the apartment attendants here.  Their pay is so low, as I mentioned before.  They needed something to make them feel special.

 In this country, I’m finding snacks and small treats given to everyone for special occasions, or even not for special occasions, are greatly appreciated and often times somewhat expected.   It brought me great joy knowing that my 59th  birthday was the cause of such appreciation as I learn to live in this beautiful country among such lovely people.

I still have 4 more hours to go before midnight, the official end of January 12.  Thus let me close off for now and savor the rest of  this treasured day, my first birthday celebration in Laos.

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My Laos Goal for the Week: I can ride a motor scooter! ຂ້ອຍຂີ່ລົດຈັກໄດ້!

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As Week 4 in Vientiane, Laos, comes to a close, one of my goals was accomplished: That of riding a motor scooter in the city traffic.

As mentioned before, public transportation in Laos is pretty sparse. Few taxies and no public bus system (either city or long-distance) make it virtually impossible to go anywhere unless you have a vehicle of some kind. Cars are one mode of transportation but the big one are motor scooters and motorcycles.

The Suntisouk (Peace) Language and Vocational Center (SLVC), with which I am affiliated, has 4 motorcycles available to staff but none are automatic. This makes for some difficulty for me, the “old lady,” whose last motorbike was an easy-to-operate, kick-start, 1983 moped which I rode from age 16- 23. At 23, I then headed off to Japan for my first overseas teaching position and that was the end of my riding career.

Fast forward now to Laos, where motor scooters are a must if you want to transport yourself along the rugged, beat-up alleyways and streets of this capital city.  I certainly can walk to the Center from my apartment complex. It only takes 25 minutes. But problems arise if I have teaching duties on the other side of Vientiane, or if I wish to go to church on my own, which is a 30-minute trek into the outlying countryside.

There are also shopping ventures needed for food pick-up. One market is only a leisurely 10-minute walk away but bigger supermarkets are located across town.

For 4 weeks, I’ve been relying on Modester, and her excellent motorcycle skills, to drive me around to and from the Center, church and even shopping. Her kindness in doing this whenever I ask has been greatly appreciated but there came a point where she did say recently, “Connie, when are you going to buy your own motorbike?”

“When I have practiced in traffic, with someone to follow ahead of me and make sure I don’t wreck!” was my response.

My practice session took place yesterday. Borrowing the bike of the current Center director, Angie, I was led by her adult son, Amos, to a distant lake for driving about. 

To get there, we started on back alleyways but eventually, I had to enter traffic with cars behind me, ahead of me and beside me, not to mention hundreds of motor scooters and motorcycles zipping in and out or puttering along next to me. Amos on his scooter had his eye on me in his rearview mirror. I had my eye on everyone behind me and in front of me as I nervously, gingerly braked with clarity and sped along cautiously.

Know what, folks? 

That saying, “It’s like riding a bike,” (meaning you never forget) is so true!

Within just 10 minutes, I was wondering why I had made such a big deal out of this business of driving a motor scooter in Vientiane. 

Here I am yesterday, entering the Center after our 50-minute tour about the city. 

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Next Step:Shopping for a Motorbike

It’s an interesting process, buying a vehicle here. I’ve already quizzed Amos about what I should expect.

Automatics obviously are more expensive than those which are not. I am too old now to deal with shifting gears and want something easy: Just push the button, it starts, and brakes are on the handlebars.

Used bikes, such as the one I was riding, are available but then you do have to worry about maintenance and if it’s a good one. Used, which might run from $500 – $1,500, are iffy although there are so many listed on Laos websites, including Facebook. 

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As one who expects to be here for at least 3 years, I’m going for the new one. Brands vary but if Japanese, American, Korean or Vietnamese, this will run me $2,000 – $2,500. (Thank you to all who gave me a little monetary gift send-off before I left. You will be responsible for my newfound freedom!)

Only Laos citizens are able to purchase vehicles so one of the local staff members will have to come with me. The license (which the seller will complete as part of the price and send in to the government transportation department) takes 2 months to be completed. The paperwork of the purchase is all in the name of my Laos purchasing friend. This seems to be the way things are done, with foreigners such as myself carrying around copies of the paperwork to show police if we are stopped.

Needless to say, police in Laos never bother stopping anyone, especially foreigners, unless there is a blatant violation of road rules. And I will say, it seems somewhat of a free-for-all, although I notice people drive so slowly and carefully that running through red lights doesn’t seem to bother anyone. And, yes, lots do run through red lights.

Are there any police in sight when this happens? Well, I’ve been here for 4 weeks and I haven’t seen a single police officer around except for a police car that was sitting outside of a government office building. From what I understand, we drivers are. pretty much on our own to be trustworthy enough not to run into or over anyone.

Having to Wait: A 2-day Conference and Teaching Term Begins

This next week begins our new teaching term at the Center. I will be teaching daily evening classes to primary students whose parents want them to have a good start in English. They’ve already been working through “Let’s Go” Book 1 so I’ll be leading them into Unit 4 beginning Monday.

