Celebration Time!!!

What a joyful week the staff and I have had!

We have a Caretaker!

With the departure of Lalaine, who previously lived at the Center out of the kindness of her heart, I’ve been searching for someone to take her place.

Briefly, if you recall, Lalaine was from the Philippines and already had a full-time job as an English teacher here at a secondary school. Her help to watch and clean the Center was enlisted 2 years ago by Angie, the former director. She didn’t receive a salary but stayed for free in a small room. She approached me 6 weeks ago about wanting to leave and get an apartment nearer her school. I absolutely agreed! Her service to us was a blessing but it was time for her to “have a rest” (as the Chinese say), take care of herself, not have those 5 a.m. wake-ups to clean before the sun came out or late night lock-ups when we all had left.

During this time, the staff and I have been taking over: sweeping leaves, bagging those for trash pick-up, emptying out garbage cans, mopping the offices and classrooms, scrubbing our public toilets . . . . While sharing duties has been a blessing, it’s just added a little extra to our days.

As for me, the director, a few more duties were with Lalaine’s exit.

I’ve had to come during the weekends to turn off the night security lights on Saturday and Sunday mornings, then come in the evenings to turn them back on again. Every time I motored over on my Honda Scooby, I dreaded turning down our little alleyway. I had this fear the gate would be broken into, I’d enter to find broken office windows and glass doors, and our beautiful new computers gone.

Or, worse yet, the place burned to the ground due to faulty wiring.

Or a part of the roof caved in due to the torrential rains we’ve been having.

Or . . . . . (My mind was always racing as to what disaster I might find.)

How fortunate for us that one of our Laos college scholarship recipients, 23-year-old Suher, was looking for a place to stay after his recent graduation. He just finished 4 years in Business English. He was hoping for a Laos hotel position (we have so many foreign tourists here and business folk) and is applying now. He also is putting his brother through college, who is in his second year, and needed funding for that.

Perfect timing for all of us.

Suher graciously accepted the position last week and has been busy cleaning the grounds. Everything is immaculate. Weeds gone. Tree limbs removed. Fallen coconut tree palms hauled away. Not a single leaf in sight on a daily basis. My classroom is sparkling. Toilets smelling of Clorox and all porcelain entities shining.

Suher also has been tasked in his job description to take care of my rambunctious children when they arrive 20 minutes early. I am teaching the junior high at that time and they’d been a bit of a nuisance, pounding on the classroom door or shouting out, “Teacher!! We are here!!”

Without supervision, it was becoming a problem.

Suher to the rescue! He keeps them occupied at our outside tables with board games, playing badminton or tossing the ball around. All that pent-up energy from a full day at school is released before yet another classroom learning session with me. Finally, my never-ending irksome annoyance of interruptions is no longer.

And his first overnight with us, he discovered this disaster, which happened in one of our unused classrooms.

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Water was leaking throughout the classroom toilet area so Suher quickly turned off the main valve. Had he not been here, inspecting that room or others on a daily basis, our water bill would not only have been through the roof but this mess wouldn’t have been taken care of for . . . days? Weeks? Months?

As Suher continues to look for a suitable job, he will stay here for free and be paid a small salary (one we can afford) to help him with his future as a college graduate.

Thank you, Suher, for all you do and for accepting this vital position to help the Center thrive! We are so very, very fortunate to have you.

VIM Team Visit

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Suher’s timing couldn’t have been more perfect. He came on Thursday, just in time for a Monday visit by overseas’ visitors.

Last Monday, a Volunteer in Mission (VIM) team from West Ohio visited the Center for a few hours, bringing with them 6 used laptop computers for our future computer courses. And teaching supplies for Connie. (Surprise!)

The staff and I had been preparing for their Center visit for 6 weeks. We made snacks available. We carefully set up the classroom. We bought simple gifts. I prepared a power point of the Center’s activities and our needs.

The group was on the tail end of their 10-day stay in Laos after leading several Laos women gathering events.

I was so pleased to host them as a director, even if for a few hours.

Connie’s Treat: Staff luncheon Today

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In celebration of Suher joining our staff and a very successful VIM visit, I suggested we have a Friday luncheon on Connie.

Khamxay chose an Indian restaurant around the corner from us. We were joined not only by the Center’s staff but by the other divisions of my placement here, including community , women and youth development.

The Center is located in Vientiane but the other offices are located on a 35-minute drive from the city, at the church that I attend in the countryside.

It is not often that we all get together so this was a very special event. We were only missing Daniel Yang, one of the community program developers, and his wife, Christy. The two had dashed over to Thailand for a quick over-the-border exit and re-entry so Christy could get her 1-month tourist visa renewed. Khamxay is still working on her permanent spouse visa, good for a year. While waiting for that process to take place, the option of the 1-month visa is what most foreigners in Laos do before a permanent visa can be completed.

Look at our happy faces (and all that great food)! 

What a great way to end the week here at the Center:  A new staff member, computers and teaching supply gifts from abroad, marvelously cleaned buildings and compound (now looked after on a regular basis), great food and even better, having a unique and much-needed fellowship time together.

Ah, yes! And did I forget to mention that office manager, Khamxay,  is getting more requests from parents and others about adding future classes to our class schedule?  Not only that, but I have 2 new students!

Despite still being the only teacher for the next few months, our reputation is growing.   I’m expecting our next Global Mission Volunteer to arrive in August so this places us in a good position to add those extra courses parents are begging for.

As I said, lots to celebrate, which hopefully more of those on the horizon.  Stay tuned!
Connie in Laos, closing off.

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Laos Updates: Geckos, Licenses, Send-offs

Do geckos bite?

Well, apparently they do.

