Sports Days A Great Success!

         

             It was a fun 3 days last week of hanging out with rowdy, enthusiastic, cheering students for our Sports Days extravaganza.

            This was the 7th year of celebrating athleticism among both students and faculty.            

            I attended our first Sports Day 7 years ago when the college was founded, a merger between 3 schools in the area.  It was a pitiful affair with a student body of only around 2,000 and very little organization, preparation or participation.  But over the years, as the school has grown, the college’s sports day meeting has reached a more professional level.

         Our Wednesday afternoon opening ceremonies, I must say, were very well-done.  The administrators were appreciative and impressed by the hard work of the participants.  Every department had selected their best students to wear simple uniforms (usually the same colored T-shirts or sweat suits) and march around the track, salute the leaders and then continue onward to line up on the field. 

         The English department was chosen to have 2 groups:  One to represent our department and the other to be the marching flower girls.  The flower girls did formations in front of the platform while waving their colorful bouquets to the rhythm of the music. 

         Everyone cheered on and clapped for their special efforts, probably making their choreographer very happy, not to mention very relieved. He’d been working with them for hours on the field every day for weeks. I had been witness to his frustration and hair pulling, his many terse and cutting remarks bellowed over the loudspeaker, but they all managed to pull it off with flying colors.

         Hats off (and brownie points galore) to the English Department!

         The dogs and I hung out off and on during the competitions.  It was quite moving to see classmates supporting one another, even for those whose athletic ability was so poor they could hardly make it over the finish line.

         It was all in fun, including events held for the teachers who giggled, laughed and chided one another throughout their sad performances. 

         Only those in the PE department faculty truly shone, taking the competition a bit more seriously and winning just about everything.  (That includes their students as well.)  The rest of us just flopped along in high spirits.

           

           Although it was more  meaningful actually being there, I hope the photo album gives you a good idea of our Luzhou Vocational and Technical College Sports Days’ excitement.

           Enjoy, everyone, and Ping An! (Peace)

 

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A Week of Activities

 
A 3-day Weekend

 

            Last week gave Chinese a 3-day weekend with the coming of Qing Ming Jie, or Tomb Sweeping Day, celebrated on April 4.  This is a new holiday added to the official government calendar and is in its second year. 

            Qing Ming is a traditional Chinese day  where relatives visit the tombs of their ancestors, clean the gravesites, offer incense or flowers and have a small memorial service.

            In countryside areas, this is quite popular as many relatives are buried in the mountainsides nearby hometowns or villages.

            Most modern Chinese today, however, are cremated and thus there is no grave to visit.  People enjoy going to temples instead or merely performing duties in the grassy yard complex of their apartments by burning paper money and lighting joss sticks outside.

            This year had our newspapers and TV stations reporting on those visiting mass gravesites of  the Sichuan earthquake victims.  The visiting family members had traveled many hours to reach areas deep in the mountains, arriving in small towns and villages that had been completely destroyed last year by the quake.  Some had not returned since that terrifying day as there had been nothing left to come back to.

            This past weekend, they came by the thousands to mourn their loved ones, many of whom had never been found.

           

A Trip To Chengdu

 

            While everyone in the country received Monday as a day off from school, our Luzhou college designated last Friday as a day off instead. 
            Xiao Lao-lao (Little Old) had 4 student babysitters who camped out in my apartment watching movies, eating snacks, cooking and enjoying home life.  In the meantime, Little Flower and I left for Chengdu on Thursday afternoon for our own vacation time.

            It had been 6 weeks since last I met up for dinners and outings with the Yang family, Jalin and her parents, who were my neighbors last year in Chengdu.   I dream about the family’s home-cooked dinners almost every night  I’m in Luzhou and am always invited over for meals when I visit.  It’s just another special treat that I enjoy along with taking Jalin to the Bookworm for fun or wandering through the teen fashion clothes’ stores in her neighborhood.

            But my main purpose in going to Chengdu had to do with Easter.

 

Gearing Up For Easter: Religious Lessons and Easter Seals

 

            Along with Christmas, Easter is another important cultural event I feel is necessary for my students’ understanding of America and their future roles as English teachers in China.       

            Our Easter hand-out includes both religious and traditional symbols of this springtime holiday.  Last week, we learned the reason Christians celebrate Easter.  We covered the significance of the cross, the resurrection of Christ, and the special days Christians have for this season and what they do.

            The highlight of this lesson is when everyone receives a lily from their teacher, Connie. 

            In actuality, I can’t give every student a real lily, mostly because they aren’t cheap.  But because of generous Easter Seal mailings from so many of you who keep up with my life in China as a United Methodist, I am able to give each student an Easter Seal sticker. 

            Because Easter Seals are nowhere in China, these are truly an exciting gift which the students love.  They carefully choose from the sheets which lily they’d like. 

            There are so many varieties and kinds, it’s difficult to choose.

            Once the selection is made, the students enjoy finding a place to put them.  Some place it into their textbooks.  Others onto their English folders, which hold all their hand-outs from my class.  And quite a few put their lily right on their cell phone, where they can see it every day.

            Wherever they place their Easter Seal, needless to say, this special stamp is one which they truly hold dear and will always remember as being a unique gift given from their foreign teacher, Connie, at Easter. 

            As for me, I always remember those of you who thought enough to hold onto them from year to year and send to me. 
            Who’d have thought such a simple thing would bring so much joy to so many of us?

 

 From Easter Seals to Chocolate Eggs and Jelly Beans

 

            Which brings me to the reason for my visit to Chengdu for our Tomb Sweeping  holiday.