Aside from normal Center duties, the 7 staff members (all Christians) at present are also busy dealing with a 2-day Christian conference which I will attend during the daytime. This will be happening Tuesday and Wednesday.  That will take up a majority of their time, driving to and from the distant meeting place at the church outside of the city. Without my vehicle, I’ll be holding on tight to the back motorbike of whomever I can catch a ride with.

My hope is that this coming weekend, someone will have time to come with me to the motorbike plaza to scout out what’s available and how much. 

Any occasion, you might ask, for my big purchase?

It’ll be my birthday!!! I’m turning 59 on January 12, Friday. What a way to celebrate, buying my first ever vehicle. 

I can’t wait! And to make it even more of a perfect celebration,  add to that the purchase of an office birthday cake, my first Laos birthday here, to share with the staff. (Don’t tell them! I want it to be a surprise.)

Signing off, from Laos with Love.

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From Vientiane, Laos: Closing Off My 2023

It’s been a somewhat quiet week leading into 2024.

The Suntisouk (Peace) Language and Vocational Center staff have been off for a much needed holiday from December 23 – January 3.

The current director, Angie, and I have been meeting every morning, in the quiet of one of the Center’s classrooms, to help me gain a better understanding of what I’m stepping into. 

We’ve discussed current classes, outreach programs, tasks of staff, GMF (Global Mission Fellow) supervising duties, workings of the Center, budgets, day-to-day happenings, difficulties, challenges, hoped-for goals . . . . It’s been a lot for me to wrap my head around. How very grateful I am to Angie for giving me the time I need to truly get my feet on the ground. After all, this is only ending Week 3 for me. Still so many little bits and pieces that I’m trying to figure out. It will happen but just will take time.

Learning Numbers

Some success stories this week: I am learning my numbers in Laos. This is a must when going shopping. I can ask, “How much?” but when someone replies, it’s a mystery to me what is being said, especially when working with numbers that are thousands, tens of thousands and hundreds of thousands. Gracious! It sounds like a ridiculous amount of money when I buy a bread bun for 6,000 Kip (30 cents) or a bottle of lotion for 83,000 Kip ($4) or a motor-bike helmet for 450,000 Kip ($21.50). 

The bills I am starting to figure out. I no longer have to fan them out in front of sellers and have them grab what’s needed. Bless their hearts, they are so honest and don’t label me a simple-minded, ignorant foreigner that deserves to be cheated or taken advantage of. The Laos people, at least the ones I have encountered , are very kind, tolerant and trustworthy.

With numbers so large, I feel like a billionaire when in actuality, I’m nowhere near that.

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A Perfect Ending to 2023

I can’t help but share this with you as a closing off to 2023.

If you’ve followed my past entries, you will know about my former Chinese student from 1992, “Nancy” Ouyang. She spoke not a stitch of English when she entered the Amity Foundation-sponsored English training program for adults, which lasted for 1 year. I was her teacher and so was Jean Crouch-Smith, a former British headmistress of a private school who felt a need to do something different in life. China in 1992 was certainly different!

Moving on: Nancy was one of my greatest success stories. Her drive to learn English well, and continue to improve, eventually led her into the hotel industry. She’s had positions in China in the Four Seasons Hotel chain as well as one of China’s biggest and best, the 5-star rated Shangri-la. She is currently the manager in Guangzhou for yet another famous international hotel.

We have stayed in touch over the years, sharing our lives and adventures as we progressed into our careers and different stages of life. 

Three years ago, she asked via WeChat (our means of communication) if I could help her Hong Kong Chinese friend’s young son with a recitation contest.  He had a poem to memorize and then had to perform it. His English name was Horace (Kok Cheek Lun), and at that time, he was 10.

My help was to record the poem first, listen to him read it himself, correct his pronunciation and finally give him hints of interpretation. We did this via recordings and video posts.

 That first try in 2021, Horace was placed into the lowest prize categories.

The second try in 2022, at age 11, he had a tad better result by being categorized into the 3rd prize group arena.

In 2023, at age 12, I was sent the next chosen recitation poem for this year’s contest, “An Old Plot of Land,” by Clive Webster. Here it is below. 

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Horace’s Greatest Obstacle

As you can see, challenging vocabulary as well as so many possibilities of interpretation which had always been Horace’s greatest difficulty.  His ability to recite the words was fine but to give meaning and emotion to the poem itself dogged him for 2 previous years. 

After our usual back and forth with recordings, including me once again guiding him on how to interpret and examples of interpretation, it was left up to him once again to find his own voice to the piece.

The Outcome at Age 12? First Prize!

Below you’ll find the judge’s remarks on his scoring sheet. What an accomplishment!

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A Mother and Son’s Proud Moment

It’s been such a joy to be able to help this young man succeed in his language endeavors. I credit my own mother, whose MA was in Speech and Drama, with having influenced and advised me enough that I could be of assistance to Horace on his journey to a win. 

I close off this last entry in 2023 with a picture of Horace and his mom. What a remarkable way to end this year: new beginnings for me in Laos and a final well-deserved, longed-for successful accomplishment for Horace.

Horace and Mom.

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