The tiny, itty-bitty ones that are present everywhere (in my home, in my office, in the classroom, climbing outer corridor walls) are darling little things, quite harmless and somewhat of a comfort. They get rid of all those pesky ants that swarm in drawers or on top of desks, not to mention the spiders or those annoying gnats.

But the big one that sandwiched itself between the outer screen in my office and the window was a monstrous size. I thought grabbing his tender lengthy body and depositing him into the bushes would be an easy task.

NOT!

He hissed. He dodged. He scampered.

And then he bit.

Ouch!

That was unpleasant. Left my thumb bloodied and sore for the rest of the day. Plus looks like I’ll have a scar as a reminder of yet another overseas’ lesson learned about being careful.

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My Midnight Blue Honda Scoopy: I’m Registered!

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It’s official.

My office manager, Khamxay, delivered my Scoopy to me yesterday with my motorbike license plate attached. After 3 1/2 months of waiting, my bike is officially registered with the Vientiane Laos vehicle department as being a legal member of the country’s transportation society.

How exciting!

Yet an interesting discovery ensued as Khamxay explained to me the intricacies of vehicle registration, namely that a majority of drivers here not only don’t have a driver’s license, their vehicles aren’t even registered.

No wonder I don’t always see license plates on the hundreds of motorbikes that speed alongside me.

On his first visit to the vehicle registration compound, my motorbike received an inspection for safety, after which a fee was requested for the license to be ordered. He paid a total of 210,000 Kip ( roughly $9 US) but was told if I wanted a lucky number, one I could choose myself, 3 million Kip ($136 US) was the price.

Khamxay slyly smiled at me afterwards, saying, “I’m so sorry I didn’t get you the lucky number. Did you want it?”

Not for $136 dollars, I don’t!

For a car license lucky numbers, the price was even higher: $2,000 – 3,000. Naturally, only the rich go for such a thing.

For those of us with lower incomes, guess we’ll just have to suffer with ill-fated numbers that profess bad omens and unfortunate happenings.

Thank you, Khamxay (seen below), for all the help in getting me not only a great motorbike but having the know-how not to get suckered into a $136 license (If I’d done it myself, I most likely would not have known I had a choice and been out a hundred-some bucks.)

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Saying Goodbye: Our Young Volunteers, Modester and Afiju, Leaving Us

Our Global Mission Fellows, Modester (Malawi) and Afiju (Sierra Leone) have left us. Their 2 year service to the language Center as English teachers and working with Laos youth came to a close. For 6 weeks, the staff and I had been preparing their send-off gathering: What gifts to buy, what unique event to plan, what words to say.

Our most meaningful gift was a notebook for each which we all wrote in , including pictures and stories of our time with these amazing people.

We had a lovely Friday morning together before they left, telling personal stories and enjoying some laughs, as well as plenty of pictures. Then it was out for lunch. The same at church on Sunday, where the two were given many prayers and special blessings by congregation members. As you can see below, the staff and I made sure Modester and Afiju knew how very special they have been here in Laos.

Modester even made a special appearance in my junior high and primary school class.

My Personal Farewell to Modester

Modester and I have quite a strong relationships because we lived next to one another in my temporary apartment complex before I moved to a larger place. She was the first to greet me at the airport, take me shopping on the back of her motorbike, introduce me to the market sellers, show me where to exchange money, translate for me with the Laos apartment staff and just be a very good friend when I was frustrated or feeling low in my new surroundings. Her generous, giving spirit made me feel at home, supported and loved.

I invited her to my new home as my first guest so we could enjoy my garden area. I’ve been working on it for over a month. Despite the unbearable heat, we managed an hour of patio time with cookies, cakes and “women talk” before I had to release her to continue her packing.

I will certainly miss her but it is time for her to return to Malawi, to her fiancé and all her wedding plans, plus her continuing life as a person of great faith and a lot of love to give to others.

Have a great weekend, everyone! And wishing the best to Modester and Afiju, now safely back in their home countries, reunited with family and friends. God bless!

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From Laos: Being Vigilant on my Midnight Blue Honda Scoopy

“Connie, Santi has been in an accident.”

No one, especially an administrator, likes that kind of text message early in the morning from her office manager.

Even more disturbing was the picture that followed.

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Oh, my gosh!

Santi, my primary school translator, my go-to Center guy who rakes leaves, runs errands, helps sell our unwanted stuff from the storage room, and double-duties as the Community Health and Agricultural Development (CHAD) assistant, was in an accident!!

“Is he OK?!” I texted back in a panic.

Picture 2 followed.

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“Yes, thank God.”

My next message was to Santi.

“How are you?! I saw the accident picture. I am so sorry. ”

“I’m in the hospital now,” he replied. “Swollen shin, pain in my side and my shoulder has a small wound. Not serious but I think I will not come to work today.”

“Of course not. You will be sore tomorrow and for a few days. You need to rest. Just let me know if you need anything.”

I then added, “Were you wearing your helmet?”

“Of course!”

Whew. Sigh of relief on that one. While helmets are required, there are quite a few who don’t bother. The roadside traffic officers are allowed to fine people for such offenses but usually just ignore it. Hard to stop a person who is zipping by at semi-high speeds, weaving in and out of cars, even gunning through stoplights. And since a majority of motorbikes don’t even have attached rear license plates, there is no way to follow up on missing-headgear individuals.

Several hours later, Santi reported he was finally at home, taking it easy. I recommended an ice pack or cold towels on the shin to keep the swelling down. He took me up on the suggestion and it seemed to have helped ease the pain, including his nighttime sleep.

Santi is now back in the office after a 3-day absence but moving slowly, with small aches and pains.