            In America, you’re probably inundated in Easter goodies and supplies at this moment.  The Walmart Easter aisles are overflowing with chocolate eggs, foil-wrapped Easter bunnies and little baskets filled with cutesy stuffed animals.  The Dollar Store is practically giving away their seasonal Easter offerings for next-to-nothing.  For a few dollars, you can probably get enough special gift items for friends, relatives or children without spending any more than $10.

            But in my area, finding such things is not an easy task, nor is it a cheap one.

            I specifically went to Chengdu to search for Easter buys in  the tiny Sabrina’s International Store and the mega Metro, which is much like our U.S. Sams Club.  It’s  a large warehouse of both international and Chinese goods, a place foreigners love. 

            Pickings were slim in both places, and expensive, but I did manage to get several small chocolate Easter eggs and a chocolate bunny for $20.

            These will be used as visual aids for the students and be the winning prizes of a drawing we’ll have for our Easter activity evening. (More on that later)

            Fortunately, jelly beans are in great abundance in China so I didn’t have to shell out a fortune for those.

            That’s a good thing as it allows each class to enjoy our  “How many jelly beans in the bottle?” guessing game.  Students write down their guess after inspecting the bottle filled with jelly beans.  At the end of the class, we see who is the closest to the number.  The winner, of course, gets the entire jelly bean bottle.

            For all 8 classes, I’ve already prepared 8 bottles and a few jars.

            The total number of jelly beans I’ve counted out?  1,867.

            Yes, that’s a lot of counting and a lot of candy, but it’s well worth the enthusiastic screams of delight  from the winners who rush up to get their prize. 

            Nothing like games and candy to brighten up a classroom, let me tell you!

 

An Evening of Easter Fun

 

            Already, students are anxiously awaiting our evening Easter Activity Night.  We’ll be having two of these next week, one for 4 classes (180 students) and one for another 4 classes (another 180 students).

            Coloring eggs, making crafts and having our Easter chocolate drawing will be among the list of fun things we’ll be doing.

            This is an optional event so I don’t expect everyone to show up but I do hope we’ll have a fairly good crowd.

 

Sports Days Are Here!

 

            I had hoped to do our Easter activities this week but we ran into a slight scheduling problem.

            This week is our annual school sports’ meeting, meaning Wednesday afternoon to Friday there will be no classes held.  Students will only be participating in track and field events or watching to cheer on their classmates as the participants try to win honor for their department or their class.

            Sports days in Chinese high schools and colleges are meant to promote physical health, school camaraderie, feelings of community and give students a break from studies.

             Because there are no sports teams or few competitive sport activities in school, these Sport Day meetings are very important. 

             Just like in the Olympics, the opening ceremony is a serious affair.  Every departmental class is required to march by the stadium stage, shouting enthusiastic, rhythmic chants of “I love exercise!  I love good health!  I love my school!” while keeping in perfect step.

            Opening ceremonies are a mandatory event that everyone has to participate in so students have been practicing for the past 6 weeks to get their marching down.  It’s quite something to see and also hard for Americans to understand, this "forced" unity and practice time. 

            Can you imagine getting an entire American university student body interested and excited about such an event, much less have department student reps march around  in military precision, wave departmental flags and create special formations on the field?

            I think not.

            Chinese teachers and administrators are still required to be on campus, in the offices, during this time to help with school duties and paperwork.  As faculty, we are also invited to join in the games as well.  Many have already signed up for relays, high jump, and other races. 

           As for me, I’ll most likely be on the sports field with Little Flower and her tiny brother, Xiao Lao-lao.

            We’ll all three be giving our support for the students and my colleagues. 

            So be looking for lots of pictures of our upcoming Sports Day meeting, starting tomorrow.

           

Finishing Off

 

            Here’s wishing you all a blessed Good Friday and a great Easter celebration at home or church.  As always, I’ll be attending services at our Luzhou Protestant Church where the baptism of new believers will have the pews crowded.

             Now that’s definitely a “Hallelujah!” moment.

 

From far away China, Ping An (Peace) and Easter greetings are sent your way.

 

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Happy Kwan Yin Day!

 

             Buddhism teaches that everyone may reach the perfected state and each person is a Bodhivisattva, or Buddha-to-be.  In Chinese tradition, the symbolic figure of Buddha is Kwan Yin, a female dispensing compassion with a thousand arms.  Every year, this religious entity has a special day dedicated directly to her.  For those in China, March 15th (Sunday) was the day. 

             Read below to see how Pure Spring Temple, our small Buddhist worship place along the Yangtze, celebrated this special day.

 

The Day Before Kwan Yin Day

 

            In the bright sunshine, our Kwan Yin Eve afternoon began. 

            Wa Yao Ba road filled  with sellers of joss sticks (a type of incense stick) and huge red candles in celebration of Kwan Yin.

             I along with Little Old (LF wasn’t in a mood to go out) carefully squeezed our way along the roadside to see what was going on at our little temple.   No sidewalks make this a hazardous task as buses, taxis, construction trucks and cars zoom by.

            My purpose was to take a look at the preparations everyone was making, getting ready for the next day’s crowds as those in Luzhou come out to worship.  The highest numbers would be arriving Sunday to pay respects on this special Buddhist day.  They’d fill this narrow roadway along the Yangtze with hundreds of  people and cars.  Our school gate entrance would be open for car parking to accommodate those who drove.

            On Saturday afternoon, the disabled beggars and fortune tellers (the older-looking, the more decrepit, the blinder, the better) had staked their spots leading down the stairwell to the temple.  There’d be more the next day, and thousands of visitors as well, but when you’re in business, “the early bird catches the worm” does ring true.

