A surprise visit from our Village Chief

Khamxay and I were all alone in the office this Thursday afternoon when suddenly, through our glass door, we saw someone wandering around the Center’s courtyard.

With the summer break currently underway, there are no classes and thus the place is pretty quiet. No parents on motorbikes driving their children through our gates. No noisy kids running about, waiting for class to begin. No junior high students leisurely sauntering through the gates with cell phones in hand.

Just me and Khamxay holding down the fort, with caretaker Suher holed up working on his computer in the small dining room next to the outside kitchenette.

“Khamxay, ” I piped up. “I know that person! It’s our village chief.”

What’s a Village Chief?

I posted about village chiefs when I first came.

” Village Chiefs function at the lowest level of government. They are responsible for communicating and implementing central government policies while also playing a pivotal role in determining if what villagers want, or wish to avoid, is acted on.”

Vientiane (the capital city, where I live) has 11 districts and 152 villages. I would consider a village chief to be somewhat the equivalent of a US city council member, who represents different districts (neighborhoods) of a town or city.

To be a candidate for a village chief in Laos, the person must belong to the Communist Party and be elected by the villagers in the area. They receive no government salary but receive funding from the government for special projects and administrative costs. Monetary gifts given by residents for special events also help to pay for activities that all villagers are invited to, such as holiday celebrations thrown at the village hall.

Our Village Chief’s Visit

Khamxay and I scurried quickly outside to greet our surprise VIP visitor.

Village Chief Buaphaeng is new to the role, just having been voted into his position in January. I was invited to his meet-and-greet for our village, Bounphon. The invitation was quite an honor. In the past, the Center nor foreigner had ever been included in the opening meeting. How nice that I, a newcomer to Laos, was given a formal invitation to attend.

Part of that invitation was due to a more formal visit from me, bringing a gift basket on behalf of the Center and myself as the new director of SLVC. (See below)

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I also saw Village Chief Buaphaeng once again for Laos New Year festivities, the Water Festival, where I and staff member Khamxay enjoyed gathering with the neighborhood at the Village Chief headquarters to celebrate.

What was the Visit’s Occasion?

Today’s visit had Mr. Buaphaeng doing his neighborhood rounds. He mentioned to Khamxay that he heard a “boom!” and was driving around back alleyways and down side streets, ours being one of them, to investigate. Our gate was open so in he came.

I must say, our Center is not in the best condition. As you know, we suffer from plumbing problems, roof leaks, broken concrete, gutters in disrepair and rusted.

Thank goodness for Suher, our recently-hired caretaker. One of his first tasks had been tackling weeds. He’d taken a scythe and filled 4 bags of overgrown bushes and sprouting branches from tree trunks when he first came. What a magnificent difference that had made!

He’d swept well that morning so we were not littered with squashed mangos (all dropping from our mango trees), the constant deluge of fallen leaves or the giant palm branches as well as coconuts from our coconut trees.

Yesterday’s task had him scooping up with a shovel the sticky muck that had gathered under the motorcycle shelter. Our incessant rain, day and night, has caused gushing riverlets carrying dirt, leaves, and twigs to pool where we park our motorbikes. Our bike wheels had been slipping and sliding under the muddy mess. And when we dismounted, our shoes became caked in filth which we dragged into our office spaces. Suher’s efforts took care of that one, as you can see below.

One less humiliating visual our village chief had to survey.

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We are definitely tidy but in obvious disrepair. As a language center, compared to all the fancy ones around the city (which charge hundreds of dollars for classes), we don’t present the best appearance. Yet we now have a growing reputation for not only being affordable and accommodating to our learners, but having very professional teaching, above and beyond those other pricey establishments.

After our brief talk with Mr. Buaphaeng, his first time to visit us, we invited him into the office for a water bottle give-away (this is the go-to gift handed out to all guests in Laos) and some hard coffee candies. That’s all we had to offer. He guzzled the water and took a sparse few candies for his pockets. We then ushered him out the gate for him to continue on his rounds.

I did make sure to thank him for welcoming me to Laos with invitations to our village events. That made me feel like a part of the community, as a foreigner.

He also answered me in English, which I was quite impressed by. Not many village chiefs can communicate in English. It certainly is needed as the ex-pat community in the capital city, Vientiane, is substantial. So many foreigners here: overseas NGO’s, embassy workers, international schools, travelers, retired folk . . . This is why we offer free English classes to village chiefs who would like to learn enough to talk to their foreign visitors. Hopefully, those will start up again in September.

Other Moments of Embarrassment

Aside from the state of the buildings, we had two more embarrassments of note.

First was my attire. I was not expecting the need to look somewhat decent or presentable, especially with the relaxed schedule. I had on my ragged jean shorts and Laos T-shirt which, while clean, was not exactly the appearance one would want to present to your village leader.

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The second was our two Laos thatched-roof huts.

I inherited these from the previous director who bought them 5 years ago for kids to hang out in. As it ended up, there were no kids as no one signed up for classes years ago. When Covid hit, the Center went to a few online teaching courses. And currently, none of my students want to be outside in the heat while waiting for classes. They are in the main hall, playing tabletop games in the air-conditioning, or enjoying throwing basketballs into the one hoop we have. So basically, for 5 years, the huts just sat there and became more and more dilapidated as the years went on.

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I’ve been here for 7 months and have wanted them gone but keep forgetting to bring it up in our staff meetings as we have so many other issues to deal with.

Khamxay’s remarks after our village chief left , however, certainly put those huts at the top of my things-to-do list once again.