Taking Adequate Note of This Incident

As for myself, who quite readily and easily zips about town on my beloved midnight blue Honda Scoopy, this is a cautionary tale. Of course, I pay attention when I drive. There are trucks, cars, parked vehicles whose doors unexpectedly pop open into oncoming traffic (so far my swerve-and-miss reflexes have served me well), pedestrians crossing in the middle of the street, the hundreds of stray dogs that aimlessly meander into or flop directly onto the road, and all the other motorcycles that join with me on their own travels throughout the city.

We all pay attention to one another.

But there are times when I’m in a hurry. I’m late to the office. I want to get to the bank before it closes. I’m meeting a friend and running behind schedule. I need a quick 20-minute run to the D-mart (grocery store similar to Walmart) for my Diet Coke. Or I have an after-work 7:30 p.m. dash to the open air market for purchasing fresh produce.

In such instances, my mind is often racing in advance to the task ahead, with little or no concentration in getting there in one piece.

Do I dare mention the days when my vanity wins out? Sometimes, if I’m going a couple of blocks up the road and back again, the helmet stays off. I don’t want to mess up my hair before class.

Santi’s recent accident has reminded me that I must be more careful. In a car, we are somewhat protected from injury due to seatbelts and the metal that surrounds us. On a motorbike, it’s a different story, as seen with Santi’s injuries. (How fortunate they were not life-threatening. It could have been so much worse.)

I certainly am not rejoicing in Santi’s accident but I will say it has given me pause when it comes to my own motoring skills. No more carefree, absent-minded whizzing about the city or journeying on the long route leading to the church on Sunday. And absolutely no more helmet-less jogs up the road and back for lunchtime meals or snack runs. I got it. Time to be 100% more vigilant.

A Parting Note

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Transportation for me sure has come a long way from China, those many years ago, on my Red Lion bicycle. I was so proud of that $35 purchase.

No helmets present then, fewer cars and trucks, slow (snail-like) progression of traffic, sudden stops at shops or markets never causing panic from behind, and smiles or waves galore given in abundance.

Ah, the good-ole days of bicycling around Nanchang city, 1991!

Reminiscing about those many years ago in China, I did wonder a bit. If I could, would I exchange the safe, calming, leisure ride of my Red Lion bike for the hectic dashing, darting and fast arrival time of my Honda Scoopy?

Hmmmm. What do you think?

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My New Apartment!

It’s going on Week 3 since my move into my new apartment.

I’ve been searching for a more permanent place since January. I needed a new residence, one that would hold all my Covid-abandoned “stuff” that is still in China. My Australian friend (Geoff) and his Chinese wife (Snow, in a wheelchair after a debilitating stroke) continue to hold it all in a spare bedroom. I’ve been told it’s called “Connie’s Room,” as well it should be since it is literally stacked with over 30-years of overseas’ belongings (Yes, I’ve been doing this for 30 years now.)

My eventual hope is to return to China for a week to sort through everything, make “keep”, “discard” and “give-away” piles, hire a shipping company and have it all sent to Laos. I plan to do that this summer, after the Center’s term ends and I am freed up from my teaching duties. I’m finding as a director, there is less freedom to up and go whenever I want than there was when I was merely a teacher.

Ah, the responsibilities of being an administrator!

My apartment/house search took me to quite a few interesting places in the city. There are entire houses to rent, apartments and small rooms as well. I looked into houses but they were so palatial. Two stories, 3 or 4 bedrooms, several bathrooms, dining room, big kitchens, gates and walls, huge grassy, tree-filled yards. . . . I certainly didn’t need all that room. Plus many came with a lot of big furniture located in every room.

Most of the owners were not willing to empty out any rooms for my China things so that pretty much nixed that rental.

And I needed something near the Center, not a distant drive away.

I will say I almost was taken in by one house, down a dirt road with a mess of a yard and a nice porch area. It was too tiny for me and very rustic, with an outdoor kitchen (!) . . . . . .

BUT . . . . it came with a puppy. That was almost the selling point. (Ah, Connie and her love of strays.)

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The Win-Over

In the end, I wound up at a place I had passed numerous times to and from the Center. It had been advertised on a flimsy, faded plastic sign, dangling for over 3 months while I zipped by on my motorbike. I didn’t think much about heading down the paved alleyway to get there until I decided might as well take a look. My other searches were coming to no fruition. What could it hurt, a 30 second detour from work on my way home?

Detour I did and, after talking to a few of the expats who lived there, I learned from them the owner not only spoke fluent English but was very accommodating. I next contacted owner Sulisak for a walk-through of one of the 1st floor units.

What I found was excellent space, a completely empty bedroom (good for the China stuff), nice furnishings for living room and second bedroom, a very nifty enclosed wooden-floored garden area, washing machine and included was Wi-Fi, electricity and some cleaning if needed.

Nor did it take me long to make a decision. Sulisak told me he only had two apartments not yet taken. One on the 3rd floor (no elevator) and the one he was showing me. Hauling over 100 boxes of things from China to the third floor would be quite an undertaking for my movers, plus climbing myself 3 flights after a long day at work (in 100 degree weather) didn’t sound too pleasant to me. So I snatched up that 1st floor unit ASAP.

Here I am, giving Sulisak the “thumbs up” right before signing the contract.

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Check this out below and tell me what you think! Jackpot or not?


I’ve been working on the small garden area with plants I “borrowed” from the Center. We have hundreds of potted ones in the courtyard. Might as well give them a proper home with me.

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My New Neighbors: A World Community

Aside from the Laos apartment staff, who know me well for my overly friendly nature and pitiful Laos greetings, I have gotten to know families from all over the world: Sweden, Denmark, Korea, Japan, New Guinea . . . I’m the only American, which suits me just fine.

Today’s new addition to our outer area was this sweet gesture on behalf of two Swedish girls that I met the other day. We have a scroungy, thin, overly friendly kitty that hangs out with our gate keeper in the evenings. He meows his way around, including flopping in the entrance or winding his way around your legs when you disembark from your motorbike.

