Our Women’s Day Week Ends

Women’s Day Activies Come to a Close

             Our Women’s Day activities end tomorrow, Friday.  It’s been great fun watching the boys proudly stand before the class and hold their special time for their classmates.  From the song to the drawing to handing out favors, the boys did an excellent job.  There was a lot of praise and appreciation that came from everyone, including myself.  We’ll definitely be doing this again next year.

              Here are a few shots from my first year English Education majors, Class 3.  Enjoy, and Ping An (Peace)!

  

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Happy International Women’ Day from China!

A Simplified History of International Women’s Day

          International Women’s Day (IWD) began in Europe and America in the early 1800’s.  At that time, in America and other countries, there were great changes as the economy was rapidly developing and becoming more industrialized.  With industrialization, women moved out of their homes and began to work, mostly in factories where conditions were bad and the pay was low.  As a result, women began to form groups to protest the terrible situation of their working places.  They wanted better working conditions and the same salary as men.

            On March 8, 1857, women workers in clothing factories in New York City protested for better working conditions, a ten-hour working day and to have equal rights. 

            Fifty-one years later, on March 8, 1908, women factory workers and members of the Socialist Party in New York City protested again.  This was in remembrance of the 1857 march, the right of women to vote, and an end to sweatshops and child labor. 

            The next year in 1910, the Socialist International Party met in Denmark.  A German socialist named Klara Zetkin asked for a special day for women to be decreed called International Women’s Day  (IWD).  This day was to honor women and their right to be equal with men.  March 8 was chosen as the date.

            Despite its creation in 1910, IWD did not become a world celebration until 1975, when the United Nations declared it an international holiday.

 Celebrating IWD Abroad

          In many countries throughout the world, IWD is considered a big affair.  There are lectures given by women, gatherings to discuss women’s rights, music concerts and a variety of other women-centered events.

            Yet in America, people know little or nothing about this day, even though its roots began in our country.   We do designate March as Women’s Month, but as far as the day itself, it comes and goes with little notice.

             I certainly had not a clue what International Women’s Day was until 23 years ago, when  I worked in Kyoto, Japan at the Kyoto YWCA as an English language teacher.  The staff of  Japanese women carefully prepared for March 8 with a fanfare I had never seen before in my own country.  A large luncheon was planned with notable women speakers  who were well-known for advocating women’s rights. Their topics concentrated on women abuse issues in Japan, targeting the Japanese workplace and household.  

            We also held a Saturday bazaar, with the proceeds going to specific Kyoto projects to help women.

            With this introduction to International Women’s Day, I began to take more notice of March 8.   

            In my teaching placement in Taipei, Taiwan at Wesley Girls’ High School,  we women teachers received individual gifts from the school.  One year, we were given a cheesecake.  Another year, it was 2 pounds of dried pork, presented by one of our students’ fathers who worked in a meat packaging plant.   Yet another year, it was a box of butter cookies from a famous bakery in town.

            To sweeten the day even more, every gift was accompanied by the traditional Chinese gift, the hong bao (red envelope).  This was from the Parents’ Association.  Inside, we found a $100.

            Here in mainland China, I have also enjoyed the benefits of Nu Sheng Jie (Women’s Festival).  As a college English teacher, I find we women are never forgotten by school officials. 

            At my previous college in Sichuan Province, we had an entire day off with a free tour to a cherry blossom park.  We walked about the area, admiring the beautiful flowering trees, chatting, taking pictures and enjoying our complimentary lunch and dinner. 

            The next year, each department prepared performances.  We women were asked by the male administrators to show off our talents in singing, dancing, and acting.

            It sounded like a good idea but the amount of work that went into preparing for our programs was excruciating.  After all our complaints, the next year there were no performances.  Instead, each of our 12 departments was given 800 yuan ($130) to take us ladies out to dinner.

            Now that we appreciated.

 IWD at  My Current College   

        My current teaching placement is in far southern Guangxi, one of China’s 5 autonomous regions and one of the poorer provinces of the country.  Our small, rural college doesn’t have the funding to spend on such lavish Women’s Day presents as big dinners or all-day outings.  Still, despite the tight budget, the administrators made sure that today we received something.  Whether teachers, office workers, cooks or grounds’ maintenance staff, we women each received a hong bao.  The teachers received 80 yuan ($10) while others received 40 yuan ($5).   (Last year, it was 50 yuan and 20 yuan but with inflation, we are benefiting.  A Women’s Day bonus.  Hurrah!)        

            While the gift wasn’t nearly as grandiose as former schools I’d taught in, the gesture from this struggling college certainly outshone that of my former employers.