“Connie, you know, I was so embarrassed,” he lamented as soon as we re-entered the gate. “I wanted to hide my face in shame when the village chief saw those huts. His eyes looked at them and I know what he is thinking. How ugly they are. So Terrible!! We must do something. It looks bad for our Center.”

“I know, Khamxay,” I responded. “I absolutely agree. I had that on my list months ago but just got busy with other things. Don’t worry, though. We’ll get this taken care of!”

I then went directly into my office, opened the computer and put on our agenda for the weekly Monday morning meeting: “Ugly Laos huts: Repair? Sell? Haul away? Other ideas?”

I’m not forgetting to deal with these eyesores this time around. Our village chief said it all with his tell-all glance, according to Khamxay’s astute observation, so deal with it we will.

Until next time, Connie in Laos signing off.



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“We’re at the Chinese Embassy. Where are you?”

Truck arrives

Well, folks, it’s been some morning.
After numerous back-and-forths with the Guangzhou China Shipping Company agent for the last 3 days, my things from China finally arrived.

They left Chengdu on July 11, arrived into Laos on July 21 (Sunday) and landed in Vientiane yesterday. My Chinese exchange with the China representative had him wanting to deliver on my phone call, immediately, at 5:30 p.m., while I was sitting leisurely in the office with Santi and Khamxay.

“NO!” I adamantly said. “Tomorrow. Wednesday. 11 a.m.”

I was asked to link him to my apartment building’s location, which I did, and was OKed for time and place. I prepared my apartment space with care and was ready to go!

On time. . . Somewhat

At 11 a.m. ,when I got the call from the Laos driver, I had not a clue what he was saying. I had to hang up on the poor man, send his number to Santi (one of my staff in the office who serves as translator), have him call back and figure out what was going on.

“They are at the Chinese Embassy,” Santi reported back to me.

What?!! Why at the Chinese Embassy?

Obviously, the agent in China didn’t send them my location. And the fact that my address was typed and clearly stated IN ENGLISH didn’t help. (How are these delivery haulers, who haven’t had much education beyond grade school, supposed to read an English address?)

Since the stuff was coming from China, they assumed it might be a Chinese embassy new arrival, thus the stop in front of the Chinese embassy.

“Don’t worry,” Santi quickly piped up to my moans and groans. “I will lead them to your apartment.”

And lead away he did! (See us below)

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At 11:35, the truck pulled up. Four Laos workers descended from the vehicle’s cabin to begin unloading. Under my direction, we made very quick progress.

Making Someone’s Day

It is not the custom here to tip but I have always been one who knows how such gestures brighten a person’s day.

I knew it would be a challenge to get across my requirements for this move. I had a system and a plan in my head to make a smooth transition of the entire enterprise. Getting it translated well enough so as not to cause annoyance was another story but Santi did a great job.

The 4 workers were not too thrilled with my plan that we open the boxes quickly to make sure other boxes weren’t inside. The shipping company reboxed some of my previously boxed and labeled items, meaning that I wanted to get rid of excess cardboard as soon as possible. Easier to do that outside than in my apartment.

When Santi made this request, I could see the bemused looks on all their faces, including eyeing one another with a very readable, “What is this foreigner thinking?! We are going to unpack her things and put them away for her? She’s nuts.”

Santi and I worked together to explain just a quick knife-slice of the tape, peek-a-boo inside to see if already boxed or not and then immediate carry-in was all I desired. I furthermore added I’d help if they’d like, after presenting them with my kitchen parring knives to add further ease to the ask.

Once we had that established, and started in with this whiz-bang approach, they were a lot happier. It went very fast and included me handing out candies from my candy bowl as they did their back-and-forth journeys.

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The discarded boxes, wooden crate materials and bubble wrap were gleefully stacked and hauled away by my apartment caretaker. He will be making quite a bit of money off of those with our neighborhood recycle guy who pays by the pound for paper and other products.

When all was finished, and my signature on the release form, I gave one last request: Come into my home so we could take a picture together.

It was obvious that they just wanted to get on their way but 3 of them were actually quite eager to have our photo taken together, a first for them with a client.

Santi did the honors with my camera . . . .

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And then I did the honors with my purse.

Talk about surprise and appreciation! They were so happy to get a little extra added in, something not expected. It wasn’t much, equivalent of $4, but enough to fill a motorbike tank full of gas and a meal.

A Third Floor Moving Story

Thank goodness I didn’t live on the 2nd or 3rd floor, like my Korean neighbors. Their things were brought in 2 truckloads and the poor Laos handlers had to carry not only boxes but furniture, and an upright piano (!), to the 3rd floor.

I know for a fact they didn’t get a tip. They certainly should have.
I still remember watching 8 Laos men struggling to get that piano up the stairs to each landing

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It was a scary moment when it looked as if it would slip. As I watched with great concern for their safety (forget the piano — it was dangerous to lift that thing on slippery tile!), my Korean neighbor was chuckling.

“You see how many Lao workers are carrying that,” he somewhat scoffed. With arrogant pride, he added, “In Korea, two men only to move my piano.”

That didn’t sit well with me.

“In Korea,” I shot back, “I doubt they had to carry it up 3 flights of stairs.”

Didn’t get a response to that one.

Welcome to Your New Home

It’ll be at least a few week’s task unpacking and sorting through things: tossing, keeping, giving away, recyling (loose papers, folders, unwanted books are included in those heavy bags lining the wall) and then pondering more if I want certain items tossed or kept or given away . . .

Still not sure what emotions will follow as I come to grips with this very personal move.

One chapter of my life closing; another opening up.