I parked my beloved blue Scoopy this afternoon and made sure to take the kids up on their offer to leave a little something for our resident stray: water and chicken bits.

With such thoughtful young neighbors, how can one go wrong in living here?

This is Connie in Laos, enjoying her new home (yes, air-conditioned!) with a grateful heart. (Below: My sign outside my apartment door)

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It’s 108 Degrees Fahrenheit!!

It’s been a wicked last 10 days, with temperatures soaring above 100 for what I was told has been an unusual stretch for Laos.  In fact, this week the MOES (Ministry of Education and Sports) announced that schools without air-conditioning or fans would be allowed to close until temperatures started to dip into the 90’s. That’s expected to be next week.  A majority of the country’s local schools, especially those in the countryside, are not holding classes.  In the capital city, where conditions are better, schools are remaining open but most just have fans.  International schools, naturally, with all the expats’ children attending, are good to go. Their outstanding facilities include swimming pools, excellent classroom equipment, fully serviced cafeterias, bus pick-ups and drop-offs, teachers’ private car parking lots, gymnasiums and all else that overseas’ folk expect, in fact demand, for their children’s education.

For the average Laos child, as well as a Laos public school teacher or principal,  these  luxuries are something  achieved in dreams.  I pass by so many of the Laos struggling little schools every day on my motorbike as I weave in and out of traffic.  How grateful I am that my small Center, with all its upkeep problems and daily fix-it needs, does have working air-conditioners in every room.  Sure, the machines struggle to keep going in this heat but our inside 75-degree temperature is certainly better than outside’s 108! 

I heard Monday is to be rain, with a predicted 92.  Maybe some relief?  Let us hope so!

My Free Fridays:  Teaching at the Local Primary School

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Last week finished Grades 1 and 2 at the nearby primary school.  Every Friday, with either staff member Santi or Khambang as my translator, I give a 1-hour English lesson to every grade.  At first, this was to be for Grades 3-5 but the principal and I both felt that was rather unfair for Grades 1 and 2.  Thus we scheduled them in last week before the month of May began.  Here you can see the condition of the classroom but the energy and the enthusiasm of the students make up for the lack of equipment.  We were really hot last Friday as very little breeze was blowing through the room and the ceiling fans had an electrical issue.  Sure hope that got fixed this week!

A Challenging Time for Connie: Running the Center and Being The Only Teacher

Settling into my role as director has been such an inspiring and uplifting, yet stressful, experience. My weekly Monday meetings with staff Khamxay, Shanti, Khambang, Joan (bookkeeper, from the Philippines) and Afiju (teacher, from Sierra Leone) brings me such a feeling of accomplishment. We share our weekend happenings, our lists of get-things-done-for-the-week, address problems, reach solutions, volunteer for duties . . . When those meetings end at noon, we walk away knowing who is doing what as well as never feeling overwhelmed that our plates are too full. We feel free to turn to one another for help, which we do on a regular basis.

The new 3-month term for the Center’s fee-paying classes began last week with 7 new students. My Junior High and Elementary school children’s class picked up 4 students.

The adult classes picked up 3. While I take over the younger students, Afiju , from Sierra Leone, takes care of the adults. However, he will be completing in 3 weeks his semi-volunteer 2-year role as a Global Missions Fellow (GMF) . In June, Afiju is returning to his home country and I will be receiving another GMF to take over his position. The only problem is that person will not be arriving until August. As he will be new to Laos, and to teaching English, I don’t expect him to be able to take over duties immediately.

This leaves me being the only English teacher at the Center.

I will most likely be making some difficult choices: which classes can continue under my instruction, which ones will have to be postponed until the new term begins (September) and what ones can later be added with a young person who is not a professional teacher.

I have so many new, innovative and different kinds of classes to entice people to try us out. “Learn to write and illustrate a children’s book”, “English through Acting”, “Games and Activities: Workshops for the Laos English Teacher”, “Create and Present: A full Powerpoint Course for your Professional or Personal Needs,” “Parents and Kids: Learn English Together!”

These are courses for the future. While I might have to put them on hold for awhile, they are certainly on my top priority list. Let’s see how many I can get off the ground in a year.

Money Issues: Repairs made, Equipment purchased, Building Items Fixed but Income Waning

Then there are the issues of Center funding to keep us afloat.

At present, I have some very strong supporters in America who have graciously given to the Suntisouk Language and Vocational Center (SLVC) through what is known as Advance donations. With these donations, I’ve managed to accomplish a lot: Removal and trimming of rotted trees as well as roof cleaning ($130), rewiring and repair of all dangerous electrical wiring ($65), fixing my molded office ceiling and leak ($45), purchasing of finger-recognition check-in for staff, 2 office computers with Word licensing, a classroom projector, a whiteboard, 5 bulletin boards, office cell phone, filing cabinet and a printer (@$1,700) and necessary office supplies on a monthly basis (usually about $50). See the below slideshow of YOUR dollars at work here!

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Then we have trash pick-up, drinking water delivery, and electricity and water bills to take care of.

Do I dare mention the monthly taxes which all businesses are required to pay along with yearly taxes as well? Last year, the taxes amounted to $2,100. How those were paid for with so few classes being offered last year, I have no idea.

More To Come!

As you can see, we are making great progress at the Center all due to continued monetary support and interest which so many of you have shown since I arrived. I’ve only been here since December 6 and already, there is a brighter mood, a more hopeful outlook and a whole lot of joyful laughter in the office.

Get this! The highlight for me was receiving a “nothing” USA packet which I sent myself as an experiment to see if it would get to me. Well, yesterday it arrived . . . . 5 months later.

Better late than never, right?

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Laos Critters: A New Experience

“Why is there a black billiard ball in my bathroom?” I wondered, looking down at a rounded thing next to the broom and dustpan sitting nearby the toilet.