             The average salary of a rural college teacher here is $260 a month, with the cooks and grounds’ crew receiving about $50 a month.  That little extra money goes a long way in rural China, especially for those who have families to feed.

            Also included in our gifts this year were flowers.  A bouquet of carnations was presented to all women teachers during our break time after the 1st period.  The Student Association members caught all of us having lessons this morning and gave us our flowers.

           And in our English departmental office, I also added a little zip to the working atmosphere with a basket of assorted candy and an IWD card.  When I left for my next class, our English teachers were busily picking through the basket, choosing their favorites and gobbling them down with gusto.  

Teachers Enjoying Their Candies

 IWD In The English Language Classroom

          As already mentioned in my previous blog, “Back to Work!  The Semester Begins,” (beside the above listed “Home” and “About “,  click on so-named post to read) I always commemorate International Women’s Day in my English language classroom by making  sure my students are fully aware of this day.  My IWD unit includes a history of IWD, current statistics about women in China and the US and Internet searches done by students on notable American and Chinese women.

            This year, an added element to the unit involved my male students.

            Out of the 270 English language majors I teach, 13 are men.   This follows the trend of most Asian countries, where liberal arts’ study falls mainly to college female populations.   

            To give our women a meaningful day, my 13 guys will be serenading  the ladies in each class and holding a drawing for prizes which they purchased themselves.  They also will be presenting their classmates with handmade favors, which they completed in my home last weekend.

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            Today, I had the first women students of the week enjoy their special surprises from their male classmates.  In my 2nd year class today, James and Rio went all out with their song, “Happy Women’s Day To You” (sung to the tune “Happy Birthday to You”), and their drawing afterwards.  They certainly had fun on their shopping trips.  Their carefully wrapped prizes included a big bottle of coke, huge lollipops, and instant noodle packets.  

         Each excited winner drawn came forward to give a short speech of thanks and wish everyone a Happy Women’s Day.   Included in their thank yous was always a grateful look in my direction.  

         After class, my new monitor (class leader), Lucy,  approached me privately.

        “Connie, this class is so wonderful!  I have never had such a day like this for Women’s Day.  I really thank you.  It’s so special.  I will never forget it.”

          Ah!  What every teacher wants to hear! 

         So for today, I would say the energy and careful planning by the James and Rio for our special class certainly will make our International Women’s Day an enviable one on campus.  Maybe next year, other departments will follow suit and treat their female students with just as much enthusiasm  as my English major men.

            From China, here’s wishing you Ping An (Peace) and a great Women’s Day.

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Welcome to My New Website . . . We Hope

Hello, everyone!

As you know from the last posting, MSN’s “My Space” will soon be gone.  Those of us using My Space blogs coud either be transferred (migrated) to WordPress or  deleted.  My choice was to try for Word Press but in China, I could never migrate as the screen would always come up in error.

After returning to the States for my Chinese New Year holidays (January 15 to February 9), I learned that Word Press is blocked in China.  However, using your own domain might work with a link to Word Press.  Thus after paying a mere $25.00 for the entire year, I now have my own domain, connieinchina.org.

Today, I am heading back to China.  Whether I can continue to use this site or not in the country is still going to be a mystery until I arrive.  I’ll cross my fingers that all goes well and you will be able to continue reading about my life and Little Flower’s in little Longzhou.

As for this visit to the States, it’s been packed full of activities.  As a former university swimmer at Eastern Illinois University, I was thrilled to not only attend a home meet at my alma mater in Charleston, IL, but also to swim several times in my old pool during the weekends.  I even met up with my former swimming coach, Ray Padovan, who is now retired, for a walk down memory lane as we chatted about the past.

Another highlight was giving the message in two of our United Methodist churches, one being my home church and the other, the “country” church a few miles from town.  I even made it to the Baptist’s after-school club  to talk about Chinese New Year and my role as an American English teacher and a Christian in the small town, Longzhou. 

 Then we had my brother’s law partner, Joe, who invited me as his speaker for Rotary.  It was a bit of a struggle to get myself up and presentable at 6:30 a.m. but it was well worth it to see many familiar faces and share more about China. 

Of course, there was plenty of time spent with my parents and our little Sichuan street-stray rescue, disabled Lao-lao (Old-old).  He’s been in America now for 1 1/2 years, this being his second Illinois winter.   His former life in Chengdu never had him experience such harsh temperatures or weather conditions.  All this snow and ice  didn’t make our toothless, jawless Chihuahua very happy.    But spring is coming soon so maybe my mother will be able to get him out for his daily walks in another month or so.