             Even on Saturday, a few managed to snag the the slim number of visitors present.

            Along the corridor route, our yearly squatters expect to get the most business, with sympathetic Chinese giving the poor a yuan or two and others looking to see what lies in their future.

            Little Old, with his missing teeth and dragging tongue, drew a lot of interest from those we passed. 

            “How cute!” we heard.
            “Foreigners like dogs,” one fortune teller said.

            Another, perhaps in her 90s, shoved a stool my way.

           “Sit down!” she encouraged.  “I’ll tell your fortune.”

            I smiled and shook my head.

            “How about the dog?” she eagerly suggested.

            Obviously it’s any ploy used for a buck, even among Buddhist spiritual readers.

            If LO, a bit nervous and frightened among strangers, had been more cooperative, I might have taken her up on it.

 

Good Luck Traditions Followed For Kwan Yin Day

 

            At the base of the stairwell, a huge character of happiness, “fu”,  is displayed on the wall. The custom at this temple is to stand several feet away, close your eyes and walk toward the character.  The objective is to land your hands directly on the fu.   Then you run their hands along the character’s strokes.  This will to bring you good luck.

            At the temple’s doorway, I watched a few giggling visitors rub their hands over the cement lions that guard either side.  Some were stuffing the mouths with money, another giver-of-luck tradition to those who do so.

 

            The day before Kwan Yin Day, there were only a few lit candles to commemorate our Buddha of Compassion.  But come Sunday, the place would be packed with those giving in to their Buddhist heritage, even though they don’t believe in it or openly practice it. 

 

Sunday:  Kwan Yin Day Arrives!

 

            How interesting that my Sunday morning was spent in our Luzhou church, worshiping with those of my faith, and my afternoon was taken up in the Buddhist temple, observing others taking part in their religious traditions.

            As I had thought, our Yangtze river road was overrun today with many Kwan Yin well-wishers making their way carefully to or from the temple.  They stopped to buy necessary items from those selling incense and candles. 

            The fruit stands were likewise doing a great business.  Offering fruit to the Buddha, even flowers, cans of beer or soft drinks, is a common practice.  These are placed on the altar in front of the many Buddhist figures throughout the temple.  When the altar is too cluttered with offerings, the volunteers carry them out to another area to make room for others’ gifts.
            Our beggars had increased, some displaying open wounds or shocking deformities which filled their begging bowls with sympathetic bills.  The fortune tellers and palm readers were likewise quite busy. 

            I wondered if the our elderly woman  from yesterday would be so willing to tell the dog’s fortune today. 

            With the amount of traffic coming and going, the amount of burning going on was  quite heavy.   

             In a huge concrete bin outside the temple, bundles of incense sticks and paper money were thrown into flames shooting upward.

            Inside the courtyards, the elderly volunteers were busy scooping out wax from the water basins where the candles dripped into.  The women were also responsible for discarding burned-down candles by carrying them away.  I was amazed at the strength of these ladies, some in their 80s, who hoisted buckets of worship waste down stairwells and into courtyards for disposal.

            Inside the temple, incense smoked and wound its way throughout every room.  The use of incense clears the air of evil spirits and represents concentration for those sending their prayers to Buddha. Beautiful flowers, a reminder of morality, lay amidst fruit, unopened coke cans on the altar as well.

 

            The Pure Spring Temple has numerous enclosed levels that climb up the river’s slope.  It’s a very small temple with small rooms but it’s still quite impressive from my viewpoint.   At every level, you can enter worship centers to visit the Buddha of your choice.  At the very top level, overlooking the Yangtze, is our Kwan Yin with her thousands arms spread behind her like a peacock’s feathers.

            Because so many candles are placed on her altar, many are moved outside during the day so it’s not too crowded.  These were carefully placed on the outside platform where visitors could use them to light new candles.

            Yet another level of the temple is where the nuns live.  It’s a small area as there are only 7 or 8 who are full-time servants of Buddha living here.  Their dormitories looked clean and tidy, a very peaceful place to live and work in dedication to your chosen faith.

           

Dinner is served!

 

            The highlight of coming here on Kwan Yin Day is that you get a home-cooked meal for just 3 yuan (44 cents), as much as you can eat.  The nuns and volunteers are all in charge of feeding lunch to the hundreds that pass through.  How they can feed so many is beyond me.  The cooking facilities are small but the prepared food just kept pouring out of the small window to the kitchen. 

            An adjacent courtyard was filled with families and others sitting at tables, shoveling in the many vegetarian dishes set before them.  Rice was plentiful and no one was going hungry on this day.

            For 44 cents, that was quite a bargain.

A Kwan Yin Surprise

 

            Just as I was getting ready to leave the temple, I heard someone call out from the crowds, “Connie!”

            Turning around, I couldn’t believe who it was.

            It was Erika, a Chinese high school English teacher who used to call me years ago to talk about her troubles.  One of our English teachers here at the college had introduced us when I first arrived in Luzhou and the friendship started from there.

            I hadn’t seen or spoken to Erika in almost 4 years.  She used to phone quite often with tales of woe about her teenage son.

             In Britain, we’d call him a “rotter.”

            He was in his late teens, had no desire to go to school, would play video games all night at local computer bars (stealing his mom’s money to do so), and was just plain mean  to his mom. 

            (“Ah, the teenage years,” I hear some of you parents sigh.)

            Erika was also divorced, which made things even harder for her as people labeled her as the divorcee. Yes, divorce in China is something that not many want to talk about or have happen.  It reflects upon the person, especially when children are involved.