Signing off for now,

Connie in Laos


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Buddhist Lental season tomorrow; Monday Holiday

“Connie,” Khamxay, a wide grin on his face, reported to me with his cell phone extended. “I have something to tell you. We have a holiday on Monday. Women’s Labor Union Day. No work.”

He showed me the official announcement from the Ministry of Education and Sports, highlighted in red in the Laos language.

Oh, how we all love to hear that announcement! 3-day holiday. Whoopee!

In the office today, I announced to the staff and was then told by Santi about yet another holiday of sorts, that celebrated by the Buddhists. Tomorrow begins the 3-month ‘Lenten season of Buddhism.

According to Santi, thousands will be visiting the temples tomorrow, with flowers and offerings as this special religious season begins. Devout Buddhists make sure not to eat meat or harm living creatures (I wonder if that includes insects?) for the next 3 months. They live as sacred a life as they can mange, honoring the teachings of Buddha.

“You’ll want to go out to see this in person,” he told me. And as it’s a Saturday, I’ll have plenty of time to do that since the office is closed for the weekend.

My research led me to the following, which you can read below:

BOUN KHAO PHANSA (BUDDHIST LENT) – 20 JULY 2024

Held on the full moon, this festival marks the beginning of Buddhist Lent, the three-month period of monastic seclusion and meditation during the rainy season, when monks are required to stay within their wat. Monks are traditionally ordained during this period.

Many devout people often abstain from alcohol during this time. In the early morning of Boun Khao Phansa, people prepare donations of food, especially “Khao Tom” (cooked sticky rice wrapped in banana leave), and necessities like soap, toothpaste, toothbrushes and towels for the monks. Most temples are busy during this time with people making merit and giving donations. At the end of these merit-making activities, the monks will recite the teaching of Buddha and tell the history of the Buddhist Lent to temple-goers. Later in the evening, monks, and novices cannot leave their monasteries to become lay-people and traditionally lay-people are not allowed to get married until the end of the Buddhist Lent or Ok Phansa. Ok Pansa is one of the most beautiful times to visit Laos 

Pouring Rains Dampen Spirits

I do wonder, however, if our continuous downpours might cause temple visitors to delay their arrival times for worship.

Usually, our horrendous rains hit at night while we are sleeping but yesterday, Khamxay and I were stuck at the office until 6:30 p.m. as we waited over an hour to leave.

While I had only a short 5-minute drive home, Khamxay had a 40-minute drive ahead of him back to the church as he and his extended family are currently living in an adjacent church building while they wait for their house to be finished. It’s in the beginning stages of being built. Without anyplace to stay, the church offered a building for them to live in with a few rooms. No air-conditioner, no kitchen facilities or bathroom. Plus having to drive that awful church road mudpit, every day, is bad enough after the rains but a lot worse in the smack-dab middle of them.

We eventually gave up at 6:30 p.m. We exited in a torrential raining-cats-and-dogs situation. If we’d stayed, we’d have been sleeping at the Center because that rain just wouldn’t give up. (It continued until 3 a.m. in the morning.)

Before heading out the office door, Khamxay’s sister and brother-in-law face-timed him that they were hungry. Can you pick up take-out on your way home?

A Quick Note about Khamxay’s Sister

His 36-year-old sister is expecting her 3rd child any day now. I am sure she has been feeling very uncomfortable lately, due to her currently huge size.

I’ve worried how the family will manage to get her to the city hospital when transportation might only be a motorbike. There is an old car but last time Khamxay and his dad took it out, they had a flat tire and no money to get a spare or replacement tire.

The average Laos woman doesn’t have the luxury of picking a date and time for induced labor, then leisurely go to the hospital to have this done. Such costs are not in budgets, especially when there is no income and having a child (roughly $250) is a matter of borrowing from numerous friends and family members. Therefore babies here, like in the “old” days, come at any time of day or night. And with weather conditions so unpredictable during the rainy season, one wonders what future family stories of “when you were born” might include a drenched Mother (in labor) holding on for dear life while on the back of a motorbike that is slipping and sliding through the muck and mud.

I could see on that video chat that everyone looked stressed and tired.

His sister was loudly scolding the oldest child, who was messing about in the background, and her husband was muttering something or other in the Laos language concerning not sure what. It was late, too, and everyone must have been hungry, which put everyone not in the best of moods.

Before Khamxay took off, with me to lock the security gate behind us, I handed over some money for a meal on Connie.

“It’s for your sister,” I told him. “She needs a substantial meal to keep up her strength for having the baby. And you all need just as much energy to help support her. Get something good!”

After Khamxay arrived home, he thanked me for the treat. He sent these pictures of his roadside take-out stop in the wet and gloom, later followed by happier postings, that of his close knit family sitting down together to eat.

Looks like everyone had a lot better dinner than I had with my measly chicken and vegetable concoction. Not very tasty but it was something to eat.

Closing Off

I’ll do my best to zip about the city tomorrow, taking pictures of those entering temples and what they’re purchasing. It is not appropriate to take pictures inside temple areas. I’ll just stick to outside. Maybe I can slip in between a downpour, if we end up like we did yesterday.

And let’s pray that Khamxay’s new little niece (yes, it’s a girl!) holds off long enough for a no-rain trip to the delivery room. Keep his family in your thoughts and I’ll keep you all updated on the baby’s arrival.

Connie in Laos

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Some Fun Last-week Experiences

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Friday had me once again at the primary school, from 8:30 t0 11:00, teaching Grades 1 and 2.

A new experience for me was during the 30-minute break between the 9:30 – 10 a.m. class.

The children were allowed to visit the student concession stand, which sells all kinds of single-serving packet snacks. Potato chips, corn curls, peanuts, marshmallow packets, cookies, juice cartons . . . The children race about with their money, able to buy whatever they want while teachers stay in the classroom or lounge around outside.