I went in for a closer look when. . . poof!!

That ball suddenly enlarged itself and got a whole lot bigger.

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Welcome to Laos, home of all sorts of interesting critters which fascinate and intrigue.

My guest was what is known as a banded bullfrog. A quick search on the Internet found this description on Wikipedia:

“The banded bullfrog (Kaloula pulchra) is a species of frog in the narrow-mouthed frog family Microhylidae. Native to Southeast Asia, it is also known as the Asian painted frog, digging frog, Malaysian bullfrog, common Asian frog, and painted balloon frog. In the pet trade, it is sometimes called the chubby frog. Adults measure 5.4 to 7.5 cm (2.1 to 3.0 in) and have a dark brown back with stripes that vary from copper-brown to salmon pink.”

Poor little guy was obviously scared out of its wits. I had no idea how it got into my home, which is well-sealed from any such reptilian intrusions. Aside from the geckos, which can slither under doorways, this puffed-up bullfrog was a mystery.

I managed to scoop him up, carried him outside and deposited him in a shaded area where he could easily find shelter from the sizzling sun.

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Another Surprising Entity

Wouldn’t you know it, as soon as I walked back to my open doorway another fascinating insect appeared alongside the pool. After taking several pictures, I hightailed it back inside to find out just what kind of insect I was looking at.

This is a water scorpion. My research resulted in the following:


“An underwater predator, the water scorpion hides among dead leaves where it waits to ambush its prey (such as tadpoles and small fish) with its grabbing pincer-like legs. It is known to bite, but its not very painful for humans. It lives in still-water ponds and lakes, and is common around the shallow edges of garden ponds. It is not a true scorpion and is a poor swimmer, preferring to move by walking. Mating takes place in spring and the females lay their eggs at night among algae or plants just below the surface of the water. The larvae hatch and progress to adulthood through a series of moults known as an ‘incomplete metamorphosis’

One interesting fact concerning this one: “The long ‘tail’ of the water scorpion is actually a siphon used for breathing: it protrudes above the water’s surface and acts just like a snorkel.”

Another Inside Visitor

I realize a majority of people don’t care for such creatures but for me, I’ve always found them fascinating. This goes for the scurrying, long-legged big guy who was climbing up my walls in the bedroom. With broom and dustpan, I managed to get him out the door into the sunshine.

What was it? Take a look!

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Here we have what is known as the Giant Huntsman Spider – Heteropoda maxima.

This is one of the largest spiders in the world (going by leg length) and lives solely in Laos. It can have a leg span of up to 30 centimeters (11 inches).

My research reported the following: “The giant huntsman spider is found in Laos, and is believed to be a cave dweller because of its pale color, long legs and special hairs on the second foot of the male. There is no apparent reduction of the eyes, possibly because the species lives near cave entrances.”

Not sure why it was in my apartment, which is certainly not a cave-dwelling environment, but in my apartment it was.

He (or she) was a fast one, too, but I managed to get this arachnid outside into the sunshine where it sat, a tad stunned, until whisking itself away into the shade of a nearby potted plant.

My Favorite: The House Gecko

Spiders, toads, scorpions . . . .Of all my new-found Laotian life forms , if I had to choose a favorite, it would be the gecko. Ants a problem? Mosquitos? Gnats? Flies? Cockroaches? Water bugs?

The house gecko of Laos is a fast one, plastered against the wall and hovering around bright lights where fluttering insect feasts are to be had.

The Suntisouk Center is full of these Gekkonidae (scientific name), scampering up the walls of my office or gathered nightly outside the outer corridor where strong lights attract all sorts of bugs. In my home, the geckos sometimes chirp their contentment while getting rid of those pesky mosquitos that buzz around my head late at night. Definitely a welcome presence in my home, much more than the spiders, toads and scorpions.

So how about you all? Anyone fancy one of my Laos visitors? Or are you busy with your own captivating critters to deal with?

Here’s hoping your week is as happy as mine: It’s Laos New Year holidays! I have a full week off for myself and the staff, which I will say is much deserved.

More on that for my. next entry. Visit my site again soon!

Connie in Vientiane

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A Hail Storm Surprise

“Oh!! Oh!! Oh!!” Santi exclaimed, standing at the glass doorway leading onto the outside corridor.

Staff member Santi, whose hours are from 11 – 7 p.m. at the Center, and I were in the office, waiting for those last 2 hours to end. The other 4 staff members had left already. I usually am hanging out until 7 – 8 p.m. as I have so much work to do.

Santi’s exclamation caught me off-guard as thunder, lightening and then a gigantic tornado-style wind sent leaves, tree branches, our trash cans and potted plants flying around our cement courtyard. Then came pelting sounds hitting our tiled roof.

Marble sized hail!

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And then ……CRASH!!

The courtyard rotted-out tree cracked in two and down it came, just missing the recently-purchased second-hand van.



In fact, Santi had just moved it not more than 10 minutes before as it was blocking the view of the gate. We like to see who is coming and going. Had it stayed where it was, I dread to think what would have happened. This vehicle, which is not really ours but we can use it when necessary, totally destroyed.

My own beloved midnight blue Scoopy, which is only 3 months old, was likewise being pelted by icy circles of hail. Santi was the one who held me back from racing out to move it, which is a good thing as hail can be pretty damaging, especially on people.

Naturally, we excitedly whipped out our cell phones and began recording. This phenomenon is so rare in Laos where our temperatures sore daily into the 100s. Yes, it’s VERY hot here.

The Aftermath

The storm didn’t last long but the mess it left behind is taking the entire week to clear up.

Santi and I had fun searching out mangos from the tall trees and filling bags of those.