              The son had grown up without a father.  Erika often blamed herself for his behavior, that he hadn’t had a male influence in his life and she had somehow failed him.  His father, too, wanted to have nothing to do with him.  There again caused for a troubled young teen, feeling abandoned even though his mother cared so much for him.

            The poor woman had no one to talk to so she’d call me.  Sometimes, she’d let out her frustrations for over an hour, not knowing what to do and feeling helpless. 

            The only thing I could do was listen and hope that my small action gave her some comfort, that another person (who wasn’t going to tattle to all her friends) cared.

            Then Erika stopped calling and we lost touch.  After being away a year in Chengdu, I returned to Luzhou where I tried to contact her but the telephone number was disconnected.  Thus her name just stayed forlornly on my telephone list among others who have long since gone from my life.

            But here we were on Kwan Yin Day, reunited at the temple’s doorway between two cement lions which, I might add, I had just rubbed for good luck not more than 20 minutes before.

            There were squeals of surprise and exchanges of greetings from both of us.

             I was happy to learn her son, now 21, was in Xinjiang Province working in the oil fields.  It was a steady job and brought him more money than her teaching job. From what I gathered, after his rebellious teenage years were behind him, he had become a better son and one who sent money home to his mom every month.  He also called often to check up on her and keep her updated on life from his end.

            Erika and I quickly made sure we had one another’s telephone numbers.  We were definitely not losing touch again.

            Eventually, the two of us made our way to Wa Yao Ba Road, where I saw Erika onto the city bus for her ride back home.  She stood at the window, waving and smiling as it drove away.  I did the same from the roadside, as dust and grit swirled up around me, before heading back to my apartment where lesson planning awaited me.

 

In Closing for the Day

 

             What a fascinating and fortuitous Sunday it had been!  

            One does wonder if Kwan Yin is smiling at this Christian who visits the Buddhist temple for the afternoon and is then reunited with a very dear friend.

I know God must be, as I’m certain He put me right there in the place that was needed for a surprising blessing to occur.

            From along the Yangtze River, here’s hoping your 3rd Sunday of Lent was just as wonderful as mine.

 

            Ping An! (Peace)

                       

           

           

           

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Xiao Lao-lao (Little Old) Gets Another Video Taping

 
         For those interested in seeing Little Old once again, check out this second youtube video, taken last weekend in Chengdu in my former neighborhood.   
         Zhu-zhu (jew-jew), my neighbor’s pomeranian, is also seen as he inspects Little Old. 
        Zhu-zhu, I might add, is a gorgeous canine who proved quite the Casenova of our complex last year.  He is solely responsible for deflowering Little Flower, which doesn’t exactly endear him to my heart but sure made for a good story among my Chengdu neighbors.
         Ping An (peace) and enjoy your viewing! 
 
 
              
 
            
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Xiao Lao-Lao (Little Old) Comes To Luzhou

 

A Quick Trip to Chengdu     

 

            It was a fast trip to Chengdu, the fastest I’ve had in a long time:  Up one night (Tuesday) and back the next afternoon (Wednesday).

            The only thing that wasn’t fast about it was the road construction.  The Sichuan express highway was built 8 years ago and now takes us directly to Chengdu in 3 ½ hours, instead of the previous 8 to 9 hours of weaving through mountainsides on narrow roads and through tiny towns.  But the amount of traffic has led to numerous repairs, meaning many times we have one lane open instead of four as workers try to mend the bumps, deep grooves and holes caused by so much heavy road use.  One side waits 30 minutes or longer for a turn while the other side crawls slowly by.  The back-up is incredible! 

            For myself, after finishing up classes last Tuesday, I took the last bus to Chengdu at 5:20 p.m. and didn’t arrive until nearly 11 p.m. due to delays.  We passengers were all getting quite antsy toward the end, especially after our 1 ½ hours waiting time to move even an inch. 

            The miles of cars, buses and trucks awaiting their turn to squeeze through the open lane stopped full. 

            Hundreds of male smokers got off to enjoy their cigarettes.  You could see rows of their red lit butts from a distance in the darkness.

             Women and children disappeared off into the nearby fields to relieve themselves.  Several private car drivers stepped outside to chat with one another in the chilly night air.

            I’d have had LF out there for a walk if she’d been with me but this trip was one where I left her behind.

            On this trip, Xiao Lao-lao (Little Old) would be coming to Luzhou.

 

Xiao Lao-lao (Little Old) Comes to Luzhou

 

            For 3 weeks, I’d been searching for a home for our toothless little guy.

             I’d asked my Chengdu neighbors from my old apartment complex, even parading LO (Little Old) around as a pity poster dog for everyone to see. Would anyone like a sweet Chihuahua like this one, healthy and ready to go?

            No takers.

            I  posted videos on Chinese and U.S. sites of Little Old’s plight, and  included my name and number.

            No takers.

            I’ve been in constant email contact with the Chengdu Economic Daily reporter, Mr. Wu, who has been likewise helping me ask others for a home for LO.

            No luck.

            After 3 weekends of visits from me at Dr. Q’s animal hospital, and after 3 weeks of being  shut up in a cage, Little Old needed some kind of happy place to hang out.

            Where else but with me in Luzhou?
            Thus on Wednesday morning, LO received her second round of vaccinations from Dr. Q (we have 2 more to go in the next month), was placed into a new carrier and off we went far to the south to his new home.

 

Little Brother at Home with Big Sister

 

            I must say, I did have reservations about the greeting Little Old, a younger, male Chihuahua, would get from Little Flower, a very strong Alpha dog personality.  LO had visited (without incident) my Chengdu hotel room several times with my dog there but this situation was more of  an invasion of a territorial home. 