I sat under a courtyard tree and was immediately surrounded by different age levels, all of whom knew me as I have taken turns teaching them all. Some remembered our lessons together and began doing our English chants of songs. Others just stared with wide-eyed wonder, listening to those of the higher grades communicate with more than “OK”, “Yes” or “No.”

I have 2 children at this school who have exceptional English skills. Both have parents that are in business and speak to overseas’ clients. Both could actually have decent conversations and they certainly had a lot to say!

This caused some astonishment among the others, who stood by in awe and wonder that the strange sounds coming from all 3 of us actually were understood and had meaning.

As for most surrounding me, our communication was limited to lots of gestures and exaggerated facial expressions on my part to get across my English as well as limited Laos. I’m hoping all of this improves in the next several weeks as I work on my language skills.

A Sunday Pitstop After Church

My 35-minute drive to and from church takes me through several small towns and country roads. It also includes me holding my breath, praying that I don’t end up sprawled on the side of the road due to the mud and muck after our continuous heavy downpours. With little ability to go around puddles, you just have to plow through the deep water and pray the tires don’t suddenly slide out from under you, sending the motorcycle careening to the right or left.

At the outskirts of one of these towns, I’ve continuously whizzed by the chicken barbecue roadside stall without ever stopping. Going to church, I’m usually worried about making it on time for our 10 a.m. service. Returning from church, I’ve already had our substantial lunch served after worship and, as it’s usually around 1:30 p.m., I just want to go home. I’m tired!

But last Sunday, I was feeling overly energetic and sociable so I stopped.

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These are entire chickens, skewered and grilled, brushed with a flavorful and spicy sauce or (if you prefer) just left plain.

The cost for one was 84,000 Kip ($3.40). Once purchased, the sellers would chop it up for you and place in a plastic bag for take-out.

The popularity of this particular place has always astounded me. It’s very busy. I counted 53 chickens sizzling away.

I would have purchased one but I was a little short of cash. I’d already spent over $15 at the church, purchasing 40 plastic bracelets for the youth fundraiser. I certainly didn’t need 40 plastic beaded bracelets so I ended up passing out to all the ladies and young people, anyone who wanted one. Certainly made my day, and theirs, but it left me with little to spend for a chicken.

I made motions of an empty pocketbook but next week, I’ll be sure to bring enough for a purchase or two. That will make for a tasty Sunday dinner.

Yum! Can’t wait.

From Laos, here’s hoping the beginning of your week is a good one.

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Updates for the last day of the Center’s term and last week’s housewarming pictures

This has been a busy week as classes wrap up for the term. I was preparing my last few PPTs (power points) for my junior high and primary school classes, finishing this Friday’s PPT for Grades 1 and 2 at the primary school, writing the written test for the elementary ed class s as they finish Book 4 of Let’s Go and figuring out what my junior high students will do for their closure to their class. Also preparing and signing certificates of study completion for all 18 students.

This is the first time the Center has ever handed out special certificates.

Khamxay and Santi worked diligently on creating these with English on the front, Laos translation on the back. It took almost a week for us to correct, check, print and make sure no mistakes were made. Tonight, the students will receive them in class.

Pictures from My Home

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It was quite the party atmosphere last Friday afternoon.

I remember I left you with a cliffhanger concerning the electricity and water, which had gone out on me that early morning around 8 a.m.

Did it return or not?
It did, as soon as I walked in the door at 3 p.m. with my entourage right behind me. Whew!

Was that God’s little joke on me, one who always brags of being hostest with the mostest?  One does wonder.

As you can see, our 3-hour time together was one full of fun, great conversations and plenty of goodies to enjoy.

Highlights for me were receiving my written housewarming blessings from everyone, which  were immediately posted on my sitting room wall.  So many lovely prayers and sentiments given.  It really touched my heart.

Game table was another great gathering place for everyone. Thamnong brought her son, who enjoyed the Japanese kendama. This is a wooden toy game demanding skill (and practice) in getting the wooden ball to balance into one of 3 grooves, including spearing the ball on a spike. Amazingly enough, Thamnong became our expert on this one. Her son quickly followed under her guidance.

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My absolute favorite was the stacking chairs game. I couldn’t help but try my hand once again at this one. Khamxay, Thamnong and her son followed.

Closing Off our Time together

Our time together ended in a circle, where we shared our gratitude for fellowship and the daily support we give one another. How very, very fortunate I am to live and work among such lovely people. It was the best day I have spent here so far and I’m guessing there will be more of these to follow.

Next big event, aside from welcoming more overseas newcomers to the Center’s family? My 60th!! The staff has already informed me that I must absolutely have a huge celebration once again in my home.

My feeling about that?
Absolutely yes!

Have a great weekend, everyone. I know I will as the term has finally ended. My last teaching duty fell early this morning at the primary school with Grades 1 and 2, and I am SO ready for a weekend of no lesson planning, no Google searching for language worksheets and hand-outs, and no PPTs to put together, fretting and fussing over pictures, sequencing and English text inclusions.

Yes, here in Laos for Teacher Connie, it’s celebration time!

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A Friday of Mishaps

I certainly do enjoy my Fridays here in Laos but today has been somewhat challenging.

First was my early 5:30 a.m. rise to get in my pool swim. This is my meditation time and think-through-the-day planning. It’s also a preparation reminder to “leave it to God” when it comes to unexpected surprises.