There was no way to deal with the fallen tree immediately so we just walked around it. We tisked, muttered, moaned and groaned over the amount of time this would take to clean up. I was concerned as classes began on Monday. Having a huge tree, palm branches everywhere, leaves and branches spread throughout the compound didn’t look very good for our Center.

Already, the place was falling down around my ears needing so many repairs and new office supplies. Having even further damage aired so openly and publicly didn’t make for a very prosperous image.

The Clean-up

Santi had an idea to call the owner and find out if there were any tree folk around or a Laos hiring company that could take care of this quickly. The owner recommended someone but refused to pay so that came out of our SLVC bank account.

For 800,000 Kip ($35, which is a fairly substantial amount of money), the person Santi called said he’d come right away the next day to begin clean-up.

What a relief for Director Connie!

A Pitiful Sight, Every Day

But seeing the tree removed proved more a burden to my heart than I could have ever imagined.

Saturday brought over an older man, all by himself, with a beat-up truck, to deal with the fallen tree by himself. His son was not able to help. That first day, his chainsaw broke due to the thickness of the trunk.

He began with the smaller branches, hacking at those with a machete, before leaving that first day after loading up a truckload of branches.

Sunday was Easter Sunday and the Center had no one here to let him in.

Monday, he returned and spent the entire day in the hot sun, slowly sawing away at the trunk. We encouraged him to drink from our water dispenser. On several occasions, when he went out for lunch, he brought back cups of iced-down Pepsi.

Those drinks are not cheap here in Laos and having so little money already, he must have been treating himself as the job was so very big for just one person.

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A full week later

It is a full week later. Our tree removal man has only a small piece of the trunk left. I was here last evening until 8 p.m., after my children’s class finished, and watched as Lelaine helped him finish up sweeping the rest of the leaves and twigs away. Lelaine stays here in one room for free. She is from the Philippines and teaches at a local school during the day while diligently taking care of the Center’s outside needs. She is the one to protectively guard us, lock the gate at night, open it in the morning, deal with filling trash bags for garbage pick-up, sweep the porch area, unlock and lock doors to all the classrooms, plus just make sure we are somewhat safe from any nefarious people or unusual weather events.

These are the last pictures from yesterday evening. He will be returning either later today or tomorrow to finish up the last of the trunk.

A Note of Cultural Differences

When I mentioned to my Laos office staff that he had worked so hard and I’d be sure to give him a tip, they looked at me blankly.

What’s that?

I explained when someone worked very hard, we often gave extra money to show our appreciation.

I received many frowns of disagreement and disdain for my idea.

“Let him clean out the back of the hall,” one responded rather heartlessly. “He can clean that and then you can give him the extra money.”

The back of the hall was filled with palm branches, twigs, and piles of dried leaves. After his back-breaking labor for 6 days, he was expected to clear out more to receive $13 more?

“Yes!” was the consensus of the group. “Let him clean out the back. He accepted the job. He needs to do more if you give him more money.”

I thought on this for a moment.

“I absolutely agree,” I piped up. “You are all very wise. I am just a foreigner and I’m new to Laos. You can help me learn more about the customs. I need to be careful with my money.”

My office staff smiled and nodded at my prudent decision, all instigated by their careful guidance of clueless Connie.

I in turn smiled, headed out the door, caught the man outside the gate, ….and gave him his tip.


Connie in Laos

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The SLVC Facebook Page is Humming!

My fantastic Laos staff has been busy.

Our Facebook page has exploded in pictures and videos taken by Khamxay and Santi during the courses we 3 teachers hold: Afiju (Village chiefs, college students), Amos (college students, young adults) and myself (elementary and junior high).

Take a look! You can see us in action.

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Due to the Center’s location, rather hidden down a narrow alleyway, and a 2-year hiatus due to Covid, getting back on track has been hard. The previous director, Angie, did her best but things just weren’t picking up until my arrival.

I have now added a junior high class of 6

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And my elementary school students have increased from 4 to 7.

Director Duties: So Busy!

My director duties have led me down some interesting pathways. Mostly, Center repair and clean-up. We have had very limited funding and this has allowed the Center to become somewhat of a safety hazard, not only for the staff but our students as well.

My list of woes are as follows: The roof is leaking (rain has a moldy hole formed above my office desk), plumbing problems (dripping faucets, unusable toilets, broken pipes), electrical issues (we almost had a fire in the larger room assembly hall – sparks flew from the ceiling lights!) and numerous other things.  The electrician came and we are in the process of having all 8 classrooms, office spaces and assembly hall  taken care of.  Next will be plumbing and then the big project of the roof.

A Productive Clean-out

         The staff and I spent an entire day, in nearly 100 degree weather, cleaning out the storage room.  Broken computers, legless chairs, cords and wires, rusted machinery items,  stacks of wet papers, glass panels without frames, huge wooden boards, hundreds of tools and mechanical shop items.

I learned that 4 years ago, the Center was in another location and had tried to create a mechanic’s repair course for motorcycles and small engines. A huge amount of money was used but the course was a failure, due to few students and not a proper garage-type set-up to teach such vocational skills. When the Center moved to the current location, all those items were transported to where we are now and the stuff shoved into a tiny room (along with everything else) where it had remained, untouched, all this time. Not on my watch!

As director, I made an executive decision to empty out the room, keep the expensive equipment (of which there was a lot) to sell and all the broken things would be hauled off to the landfill, most likely.

Here is our lovely storage room now.

That clean-out included lunch on me at a local restaurant and a final exhausting sit-down to fresh mango dropped from our courtyard tree.

What a relief for me when the salvage guy came yesterday, looked over the outer courtyard things we lined up, offered us a price and off it all went.   We received $50 for the steel items. More money for the Center!

Hallelujah!

And on that last note, I’ll close this off, wildly waving my palm branches high and with great joy in honor of our Palm Sunday tomorrow.