            Would there be a problem?
            Well, it seems I had nothing to worry about.

            Little Flower basically just ignores Little Old even though Little Old would like some contact time.        

           He’s already explored everything in the apartment.  He has his place on one side of the heater while LF has her place on the other. They each have their own feeding stations and their own bedding places but as far as home rule is concerned, that’s definitely Little Flower.  She’s already made known by a snap that her toys are off limits, although Little Old isn’t exactly sure what a toy is or what you do with it.  He hasn’t had too much experience with playtime.

 

“No, That’s Not Xiao Hua (Little Flower)”  

 

            The dogs’ best interaction time is on walks, where LO happily follows his big sister around everywhere. 

            Our first day out was on Thursday, a gorgeously warm 70 degrees after we’d been in the cold, overcast 50s for over a week. The campus was abuzz with the fact that the foreign teacher suddenly has two dogs, not one, although I did make announcements to everyone that Little Old needs a home and wasn’t permanently staying with me. 

            Interestingly enough, there was  confusion about which dog was which.

             Some thought Little Old was Little Flower.  How that could happen was beyond me.  LF is a good deal taller, beautiful dazzling coat, strong straight legs and a female.  

            Little Old is a short, squat  thing with bow legs, tongue lolling out due to no jaw or lower teeth, stained fur from outside living and a prominent  difference in anatomy I have no idea how anyone could miss.

            But Chinese, I have found, aren’t too used to looking at details so there you go.

           

A Lover All The Way:  Entertaining Those On The Sports Field

 

            One thing that endears everyone to Little Old is that fact he’s such a lover.  He’ll sidle up to anyone for a belly rub, his little body curled up in a submissive manner for a pet.

            The Thursday we spent on the sports’ field proved him to be just such a loving creature among those hanging out on the grass, enjoying the sun.

            A happy group of students from Qing Hai University (our branch school) were quite taken by LO.   One dog-lover picked him up and cradled him in her arms while her classmates gathered around to pet him.  LO closed his eyes, almost drifting off to sleep.

            LF, on the other hand, was ready for playtime.  She brandished her Frisbee, shaking it with such fervor that a majority  wanted to have nothing to do with her.  She can sound quite ferocious and aggressive when it comes to play.  I could fully understand why they’d much rather extend their attention toward a gentle, sweet, quiet little dog than an overly hyper one   

            Such a sunny day had also brought out numerous couples to the field. They were wrapped in each other’s arms or stretched out on the grass. The boys rested their heads in the laps of their girlfriends who gently stroked their hair.  The boys softly pulled tufts of hair away from their girlfriends’ faces to reveal shy smiles.  Heads pressed together in whispers of secret thoughts and feelings.

            These kind of open displays used to be forbidden at our school 7 years ago.  The guards would go around and pull the students apart, chastising them or writing up their names to be turned in to their head teachers for discipline. 

            Our school leaders and school rules specifically told the students no male-female relationships were permitted on the campus.  None would be tolerated and if caught, you’d suffer the consequences of full humiliating criticism.

            Needless to say, it was pretty much a joke among everyone, even the teachers and guards.   No one listened much and let things slide, although the students were careful about getting caught.

            But now that China has opened more to the outside world, with Net access and movies from around the world, social and cultural customs among young people have changed.  Whereas sex and love were secretive topics, and absolutely “no-no”s among students of any age in China, it’s now becoming popular.  Relationship newspaper columns and Internet hotlines now are the rage, giving advice to the young and old how to handle their affections.  In public,   holding hands, touching, kissing (although still not too commonly seen in the open), and hugging are seen and done without reprimand anymore.

            Thus on the sports field during nice days, or on beautiful star-filled evenings, you’ll come across the young people out for a lovers’ romantic moment.

            No one interrupts these private moments.  We all just pass by the boyfriend-girlfriend pairs without a second thought, but when it comes to Little Old, couples on the grass seem to be up for grabs.   

            Last Thursday, our toothless guy visited every couple for a pet and rub.

            Very gently, hands caressed the little dog who flopped on the grass next to them.  His tongue fell to the side.  His eyes closed.  He was obviously in doggie heaven.

            One does wonder what kind of sad life he had before.  Thank goodness that’s over with, . . . for now, anyway.

           

The Search for A Luzhou Home

 

            While Chengdu didn’t prove too great a place for finding LO a home, Luzhou is becoming a bit more promising.

             Already, I have the elderly couple downstairs who are considering LO as a family member for their grandson.  The little boy is about 9 years old and is a very special Chinese child in that he’s not spoiled.  He respectfully talks to me often and is just a sweet, well-behaved, well-mannered kid.  His visits to Grandma and Grandpa are every other weekend.  Sometimes, he spends the week with them and they see him off to school.

             His eyes lit up when I said LO had no home and was needing a place to live.  

            “Do you want a dog?” Grandma asked him and he nodded his head enthusiastically.

            “Better ask your mom first,” I suggested and we left it at that.

            There are 2 more families as well who are interested.  One has a connection with Ci-ci, who is an English teacher here at my college.  Ci-ci’s boyfriend’s mother has been by herself for several years after her husband died. Cici believes that the mother might like a little dog to keep her company.  

            And another possible family is the vice-dean of my department, Marty Li.  His wife has seen pictures of LO on the Internet, read his story and seen his video, and feels he might make a good pet for them.  