My days can be full of off-kilter events: The classroom ceiling panels suddenly coming down due to our incessant rain (it’s the rainy season now); a new student suddenly arriving and needing hand-outs, books, name card, instructions about the class; signing requests for staff absences, giving signatures for bank deposits, withdrawals, petty cash; misplacing my keys or cell phone or textbook or numerous other items as my head is full of too many things;

Today’s water musings were going over my lesson plan for Grades 4 and 3 at the primary school, also hurrying up my strokes so as not to be late. I still had shower, hair drying, make-up and motoring to the Center to figure into my morning schedule.

Then we have my open house for the staff, which I’ve planned for over two months. I fretted and fussed over having enough snacks, making sure the hot water dispenser was on before I left, and carefully surveying the outside patio and inside sitting room for any messes.

I had already prepped the night before, as you can see below.

The highlight of our time together would be writing blessings and housewarming wishes to post. I wrote my own to welcome all. When I did this in China, I invited all students by class during a 2-week period and had them write “good wishes” cards for my new apartment home. Would you believe I kept them?! Or rather, the best ones. That was 15 years ago, when my campus moved locations. (I hope they are safely tucked away in one of those boxes soon to arrive with the shipping company).

Well-planned, Well-prepared . . . Until Not

Remember I mentioned those unexpected “leave it to God” meditation moments?

After quickly exiting the pool, I managed to get myself ready for teaching with that last overview of my home before . . . the electricity went out. Not only that, but the water as well.

At 8 a.m., that is a tell-tale sign that this might be an all-day occurrence. I’ve been reading about the city having districts shut down utilities with either repairs or rationing.

On Wednesday, my party shopping in the D-Mart was interrupted by an outage. The staff followed around the few of us that were there with cellphone flashlights. After about 15 minutes, with no hope of lights coming back on, we were hustled to check-out. Fortunately, I could get my open house items as the store’s generator kept the registers on.

Maybe that should have been a warning that Friday might have some difficulties.

Primary School Teaching: Grade 4, great! Grade 3, a choatic mess

I was expecting Grades 4 and 3 to be as well-behaved as our past sessions together. Grade 4 was very impressive, mostly due to their teacher. Would you believe she and I are the same age? Not only that, but we have been teaching the same number of years, since we graduated from college in 1988.

Such a well-behaved class.  

Grade 3, however, was a different story.

They were left on their own with no teacher for the day, it seemed.

This is currently the 2-month summer school holiday but I was told those parents that wish to keep their children in school can pay a certain amount of money to do so.  Teachers are required to teach, then, not just during the school year but during vacation as well.   Summer sessions are not quite as structured as the school year ones but the kids do have to behave themselves, which they do until no one is supervising them.

Suher, my translator, and I had quite  a time keeping the boys from racing around the room and making obscene gestures to one another while I was leading them in the new song.  In the end, those last 15 minutes were pretty much a useless venture except for the girls.  They were sweet and followed instructions perfectly.

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Do you want to know the kid that caused us the most grief? He’s that little one in the green T-shirt, in the front row. Smallest kid in the class but with the BIGGEST behavioral problem. He was also speaking English like a pro, obviously having studied at someone’s language center in the city.

His stunning English ability certainly matched his smart-ass spirit, I will say that.

Repairs Taking Place at the Center

As always, the Center continues to give me more unexpected headaches.

The newest one has been the ceiling coming down in the one classroom which I use on a regular basis. At first, it was a slight crack but then the paneling started slipping more and more. A huge gap began and it was just a matter of time before it would come crashing down.

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Khamxay’s brother-in-law is my fix-it man. He dealt with my office ceiling and promised he’d come to take care of the classroom but it had been over a week.

I booked him for today, having given money for materials and labor. What a relief to find that, upon my return from teaching at 11:15, Khamxay’s brother-in-law (along with Khamxay’s brother as assistant) was working diligently in taking care of this.

Not only that but the leaking roof had created a molding circular spot which I knew would only get worse. The two next got busy on roof patching and mold repair.

The total for labor and materials came to $80 USD.

Grateful to Have Money for Upkeep and Center Needs

For any of you who have donated to the Center for my funding asks, thank you for your generous help in getting all these unexpected happenings taken care of.

As you know, Suher is now the caretaker of the Center and is receiving a monthly salary, with your help, of $70 a month. He is also accompanying me as translator for my primary school visits.

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Your gifts continue to be such a relief for all these unexpected Laos events.

Closing Off

As I close off, it is almost 3 p.m., time for me to lead the staff to my home. We’ll have a parade of motorcycles along the streets and entering into the apartment complex.

Will the electricity be back on? Will the water?

I’ve already warned everyone that we might be sitting in the dark, sweating away with no air-conditioner, or roasting on the outside patio. Also, as for the restroom, best to go at the Center before leaving for my place.

Despite the “best laid plans of mice and men,” I have no doubt we’ll have a great time together, with stories to share. Pictures will follow!!

Connie in Laos

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Christmas in July is Coming!

“How wonderful for you!” my former Chinese student in China, Jason, messaged me. “You will soon have all your things, after waiting so long, almost 5 years. I think you will be very happy.”

Very happy? Understatement of the year.

The Story of My “Stuff”

Getting all my things back into my possession has been a huge dilemma since I was locked out of China due to Covid restrictions.

I have been teaching now in this service position since 1987. I began in Japan, then went on to China, then to Taiwan, back to China, a 3-year USA stint due to Covid and finally my new placement in Laos.

And, yes, all my things have followed me over those 35 years. I went from 1 suitcase in Japan to over 100 boxes of teaching supplies, clothes, books, educational materials, bedding, kitchen utensils, cultural gifts and decor, not to mention my American holiday decorations. (Christmas takes up 5 boxes in itself, including strands of lights galore).