My own dog, Little Flower, is currently with her Chinese sitter and I’m sure she’s been suffering as well.  I continued to check temperatures in Chengdu, where she is staying, and saw quite a few days of light snow as well as temps in the 30s.  Most people in Sichuan don’t have indoor heating, merely tiny dual air-con units that don’t do much of anything if turned on, so I can imagine she was shivering away most of the time in her temporary home. 

That’s soon to change, though!  After yet another Net search, I found out that Guangxi Province is now deep into Spring weather, in the 70s by day and 50s by night.  That’s more for us!  I’m sure Longzhou, being far south, is even warmer.  When our college classes start up on February 21st, I’ll be back in my summer clothes again.

Before closing, I just want to welcome all of you to the new site.  Thank you so much for checking in and let’s hope there will be more blogs in the future using this same space.

Ping An (peace!), everyone!

corneliamw@yahoo.com

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Happy New Year! (And change of Website)

 

A Change of Website

 

           For 2011, I have  learned that My Space is closing up shop.  All My Space blogs are to be moved to a new location.  Beginning January 4, no new blog postings will be allowed.  As of March, all My Space websites will be discontinued.

            At present, I am to move my site to the new location.  Unfortunately, I am having difficulty doing this.  I will try my best but if you don’t hear from me for awhile after this entry, that is the reason.

               

Generous Funds for Campus Celebrations

 

            One thing that I’ve always appreciated about this college is the amount of money allotted to student organizations for campus events.  Contests, special performances, celebrations (such as Christmas and New Year’s) and other activities are not cheap.  Sound equipment, stage decorations, and costume rentals for dancers or MCs all cost money. 

            At my previous placement in Sichuan, the school officials rarely parted with the college’s cash.  They held tightly to the funds and refused to dole out even a little for our activities.

            But here is a different story.

           
Ushering in 2011

            Naturally, New Year’s Eve was yet another opportunity for the Student Union to use their organizational expertise to throw a grand showing like they did for Christmas. 
            Announcement boards all around campus caused plenty of anticipation among the students about the big event.

            7:30 p.m. would start  3 hours of stage performances with singers and dancers. 

            8 p.m. the big bonfire would be lit.  Party games with prizes were to continue onward until midnight when there would be a firework display.                               

           After that, free sparklers would be handed out to all present for yet more partying time.  Everything would close up at 1:30 a.m., when the volunteers were required to clean everything up to make for a tidy January 1st.

           It was a detailed schedule and one which we all were looking forward to.

           

The Bonfire:  “Kaboom!”

 

            I’m not a big one for stage performances in China, especially as the students singing their pop-song solos are always off-key,  scream into the microphone, and the music is too loud.   It’s not very pleasant to Western ears but the cheering Chinese student fans adore such things.

            However, the one thing I was interested in seeing was the lighting of our bonfire .

            This year, the Student Union volunteers had made the outline of “2011” with split bamboo.  In the halved bamboo, they poured in lighter fluid so when one end was lit, it would race through all the numbers, finally arrowing into the big bonfire.

            For our safety, the volunteers had roped off the area.  We were a good 5 feet back but even then, I had to wonder about what would happen when the flames raced to piles of kindling before us.

            Why was that?

            Well, the lighter fluid used was gasoline. 

            I watched the Student Union members (and it would be the guys, of course) go a bit overboard with the gasoline.  They doused the wood and paper piled on top of our bonfire with a lot of gusto, most likely wanting to make sure we had a flame worthy of the New Year.

            I remember taking a few more steps back, just in case that initial lighting needed a bit more than 5 feet of distance.

            As 8 p.m. approached, the MC shouted excited greetings to all of us as the torch bearers proudly trotted down to light our 2011 numbers.  I had my doubts that the fire would reach the bonfire without a little help.  Volunteers with extra torches lined the roped-off area to make sure the flame continue onward to the bonfire.

            The “2” started to light first.

            The students cheered!

            The fire continued tamely to the “0”, then the first “1", then the second "1".

            Everyone was clapping!

            Then our fire hit the grand prize, the bonfire.

            “KABOOM!!!”

            A huge explosion sent paper and kindling flying everywhere. 

            The surrounding crowd-control volunteers ducked for cover.  We in the crowds rushed backwards.   A gigantic flame shot skyward.

            Wow!  Now that’s what I call a New Year’s bonfire!

            Thankfully, no one was hurt.  The fire died down to nothing just as quickly as it went up. The volunteers then spent another 10 minutes getting it started up again to the point where it would burn all evening.