            In all cases, LO and his possible adoptees will have to wait a bit because all his vaccinations are not yet completed.  He has two more to go, which will all be finished by April 6.  Because his immune system is not yet protected against such diseases as distemper or parvovirus, which are common killers among pets in China, I’d rather keep him with me to make 100% sure he’s ready to handle the dog ownership world.

 

            Until then, I’m sure there will be more updates on Xiao Lao-lao (Little Old) and his foster care with me in future blogs.

 

            Here’s wishing you Ping An (peace) for your week, everyone!  Have a great Sunday.

           

 

   

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A Robbie Burns Supper in China

 

A Robbie Burns Supper at the Bookworm

 

            One of my favorite poets has always been the great Scotsman, national poet of Scotland Robert Burns (1759 – 1796).  My mother would read me these as I grew up. Our favorites included  “To a Louse” (‘O wad some Pow’r the giftie gie us/To see oursels as others see us’) and “To A Mouse” (‘‘The best laid schemes o’ mice an’ men / Gang aft agley’ , or in English as ‘The best-laid plans of mice and men / Go often wrong/ Go oft’ astray).

            Even if you’ve heard nothing much of Burns’ work,  “Auld Lang Syne,” the words written by Burns himself , I’m sure is something you’re all quite familiar with.  Even in China, this famous New Year’s song  is sung with the words translated into Chinese.

             My students may not know who Robert Burns is, but they definitely know the “Auld Lang Syne” melody.

            Sure, I know of Robert Burns but when I came across the announcement of a  “Robbie Burns Supper,” that was a mystery.

            When in Chengdu two weeks ago, I had mentioned in a previous blog about The Bookworm.  It’s a foreigner’s café-restaurant of sorts with shelves of used books lining the walls.  The books number in the thousands and are there for everyone’s pleasure in reading or enjoying.

             The Bookworm also has many activities for patrons, including visiting author lectures, famous people meet-and-greets (I was privileged to meet environmentalist Jane Goodall there last year), activities for children, special music nights and so forth.

            Jalin and I had been in the Bookworm the week before I returned to Luzhou.  We were cruising over the U.S. fashion magazines when I noticed a flyer for a Robbie Burns Supper on Saturday night.  The supper was thrown in honor of the poet, Robert Burns, and we were invited to take part in a 7-course meal, meet some Scots and enjoy hearing about the life and times of Robbie.

            For 150 yuan per person ($18), seemed a bargain to me. 

            And since I wasn’t about to go by myself, I invited Jalin to come along with me if her parents approved.

            A night out for the girls!  What fun!

 

What is a Robbie Burns Supper?

 

            I had not a clue what this was about so I looked it up on the Internet. 

            According to what I found, a Burns Supper is a celebration of the life and poetry of Robert Burns. These suppers are normally held on or near the poet’s birthday, January 25, sometimes also known as Robert Burns Day or Burns Night, although they may in principle be held at any time of the year.

            Burns suppers are most common in Scotland, but they occur wherever there are Burns Clubs, Scottish Societies, expatriate Scots, or lovers of Burns’ poetry.

            In our case, the Scots in the area of Chengdu (mostly businessmen) had decided to throw this shindig for fun.  They had tried last year but due to conflicts in their schedules, they were unable to. 

            Due to Robert Burns’ great love for the ladies and quite lustful, amorous rovings during his short lifetime, they chose Valentine’s Day (February 14) as an appropriate night to honor our poet.

             I furthermore learned these suppers may be formal or informal but they should always be entertaining. The only items which the informal suppers have in common are haggis, Scotch whiskey and perhaps a poem or ten.  (Haggis, by the way, is a traditional Scottish dish consisting of a mixture of the minced heart, lungs, and liver of a sheep or calf mixed with suet, onions, oatmeal, and seasonings and boiled in the stomach of the slaughtered animal. Yum-yum!!)

 

            Whether formal or not, the suppers follow a standard format:

 

1)      Host’s welcome

2)      The Selkirk Grace

 

                                    Some hae meat and canna eat,

                                    And some wad eat that want it;

                                    But we hae meat, and we can eat,

                                    Sae let the Lord be thankit.

 

3)      Entrance of the haggis (all stand, applaud, and eventually toast the haggis)

4)      Start of the dinner

5)      Numerous speeches and toasts, including readings of Robert Burns, a toast to the lassies and a toast to the lads.

6)      Dancing, songs and closing

 

Jalin and Connie’s Robbie Burns Supper Night Out

            Jalin and I excitedly headed off to the Bookworm from her home at 6:30 p.m., February 14th.

             In the crisp evening night air, we walked the 20 minutes to our destination and entered a very cozy atmosphere.  Half of the café was cordoned off for guests of Burns, the beautifully set tables ablaze in plaid to honor the Scots.  We mingled with a few in kilts, our gentlemen hosts and one bonnie lass, before it was finally time to find a place to sit for the night’s festivities.  And what a night it was! 

            Below, find our grand photo album of fun from The Bookworm and Chengdu’s very first Robbie Burns Supper.   

            From China, here’s sending you an opening week’s Ping An (peace)!

 

 

 

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Little Old’s Video Clip

 
 
Little Old’s video clip can be found at:
 
 
 
 
 
Ping An, Everyone!
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News From Luzhou

 

First Week Back At School

            The first week of school began on February 16 with a lot of fun.

            Every class was  full of excited chatter as my college English majors discussed our warm-up questions about their Chinese New Year holidays.

              “How much hong bao (red envelope) money did you receive?” 

            “What  was the most interesting thing you did during your holiday?”

            “What were the most hours you slept in one night?”

            “Who was the oldest person you saw during your holiday?”