I had hoped to return to go through everything, discard, give away or throw away unnecessary items before the shipping company was hired. Sad to say, my tourist visa to enter China was denied last December, . . . . twice. With our two countries’ relations being so poor, this was not surprising but it certainly was disappointing.

My Abandoned Things

The story of my abandoned things is a long one.

First, my college moved all items to another teacher’s apartment on the campus. When it was discovered I would not continue with my English teaching position in that country, my Australian friend (Geoff) who is married to a Chinese woman, Snow, graciously said he’d house my entire household in his wife’s apartment in Luzhou. Arrangements were made and all those 100 boxes-plus were sent to his home. There it was stored for over a year, with my hoped-for visit to go through it all.

That, as mentioned above, didn’t happen.

Jason to the Rescue

With my visa denial, it was next a matter of hiring a shipping company in China to deal with the move to Laos. I had no idea where to start or who to contact.

It was my former student, Jason Li, who came to my aid.
“Let me find a shipping company for you here. There are so many. I can find a good one and see if you’re satisfied with it. If not, I will find another one.”

That was 3 weeks ago.

In a whirlwind of text messages back and forth to me, the shipping company Jason first chose as a possibility won the prize. Their professionalism in answering all of my questions, assessing from a video the estimated cost, being in contact with me day and night put all my fears at rest.

With Geoff’s assistance, a downpayment was wired to the company last Saturday. Two company workers arrived to Geoff’s home on Wednesday to pack it all up.

Within 4 hours, it was in the truck and on its way to the warehouse for weighing.

All that was left were these items which I asked Geoff to haul out of the to-be-sent pile.

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Cost of shipment depends on the weight and cubic meters of goods. Mine filled 3 pallets, cost was calculated, Geoff wired the remaining funds yesterday, the company should receive that transfer today or tomorrow and then, folks, it’s coming to Laos!

Door-to-door service, 15 days from the start of its journey, all customs documents and tax fees are included . . . I do nothing but wait for its arrival.

How’s it coming? I was told by truck and train. I insured for $3,000 so if it goes missing, guess I’ll be enjoying a huge shopping spree in Laos to replace it all.

My Friday Housewarming Gathering for the Laos Staff

It’s going to be a VERY tight squeeze to get everything I own into this apartment here in Laos. I have a small second empty bedroom only so the rest of my things will be scattered throughout the sitting room, patio and my already-crowded bedroom.

With such a mess to deal with in the near future, I am inviting the staff over for my housewarming party this coming Friday. I’ve already informed everyone we’ll be taking off from work Friday afternoon, 3- 6 p.m., to enjoy cakes, cookies, coffee, drinks, fellowship and chatting time at my permanent home here in Laos.

As director of the Center, I can do that! Don’t have to ask anyone’s permission but myself.

Ah, the perks of being the boss, yes?

Be looking for more news from Vientiane, Laos, as I continue to settle into my new adventurous environment: motorbiking, teaching, administrating, learning, hosting . . . . and waiting for Christmas in July (all my things) to arrive very, very, very soon.

Have a great weekend, everyone!

Connie in Laos

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Celebration Time!!!

What a joyful week the staff and I have had!

We have a Caretaker!

With the departure of Lalaine, who previously lived at the Center out of the kindness of her heart, I’ve been searching for someone to take her place.

Briefly, if you recall, Lalaine was from the Philippines and already had a full-time job as an English teacher here at a secondary school. Her help to watch and clean the Center was enlisted 2 years ago by Angie, the former director. She didn’t receive a salary but stayed for free in a small room. She approached me 6 weeks ago about wanting to leave and get an apartment nearer her school. I absolutely agreed! Her service to us was a blessing but it was time for her to “have a rest” (as the Chinese say), take care of herself, not have those 5 a.m. wake-ups to clean before the sun came out or late night lock-ups when we all had left.

During this time, the staff and I have been taking over: sweeping leaves, bagging those for trash pick-up, emptying out garbage cans, mopping the offices and classrooms, scrubbing our public toilets . . . . While sharing duties has been a blessing, it’s just added a little extra to our days.

As for me, the director, a few more duties were with Lalaine’s exit.

I’ve had to come during the weekends to turn off the night security lights on Saturday and Sunday mornings, then come in the evenings to turn them back on again. Every time I motored over on my Honda Scooby, I dreaded turning down our little alleyway. I had this fear the gate would be broken into, I’d enter to find broken office windows and glass doors, and our beautiful new computers gone.

Or, worse yet, the place burned to the ground due to faulty wiring.

Or a part of the roof caved in due to the torrential rains we’ve been having.

Or . . . . . (My mind was always racing as to what disaster I might find.)

How fortunate for us that one of our Laos college scholarship recipients, 23-year-old Suher, was looking for a place to stay after his recent graduation. He just finished 4 years in Business English. He was hoping for a Laos hotel position (we have so many foreign tourists here and business folk) and is applying now. He also is putting his brother through college, who is in his second year, and needed funding for that.

Perfect timing for all of us.

Suher graciously accepted the position last week and has been busy cleaning the grounds. Everything is immaculate. Weeds gone. Tree limbs removed. Fallen coconut tree palms hauled away. Not a single leaf in sight on a daily basis. My classroom is sparkling. Toilets smelling of Clorox and all porcelain entities shining.

Suher also has been tasked in his job description to take care of my rambunctious children when they arrive 20 minutes early. I am teaching the junior high at that time and they’d been a bit of a nuisance, pounding on the classroom door or shouting out, “Teacher!! We are here!!”