From Laos, signing off with a grateful heart.

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A Split in the Laos Team’s Location

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My role as director took a somewhat official turn not long ago. 

 I’ve been getting my feet on the ground for 3 months now, just figuring out all that needs taken care of.  There’s a lot! 

 Angie , former director, will be taking over a different aspect of our service in Laos (that of women).  Her son, Amos along with Modester, are working on the youth.  Daniel  continues with his constant traveling to work with CHAD (Community Health and Development projects.). His work highlights village visits with Laos staff to establish water wells, toilets, help with raising animals as income and applying for other means to help rural communities.  (That’s just a small part of his presence here)

For a very long time, the Language Center has been the office and meeting space  for all projects here.  It’s been crowded but cozy and has allowed me to truly get a good grasp on all that we do here, not to mention getting to know people on a more personal basis.

Well, things have changed.

The 6 Laos staff and book keeper Joan (from the Philippines) have now been split up, with a big move to the office buildings next to the  church a majority of us attend, the one 35 minutes away by motorbike. 

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This decision was to allow the Center to receive more classroom space and concentrate only on education,  not  other  outreach projects in Laos.

It was rather an interesting, rushed move, swiftly done in a morning with a majority of the furniture left at the Center.  My biggest worry had been  that I’d lose some of  “my” 49 stackable chairs in the entire center which I needed for the Sing in English Friday afternoon with the grade school children.  What a relief that Angie, bless her, said to keep the Center chairs and they’d borrow from the church a few chairs so staff have something to sit on. (As you can see, I need my chairs!)

Lunch is On Connie!

Thursday saw us all together for the last time as Angie. Daniel and others dug through cabinets, moved files into boxes, grabbed office desks needed, loaded up one working computer and a bookshelf or two.  Friday was the big move in the morning with my afternoon with the kids.  There would be no time to truly have a moment of a last team farewell so on Thursday, it was all out to eat at a nearby open-street restaurant, on Connie!

For just 310,000 Kip ($15.00), we had a substantial meal. 

What did we have?

Tiny, thin  Khamxay, my wonderful office manager, gobbled down a plateful of rice topped with meat and egg.  Others enjoyed a huge bowl of noodle soup with veggies and pork hunks thrown in.  I had an all-vegetarian soup which the owner graciously created just for me.  

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And as a added bonus for our patronage, the our cook threw in a heaping plate of pork bones which she uses to create the lovely broth all her soups come in.  

With enthusiasm, several dug in to grab up  and gnaw away at the left-over fat and meat still clinging to the osseous matter.

Nor did the Laos joy end there.  

Several of the staff have dogs at home.  Plastic bags were filled with the remains of the bone pile.  These were hung on motorbike handlebars for after-work delivery, with the drive being between 30 – 45 minutes to where a majority of the staff live.  I could just imagine some very excited and appreciative canines, enjoying the leftovers of  lunch on Connie.

How very pleased I was to have our Laos joy spread both near and far.  

The New Routine

At present, the two locations have the Laos staff spending some time with me, other times at the distant office.

Khamxay, my administrative officer, and I are 5 days a week in the Center.

 Monday, Tuesday and Friday, we are joined by bookkeeper Joan, material translator (among other duties)  Khambang and spoken/report writer and  translator for CHAD, Santi.  Santi’s hours are from 11 – 7 p.m., which gives Khamxay ability to leave at 5 while Santi remains behind to help with Laos-speaking parents or newcomers studying at the Center.

Two other staff  remain at the second office 5 days a week:  Nyai, our treasurer, and Chantao, also with CHAD.

New Equipment Needed

With this split in office came a split in equipment and some office furnishings. You can see below what left the Center and what I will be needing to replace.

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The  items of greatest need at the Center:  Another motorbike for staff use as we lost 2 to the other office; Office book shelves to store all the Center folder reports; a desktop  computer (we now  only have 1 for office use, which can’t be shared among 3 people, obviously); cork bulletin boards for every classroom;  a Center-only updated cell phone (no landlines here –  Khamxay has often been using his  private phone for people to call concerning Center business and signing up for courses); a cabinet of some sort for Connie.  My office needs a larger space for storing items in.  I just have a small one, which is doable for now but I need something bigger.

The numerous dollars many of you readers have given through the Center’s  donation number, what we call the Advance within the United Methodist Church,  is going to allow me to get the computer and cellphone fairly quickly.  We’ve already been shopping for prices.  Next week, I will request the funds from our treasurer and complete the necessary paperwork of purchasing. See below what we enjoyed scouting out at both the computer store and the D-mart, which is similar to our USA Walmart.

Closing Off

Yes, as you can see, so many exciting things happening here.  Stay tuned for more “settling in” posts.  I always enjoy sharing.  

Connie in Laos

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From Laos, Suntisouk Center News: Word is Spreading!

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Yes, folks, word is spreading! 

It’s been 2 weeks since my last post and I must say, news from here is uplifting and positive.

  14 new students at various levels and ages have joined our different classes.  We have 3 more additional village chiefs in our free class offered to those particular officials.  We have 2 new beginning level adults, sisters who want to learn English as one will be going to America to marry a Hmong-American Hmong, by the way, is an ethnic minority in Asia, being one of the more prevalent in Laos. The young man has been looking for a wife.  (From what I understand, the families of the couple involved knew one other so set up a meet-and-greet of sorts from afar. The girl is waiting for visa and documentation approval, which takes up to a year or longer.)  I gained 2 children in my elementary school class.   

Furthermore, I have just started a junior high school class of 5 which hopefully will grow. While the little kids are endearing, they can be a handful so teaching at a higher level than elementary education has become a refreshing experience.