            Sounds of jealous “Oh!”s or hoots of laughter erupted when answers such as

150 ($22) to 3,000 yuan ($440) hong bao spending money were given, going to Shanghai or visiting Chengdu for the lantern festival, sleeping from 12 to 18 hours straight, and ages of 80 to 108 reported as the oldest people met.

            But for me, the greatest part of our back-to-school lesson had to do with the essays everyone wrote about their time at home.  Some met for reunions with high school classmates for picnics on the mountainside or restaurant gatherings.  Others detailed their enjoyable time at home with family.  A few told of some worst events, such as when one young girl had all her spending money stolen at a shop(What a horrible thing!) while another was trying to be helpful by washing clothes and ended up washing her mom’s expensive cell phone in the washing machine.  (It was ruined, obviously.)  And almost all essays recounted grand home cooked feasts prepared by family members. 

            Yes, it was obvious that during the holidays, everyone had eaten well.  Their plump figures attested to that!

            This is now our second week where we’ll be getting back into the usual swing of things and also enjoying this fabulously warm weather!
            Spring has arrived, with all its sunshine, fresh green leaves and blossoming flowers and ornamental trees.

            Shivering, wet and cold is behind us;  Sunny rays, blue skies and warmth are finally here.

 

News of Our Toothless Little Old

 

            This past weekend sent me back to Chengdu yet again to check up on Xiao Lao-lao (Little Old).  He has been in Dr. Q’s clinic for over a week now yet we have had no takers after the article was posted on the Chengdu Economic Daily  newspaper website.  Mr. Wu, the reporter, has kindly been following up on this and looking diligently for anyone who is interested.

            The article stimulated much sympathy with readers posting notes such as, “What a shame!” and “How sad!”  One person did offer to take Little Old only if no one else wanted him but I personally would rather have a person who was willing to take him not as a last resort.

            Having someone who is only half-interested and then throws him out on the street when tired of him is not something I want to happen.

            And the more time spent with Little Old makes one want to keep him even more.  He is truly a sweet little guy but whatever will happen to him? 

           This was definitely going to take a bit more thought and ingenuity on my part. 

           

Little Old Posted On Website In Video

 

            With a somewhat hopeless outlook, I decided to try something new for me:  posting a video of Little Old on a Chinese website. 

            Jalin (the 15-year-old daughter of the Yang family whom I lived next to last year) was the assistant in this venture.  On Saturday afternoon, we headed over to Dr. Q’s where Jalin would video me, Dr. Q and Little Old together at the clinic.  We’d make a plea for an adoption, write up a short history and post it, along with the newspaper article, on China’s www.tudou.com. 

            This website is read by millions of Net surfers so   it was the best option, I was told, to have the most viewers.

             The video at the clinic was a great one so we’ll see where it takes us.

            If you’re interested in seeing  the newspaper article (in Chinese but with pictures), please go to:    http://www.028town.com/viewthread.php?tid=522347&extra=&page=1.  Scroll down to the pictures.

            As for the video, I’ll try to post it in an easy spot for you all to watch.

            Wish us luck on finding Little Old a happy, loving home!

 

            Until more updates from Luzhou and our homeless doggie, here’s wishing you Ping An (peace) for your week!

             

 

 

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On A Mission: Finding Xiao Lao (Little Old) A Home