Without supervision, it was becoming a problem.

Suher to the rescue! He keeps them occupied at our outside tables with board games, playing badminton or tossing the ball around. All that pent-up energy from a full day at school is released before yet another classroom learning session with me. Finally, my never-ending irksome annoyance of interruptions is no longer.

And his first overnight with us, he discovered this disaster, which happened in one of our unused classrooms.

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Water was leaking throughout the classroom toilet area so Suher quickly turned off the main valve. Had he not been here, inspecting that room or others on a daily basis, our water bill would not only have been through the roof but this mess wouldn’t have been taken care of for . . . days? Weeks? Months?

As Suher continues to look for a suitable job, he will stay here for free and be paid a small salary (one we can afford) to help him with his future as a college graduate.

Thank you, Suher, for all you do and for accepting this vital position to help the Center thrive! We are so very, very fortunate to have you.

VIM Team Visit

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Suher’s timing couldn’t have been more perfect. He came on Thursday, just in time for a Monday visit by overseas’ visitors.

Last Monday, a Volunteer in Mission (VIM) team from West Ohio visited the Center for a few hours, bringing with them 6 used laptop computers for our future computer courses. And teaching supplies for Connie. (Surprise!)

The staff and I had been preparing for their Center visit for 6 weeks. We made snacks available. We carefully set up the classroom. We bought simple gifts. I prepared a power point of the Center’s activities and our needs.

The group was on the tail end of their 10-day stay in Laos after leading several Laos women gathering events.

I was so pleased to host them as a director, even if for a few hours.

Connie’s Treat: Staff luncheon Today

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In celebration of Suher joining our staff and a very successful VIM visit, I suggested we have a Friday luncheon on Connie.

Khamxay chose an Indian restaurant around the corner from us. We were joined not only by the Center’s staff but by the other divisions of my placement here, including community , women and youth development.

The Center is located in Vientiane but the other offices are located on a 35-minute drive from the city, at the church that I attend in the countryside.

It is not often that we all get together so this was a very special event. We were only missing Daniel Yang, one of the community program developers, and his wife, Christy. The two had dashed over to Thailand for a quick over-the-border exit and re-entry so Christy could get her 1-month tourist visa renewed. Khamxay is still working on her permanent spouse visa, good for a year. While waiting for that process to take place, the option of the 1-month visa is what most foreigners in Laos do before a permanent visa can be completed.

Look at our happy faces (and all that great food)! 

What a great way to end the week here at the Center:  A new staff member, computers and teaching supply gifts from abroad, marvelously cleaned buildings and compound (now looked after on a regular basis), great food and even better, having a unique and much-needed fellowship time together.

Ah, yes! And did I forget to mention that office manager, Khamxay,  is getting more requests from parents and others about adding future classes to our class schedule?  Not only that, but I have 2 new students!

Despite still being the only teacher for the next few months, our reputation is growing.   I’m expecting our next Global Mission Volunteer to arrive in August so this places us in a good position to add those extra courses parents are begging for.

As I said, lots to celebrate, which hopefully more of those on the horizon.  Stay tuned!
Connie in Laos, closing off.

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Laos Updates: Geckos, Licenses, Send-offs

Do geckos bite?

Well, apparently they do.

The tiny, itty-bitty ones that are present everywhere (in my home, in my office, in the classroom, climbing outer corridor walls) are darling little things, quite harmless and somewhat of a comfort. They get rid of all those pesky ants that swarm in drawers or on top of desks, not to mention the spiders or those annoying gnats.

But the big one that sandwiched itself between the outer screen in my office and the window was a monstrous size. I thought grabbing his tender lengthy body and depositing him into the bushes would be an easy task.

NOT!

He hissed. He dodged. He scampered.

And then he bit.

Ouch!

That was unpleasant. Left my thumb bloodied and sore for the rest of the day. Plus looks like I’ll have a scar as a reminder of yet another overseas’ lesson learned about being careful.

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My Midnight Blue Honda Scoopy: I’m Registered!

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It’s official.

My office manager, Khamxay, delivered my Scoopy to me yesterday with my motorbike license plate attached. After 3 1/2 months of waiting, my bike is officially registered with the Vientiane Laos vehicle department as being a legal member of the country’s transportation society.

How exciting!

Yet an interesting discovery ensued as Khamxay explained to me the intricacies of vehicle registration, namely that a majority of drivers here not only don’t have a driver’s license, their vehicles aren’t even registered.

No wonder I don’t always see license plates on the hundreds of motorbikes that speed alongside me.

On his first visit to the vehicle registration compound, my motorbike received an inspection for safety, after which a fee was requested for the license to be ordered. He paid a total of 210,000 Kip ( roughly $9 US) but was told if I wanted a lucky number, one I could choose myself, 3 million Kip ($136 US) was the price.

Khamxay slyly smiled at me afterwards, saying, “I’m so sorry I didn’t get you the lucky number. Did you want it?”

Not for $136 dollars, I don’t!

For a car license lucky numbers, the price was even higher: $2,000 – 3,000. Naturally, only the rich go for such a thing.

For those of us with lower incomes, guess we’ll just have to suffer with ill-fated numbers that profess bad omens and unfortunate happenings.

Thank you, Khamxay (seen below), for all the help in getting me not only a great motorbike but having the know-how not to get suckered into a $136 license (If I’d done it myself, I most likely would not have known I had a choice and been out a hundred-some bucks.)

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Saying Goodbye: Our Young Volunteers, Modester and Afiju, Leaving Us

Our Global Mission Fellows, Modester (Malawi) and Afiju (Sierra Leone) have left us. Their 2 year service to the language Center as English teachers and working with Laos youth came to a close. For 6 weeks, the staff and I had been preparing their send-off gathering: What gifts to buy, what unique event to plan, what words to say.

