A Mom’s Day Lesson

 

 

 This Mother’s Day unit lesson is one which I do every year in my freshman classes.  It has recently appeared in the Terre Haute Tribune Star and my hometown paper in America.  I thought you might enjoy it here for my blog readers.

 

The History of America’s Mother’s Day 

        

             The earliest Mother’s Day celebrations can be traced back to the spring celebrations of ancient Greece, honoring Rhea, the Mother of the Gods.

             Early Christians celebrated the festival in honor of Mary, the Mother of Jesus Christ.

            In England in the 1600s, the celebration included all mothers.  This was called "Mothering Sunday".  Besides attending church, children returned home from the cities with gifts, flowers and special Mothering Day cakes that were important parts of the celebration.

            Mother’s Day in the United States dates back to 1872.  It began with  Julia Ward Howe, a woman famous for writing the lyrics to the "Battle Hymn of the Republic.”   Ms. Howe was not advocating a day for mothers but rather a day for peace. She organized women to hold Mother’s Day meetings every year in the city of Boston, Massachusetts.

            It wasn’t until later that Mother’s Day  took on a different meaning other than peace.  In 1907, Anna Jarvis, a school teacher from Philadelphia, began encouraging people to establish a national Mother’s Day.  Ms. Jarvis asked her mother’s church to celebrate Mother’s Day on the anniversary of her mother’s death, which was the second Sunday of May. The next year, word went around and Mother’s Day was celebrated all over the city of Philadelphia.

Soon, Ms. Jarvis and her supporters began writing to religious leaders, businessmen, and politicians to ask for a national Mother’s Day.   By 1911, Mother’s Day was celebrated in almost every state in America. In 1914, President Woodrow Wilson made it official by proclaiming Mother’s Day a national holiday that would be held each year on the second Sunday of May. 

Soon other nations followed suit.  Today, countries such as Denmark, Finland, Italy, Turkey, Australia, and Belgium also celebrate Mother’s Day on the same day as America. 

Interestingly enough, Anna Jarvis became soured by the commercialism of the flourishing new holiday and fought vehemently her whole life to dissolve it.  She and her sister, Ellsinore, spent their entire family inheritance campaigning against the day she had so fervently advocated before. 

As she put it:  “A printed card means nothing except that you are too lazy to write to the woman who has done more for you than anyone in the world.  And candy!  You take a box to Mother – and then eat most of it yourself.  A pretty sentiment!”

She died a bitter woman, unmarried, childless and penniless.

Any truth to Anna’s accusations of the day being more of a curse than a blessing for moms everywhere?

Well, according to statistics, Mother’s Day is now one of the most commercially successful  U.S. occasions. According to the National Restaurant Association, Mother’s Day is the most popular day of the year to dine out in America.  IBIS World, a publisher for business research, reports that for Mother’s Day,  Americans spend $2.6 billion on flowers, $1.53 billion on pampering gifts (manicure and spa treatments, for example) and another $68 million on greeting cards.  And let’s not forget the trinkets women love to wear.  In 2008, Mother’s Day generated  7.8 %  of the U.S. jewelry industry’s annual revenue.   

I suppose some might agree with Anna that the day is somewhat meaningless and overblown.  But in my opinion, those we should really be asking are the recipients of all those gifts and other thoughtful reminders.

So what say you, Mothers?  Any demands that Mother’s Day be rescinded?

Nope. 

Didn’t think so.

Enjoy your day, Moms!  You deserve it.

 

 

About connieinchina

I have been in the Asia region for 18 years as an English language teacher. 13 of those have been spent with the Amity Foundation, a Chinese NGO that works in all areas of development for the Chinese people. Amity teachers are placed at small colleges throughout China as instructors of English language majors in the education field. In other words, my students will one day be English teachers themselves in their small villages or towns once they graduate. Currently, this is my second year in Guangxi Province at the 3-year college, Guangxi Normal University for Nationalities. The college is located in smalltown longzhou, 1 hour from the Vietnam border.
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