 
          The streets of this small Chengdu neighborhood are clean and spiffy, lined with fashionable clothes’ shops, well-patroned restaurants, tidy family-run convenience stores and tree-lined alleyways or small grassy parks.  It’s a pleasant place to enjoy walking a little dog but that doesn’t mean it’s absent of misery. 
          Little Flower and I have cruised this area often enough last year and this to notice more than our share of scattered, pitiful sights. I still remember our mentally ill woman who last year lined the sidewalk with her neatly bagged things, then stood guarding them in the pouring rain or frigid temperatures.  There was likewise a disheveled old woman who clutched a small doll, sat under a park tree and smiled at us for several days before disappearing. We’ve had beggars as well, the blind elderly playing the erhu  (Chinese fiddle) with cup in hand for small change and the disfigured who openly display their grotesque wounds in the hopes of drawing sympathy.  And who can forget the discarded, boney pets who trot about, scrounging among the garbage cans for food or looking at passersby with hopeful gaze while searching for their owners.
          When it comes to such sights, my heart aches.  While it’s not a fix to the situation by any means, I can’t help but purchase some food for those who don’t have it, pull out some warmer clothes to give to someone who’s shivering, or backtrack my steps to diliberately find a beggar who needs money. 
         The pets are a different story.   Most just come and go with lightening speed as I walk Little Flower around the block.  They are skiddish and either run or slink away when someone approaches them.  Last year, you’ll remember me raising a 1-week old, abandoned kitten (Xiao Gui-gui, Little Ghost) only because no one else would have her and she was just too young and weak to survive by herself. 
          In such cases, I feel the little ones deserve a chance to live.  Since they can’t do it on their own, I have no qualms about letting my feelings overtake practical sense and bringing them into my home.
          All of this brings me to Thursday, and the finding of Xiao Lao (Little Old).
          Little Flower and I had just crossed the street on our way to Sichuan University’s gorgeous campus.  The bright sun was warm and pleasant, a perfect day for a grand tour around the grassy, tree-lined avenues of the school.
          At the West Gate, as I let LF off leash for her race to the well-kept lawns, another Chihuahua (much shorter and smaller than my dog) came over to see us.  It was a funny looking fellow, bow legged with a muscular barrel chest and a skinny, boney rear end.  And strangest of all was his tongue, which refused to stay in his mouth and dragged on  the dirty ground as he went sniffing about for food. 
          I assumed he belonged to someone.  Most Chinese don’t desert very small dogs, especially Chihuahuas, but this one did have an air about it of being on its own.  When I went over to entice it to come to me, his first reaction was to roll over in a submissive manner and expose his tender belly for a rub, which I did.  Such a sweet, gentle little dog. 
         He was so skinny, though, not to mention a bit dirty with over-grown nails.
         Looking at his cute little face, his tongue still plastered with bits of soil and grass on it, I noticed something rather odd.
         Where were his teeth?
          There was something wrong here but I couldn’t quite figure out what it was until I placed my hand on his jaw.
          Gracious!  There wasn’t any!  There was only an odd flap of loose skin with no bone to hold anything in place, either teeth or tongue. 
          Looking at his upper mouth, I found only 2 stained canines as the only means for him to eat anything.
          How this poor thing managed to get down any food at all was beyond me.  He obviously licked everything up that was edible but it would have to be in the form of gruel or mush since he wasn’t able to chew.  How long had he hunted the streets for such sparse meals?  
          His submissive, almost frightened, attitude toward people led me to believe he had once belonged to someone but everyone nearby I asked, including the gate guards and the daily telephone card sellers, said they didn’t know.   He’d just appeared.
          And with that information, Xiao Lao (Little Old) came to find himself in my possession.
          Carefully bundling up his little body into my arms, I returned to the hotel room with Little Flower.  Little Old had a bath and shivered inside a towel until he became dry enough to curl up by himself on the bed’s comforter.  I then went about making a mushy meal using LF’s dry food and hot water.  This proved a good consistency for our no-teeth visitor.  It was a bit of a mess, him awkwardly licking up the food while splattering it everywhere, including on himself.  Still, he managed well and even had seconds. 
          Someone was definitely hungry.
          Next order of business was to call Dr. Qiu (or Dr. Q, as I call him), my Chinese vet, to enlist his help.  Since I already had one dog, having a second wasn’t an option for me.  It was a bit difficult for me to explain the dog’s problem to him on the phone so he wasn’t exactly aware of his condition until he saw it. 
         On the phone, Dr. Q was very upbeat about finding him a home as he was a little dog and a male at that.  Since Chinese rarely, if ever, spay or neuter, the male dog is much easier to place in someone’s care than a female dog, which goes into heat several times a year. 
          Yet in person, when I taxied Little Old over to see him, his reaction was an astonished, "Oh, my God!
          He shook his head in disbelief at this jawless, toothless creature looking up at him as he held him in his arms.
          "But he’s clean and very loving," I said hopefully.  "Don’t you know some kind person who would care for him?"
          Dr. Q looked doubtful.
          "I have some people I can call," he said.  "We can try but in the meantime, what do you want to do?"
          We both decided it was imperative that Little Old be neutered and given his immunizations right away.  He probably had worms and was definitely in need of vitamins to bring him up to proper health standards before having a new home.    
          That agreed upon, we both settled on an amount to take care of all his needs.  I walked next door to the nearby pet market to purchase a new wire cage, bedding, wet food, feeding bowls, collar and leash for Little Old.  Dr. Q planned to neuter him in the morning and promised the staff would look after him that evening until the next day when I’d be visiting again.
         It was a bit hard to leave him there for the night.   It hadn’t taken me very long to get attached to this poor thing but he was in good hands at Dr. Q’s animal hospital.  Better that place than the streets, that’s for sure. 
          
   Xiao Lao (Little Old) About To Be Famous

 

         For three days, I’ve been visiting Little Old at Dr. Q’s animal clinic.  He enjoys walking on a leash and refuses to use the toilet inside his cage, which is quite a feat considering he’s been on the street for awhile.    He’s already been neutered and had his first round of vaccinations but the search for a home wasn’t turning out very well.  

         Dr. Q called several of his friends who all turned him down.  A toothless dog?  No teeth?  Not a puppy?  No, thanks!

       This was going to be harder than it looked.

       So if all else fails, what do you do?  Go to the press!

       Dr. Q has many contacts and one of them was the pet feature editor of the Chengdu Daily, Mr. Wu Guo Ren.  Dr. Q handed over his telephone number to me and I gave him a ring last night concerning Little Old.  Telephone Chinese for me is always a problem as I can’t see the person directly and I get nervous I’ll not understand.  I try to avoid calling anyone aside from those I know if I’m going to be using my pitiful second language skills.  But I was on a mission this time and determined to find Little Old a home.  Mr. Wu would be a lifeline to those in the public who might take on a pity pet case and consider taking a special needs Chihuahua for their own.

       Mr. Wu was quite eager to do a story about this dog so he came over to the clinic this Sunday morning where we talked about Little Old.  I gave him the full story of how I found him, complete with his gentle, quiet demeaner, his special food requirements and the fact that he would have all his shots and had been fixed.  He was really ready to go.  He just needed a loving home.

      Mr. Wu took quite a few pictures, talked a bit with Dr. Q about the dog’s condition and then took his leave of us.  The article will be published on the paper’s website, not in daily print, but we hope that will be enough to find him a home.

     I’m the contact person, meaning I’ll have plenty of practice with my telephone and written Chinese for those who call or email.  My plan is to return to Chengdu next weekend to hopefully send our little guy to a better home. 
     In the meantime, Dr. Q’s staff will continue to take care of him in the hospital, fattening him up and getting him ready for a new life.

    Next email will be from Luzhou, including pictures of a very interesting week, Little Old being one of the photo specials.

                              Until next time, Ping An (Peace), from China!   
           
         
          

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