Our most meaningful gift was a notebook for each which we all wrote in , including pictures and stories of our time with these amazing people.

We had a lovely Friday morning together before they left, telling personal stories and enjoying some laughs, as well as plenty of pictures. Then it was out for lunch. The same at church on Sunday, where the two were given many prayers and special blessings by congregation members. As you can see below, the staff and I made sure Modester and Afiju knew how very special they have been here in Laos.

Modester even made a special appearance in my junior high and primary school class.

My Personal Farewell to Modester

Modester and I have quite a strong relationships because we lived next to one another in my temporary apartment complex before I moved to a larger place. She was the first to greet me at the airport, take me shopping on the back of her motorbike, introduce me to the market sellers, show me where to exchange money, translate for me with the Laos apartment staff and just be a very good friend when I was frustrated or feeling low in my new surroundings. Her generous, giving spirit made me feel at home, supported and loved.

I invited her to my new home as my first guest so we could enjoy my garden area. I’ve been working on it for over a month. Despite the unbearable heat, we managed an hour of patio time with cookies, cakes and “women talk” before I had to release her to continue her packing.

I will certainly miss her but it is time for her to return to Malawi, to her fiancé and all her wedding plans, plus her continuing life as a person of great faith and a lot of love to give to others.

Have a great weekend, everyone! And wishing the best to Modester and Afiju, now safely back in their home countries, reunited with family and friends. God bless!

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From Laos: Being Vigilant on my Midnight Blue Honda Scoopy

“Connie, Santi has been in an accident.”

No one, especially an administrator, likes that kind of text message early in the morning from her office manager.

Even more disturbing was the picture that followed.

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Oh, my gosh!

Santi, my primary school translator, my go-to Center guy who rakes leaves, runs errands, helps sell our unwanted stuff from the storage room, and double-duties as the Community Health and Agricultural Development (CHAD) assistant, was in an accident!!

“Is he OK?!” I texted back in a panic.

Picture 2 followed.

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“Yes, thank God.”

My next message was to Santi.

“How are you?! I saw the accident picture. I am so sorry. ”

“I’m in the hospital now,” he replied. “Swollen shin, pain in my side and my shoulder has a small wound. Not serious but I think I will not come to work today.”

“Of course not. You will be sore tomorrow and for a few days. You need to rest. Just let me know if you need anything.”

I then added, “Were you wearing your helmet?”

“Of course!”

Whew. Sigh of relief on that one. While helmets are required, there are quite a few who don’t bother. The roadside traffic officers are allowed to fine people for such offenses but usually just ignore it. Hard to stop a person who is zipping by at semi-high speeds, weaving in and out of cars, even gunning through stoplights. And since a majority of motorbikes don’t even have attached rear license plates, there is no way to follow up on missing-headgear individuals.

Several hours later, Santi reported he was finally at home, taking it easy. I recommended an ice pack or cold towels on the shin to keep the swelling down. He took me up on the suggestion and it seemed to have helped ease the pain, including his nighttime sleep.

Santi is now back in the office after a 3-day absence but moving slowly, with small aches and pains.

Taking Adequate Note of This Incident

As for myself, who quite readily and easily zips about town on my beloved midnight blue Honda Scoopy, this is a cautionary tale. Of course, I pay attention when I drive. There are trucks, cars, parked vehicles whose doors unexpectedly pop open into oncoming traffic (so far my swerve-and-miss reflexes have served me well), pedestrians crossing in the middle of the street, the hundreds of stray dogs that aimlessly meander into or flop directly onto the road, and all the other motorcycles that join with me on their own travels throughout the city.

We all pay attention to one another.

But there are times when I’m in a hurry. I’m late to the office. I want to get to the bank before it closes. I’m meeting a friend and running behind schedule. I need a quick 20-minute run to the D-mart (grocery store similar to Walmart) for my Diet Coke. Or I have an after-work 7:30 p.m. dash to the open air market for purchasing fresh produce.

In such instances, my mind is often racing in advance to the task ahead, with little or no concentration in getting there in one piece.

Do I dare mention the days when my vanity wins out? Sometimes, if I’m going a couple of blocks up the road and back again, the helmet stays off. I don’t want to mess up my hair before class.

Santi’s recent accident has reminded me that I must be more careful. In a car, we are somewhat protected from injury due to seatbelts and the metal that surrounds us. On a motorbike, it’s a different story, as seen with Santi’s injuries. (How fortunate they were not life-threatening. It could have been so much worse.)

I certainly am not rejoicing in Santi’s accident but I will say it has given me pause when it comes to my own motoring skills. No more carefree, absent-minded whizzing about the city or journeying on the long route leading to the church on Sunday. And absolutely no more helmet-less jogs up the road and back for lunchtime meals or snack runs. I got it. Time to be 100% more vigilant.

A Parting Note

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Transportation for me sure has come a long way from China, those many years ago, on my Red Lion bicycle. I was so proud of that $35 purchase.

No helmets present then, fewer cars and trucks, slow (snail-like) progression of traffic, sudden stops at shops or markets never causing panic from behind, and smiles or waves galore given in abundance.

Ah, the good-ole days of bicycling around Nanchang city, 1991!

Reminiscing about those many years ago in China, I did wonder a bit. If I could, would I exchange the safe, calming, leisure ride of my Red Lion bike for the hectic dashing, darting and fast arrival time of my Honda Scoopy?

Hmmmm. What do you think?

Connie and Bike

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