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This news is exciting but as the director, it also is a bit worrying.  We only have 3 continuously active English teachers:  Afiju (Sierre Leone, our Global Mission Fellow who will leave in June), Amos (Philippines, former director’s son) and myself.  Modester (Malawi, also a GMF) teaches 1 1/2 hours every morning at a local kindergarten but is mostly engaging in the LMI (Laos Mission Initiative) youth and young adults programs. She will be taking on no new teaching assignments and also is leaving in June.

With limited educators, private classes of one or two students is not something we can do on a regular basis for the future.  I am working on advertising for larger classroom settings, which means better time management for us teachers, more money for Center repairs (so many in this OLD complex we are renting) and supplies. 

Why Word is Spreading 

 My guess is the free “Let’s Sing in English!” event which has been going on now for 3 weeks, every Friday afternoon from 4-5 p.m.  Originally, this was to be a 6-7 p.m. event but let me explain what happened to that evening time slot.

I mentioned that there were several elements involved in the start of this idea I had, which began 7 weeks ago.  First was creating fliers in both Laos and English.  My great administrative officer, Khamxay, did an excellent job of putting those together for me and copying. 

Next was the appointed visits to our village chief, with me carrying a gift basket put together by the staff.  To save money, we bought goodies separately at the grocery, hauled out used baskets gifted to me and Angie for Christmas and then the staff packed the baskets to make them look nice. 

What goes in a gift basket?  Ours included:  cookies, Ovaltine (very popular in Laos), fruit juice container, Nescafe instant coffee , tea bags and a few other interesting items.   

Angie, former director who has moved into the Laos women’s leadership training role, brought me both to visit our village chief  for a personal meet-and-greet as well as including a nearby elementary school principal.   

Both were very receptive of our presence.  The staff translated.  We shared our concerns for education among the Laos people.  The village chief and principal both responded positively to our hoped-for attendance of the event.  Our fliers were left with both and I had a feeling of great confidence that the 6-7 p.m. timeslot would go over well. 

Principal Calls with Suggestion 

It was the elementary school principal who called with a request:  Can we separately do the Let’s Sing in English from 4-5 for 3 of her grades?  Every week for 3 weeks, the teachers could walk the students over after their class ended at 4.  We’d do Grade 5 first, then Grade 4 and Grade 3. 

What a wonderful idea!  I absolutely agreed and felt this would be a good opportunity for me to practice first with the kids and then adjust for the 6-7 p.m. timeslot. 

Lots of Careful Prep Work means Lots of Success 

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Our first Friday event had me  and the staff scrambling to get 51 chairs in place.  We have only 49  stackable chairs in the entire Center.  I raced around, grabbing every chair out of the classrooms and moving them into the main hall with the help of the staff.  We cleaned the hall floors, turned on the air-con for comfort, and set up the PPT projector which had to be brought from the classroom.  Then we had the sound system as well to check.  We got the hall bathrooms into working order, swept the outside courtyard and prepared cookie snacks for the children after their visit with us. 

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We threw open the sliding gate at 3:40 after we were informed the students were on their way and we waited anxiously.  Here they are below.

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In they came, shy at first but eager to learn and with so many smiles. After our warm-up exercises, our English chant practice,   movement song time, group work and eventual volunteer performances, they were energized and ready to learn more.   

Their teachers, including the principal who joined as well, grandly participated along with the little ones.  In other words, fun was had by all. 

Our elementary school 4- 5 p.m.  session continued onward for the next 2 Fridays with Grades 4 and 3. I made some adjustments as the English levels required which worked out extremely well.  

What a great connection for my very first Center outreach program!   Here are some visuals of the 3 visits we had.

Don’t think that was all me, however.  All the Center staff were involved, including former director Angie, to help usher students in and out, help with the PPT, set up the chairs, lead students to and from the bathroom, monitor group work, give verbal translations and make sure children received their cookie snacks we provided after they ended their time with us. 

6-7 p.m. Public Invitation:  A bust 

I had had great hopes of that 6 – 7 p.m. public invite.  I was ready to go after the elementary kids left that first Friday.  The staff graciously hung in there after hours to help. We repositioned chairs, swept the floor again, checked the bathrooms, kept the air-con running, waited by the gate for the next wave to come and . . . . 

No one. 

Only my private class of 6 elementary school kids came since their parents were told no class but we’d have singing night. 

Due to this, I ended up teaching them a regular evening class with the hopes that maybe next week would be different. 

It wasn’t.  Nor was the 3rd week any more successful.  I quickly learned that Friday night, people are tired and want to begin their weekend, not come to an English language event at a small, unknown, hard-to-find language center. 

I ended up sending the staff home at 5 p.m., much to their happiness, and we decided to nix the Friday evening Let’s Sing in English event.  

The elementary school I hope will continue, repeating again Grades 5, 4 and 3 with new songs and activities.  This will be done as long as the principal wants us to continue.  I am waiting to hear of her decision at present.

In Closing: Check out the Center’s Facebook Page! 

I have more ideas stirring about in my head for large invite gatherings. As a newbie to Laos, it will be a matter of listening to staff suggestions, asking locals what they are interested in, figuring out what’s doable and experimenting.

In the meantime, please check out the Facebook page of the Center.

https://www.facebook.com/suntisouklvc

These amazing posts are currently being done by Khamxay, my stalwart administrative officer whose many duties keep him incredibly busy.  He’s also taking business classes in the evenings at a college very near the Center.  How he continues daily with such a kind, joyful, enthusiastic and willing spirit is beyond me.  I’m guessing a large part of that is that he’s a Christian, not to mention an unpaid pastor along with his dad at a countryside church outside of the city.   

Every day I’m here, I learn more and more about the strong commitment of my Center staff to education and serving others.  They are so inspiring!  With such an uplifting group, and with so many overseas supporters such as yourselves who follow this site, how can we possibly fail? 

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