            After that, our biggest thrill was the firework display at midnight.  We had 15 minutes of non-stop fireworks, lit in their tubes by the students who raced about to give us a lovely show.  In the States, this would have been done by a professional company or the local fire department.  In China, however, it seems anyone can buy firework displays and put them on by themselves.

            The last activity of the evening was the sparklers.  Adults, students, children and even the elderly enjoyed in on their free gift. 

            Aside from the bonfire, I’d say this was yet another dangerous moment with everyone standing so close to one another, wildly waving their sparklers around and even having sword fights with them.  It was a miracle that the college kids, or the little children for that matter, in their overzealous eagerness, didn’t burn themselves.

            But that’s an American’s  way of thinking.  For the Chinese, safety wasn’t an issue, just having fun. And they certainly had fun.

 

            Happy New Year, Everyone!  Hope your 2011 is a blessed one, and just as much a "blast" as ours was.

            Ping An (Peace) from China

 

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A 2010 Merry Christmas!

Connie’s Open Houses

 

            Unless a Christian, Chinese don’t celebrate Christmas nor do they understand the reason of this special day that sweeps the world every December 25th.  My students, however, get the full meaning of Christ’s birth and our American traditional customs in my culture lessons.  The classroom comes alive with our manger scene re-enactment, traditional symbols’ lesson and our Christmas bingo game. 

            But what is truly meaningful is to visit my apartment, fully decorated from top to bottom, to see all the decorations and taste cut-out Christmas sugar cookies for the first time.

            At present, students have been visiting my home for the past 3 weeks in small groups and will be doing so up to December 29.   My Chinese colleagues in the English Department had their own party in my home last weekend to celebrate our special Christian day. 

            Today being Saturday, not to mention Christmas Day, the neighborhood kids are coming over for their usual afternoon play date in the foreigner’s apartment.  We will be enjoying cookies and draw Christmas pictures to decorate my empty wall spaces.

           

Christmas Eve:  The Annual College Christmas Party

 

            Last year, I reported about the college Christmas party, led and organized by our English Language Association in conjunction with the Student Union.  If you care to read back over that blog, you’ll find it was a wild affair overrun by the neighborhood kids.  They were everywhere, running hither and yon, weaving among the college crowds and wanting to be included.

            The greatest glitch of the night was when the ruffians attacked Santa once he appeared with his gigantic basket of candy. Suckers, chocolates and butterscotches went flying in all directions with children snatching, grabbing, pushing, shoving and screaming to get their hands on the goodies.

            It was not a pretty sight.

            The decorations last year were also rather dismal, which made for a rather dull-looking indoor set-up.

            Despite that, we had a big crowd and those who came enjoyed playing games for prizes.  The evening wasn’t a disappointment but it just wasn’t exactly what everyone had expected or hoped for.

            This year?  A completely different story.

Students Going All Out for Christmas Eve 2010

 

            By Friday evening, after teaching all morning and finishing up another open house in the afternoon, it was time for me to gain a 3rd wind for our college party, held from 7:30 to 10 p.m. Christmas Eve. 

            I must say, I was fairly wiped after all my own holiday gatherings during the week.  I wasn’t looking forward to another incident from last year with unruly little ones racing around and knocking people over.  But my role in this affair was very limited. I was to do what I was told, including draw for prizes, looking merry and chipper for student photo ops and participating in active party games.  

            This show all belonged to the student organizers and I was happy not to take responsibility for it.

            But whereas last year the party definitely lacked the “Wow” factor, this year was a 100 percent turn-around. 

 

Our Campus Christmas Party

            What a grand time we had!

            The stage decorations were wonderful with a huge backdrop in Chinese and English, saying “Merry Christmas!”  The students had decorated this with foil cut-out holiday designs.  We also had 4 Christmas trees and lights draped above us in the covered sports’ building.

            Last year’s entertainment was merely games but this year, the organizers invited different student clubs to perform for us.  We had a magic act, enjoyed the dance club perform their sexy Samba routine, and were awed by the dangerous feats of our roller-blading team. 

            Included in the festivities were the children, who received treats from me and our red-clothed college Santa 

            Unlike last year, where utter chaos reigned, the kids were hustled into an orderly line and came one by one to greet me with, “Merry Christmas!”  After saying their English phrase, they received a small bag of candy.  Unfortunately, we ran out of sweets toward the end so some children didn’t get their goodies.  Next year, the organizers will have to prepare for more kids showing up.

            The children were absolute angels, gazing upward with wide eyes and grateful hearts to receive their Santa gifts.  Many “Xie-xie!” (thank you’s)  in Chinese followed as they left the line.

            We only had one ornery pill, a sour little boy on rollerblades whose mother dragged him (kicking and screaming) to the front of the line.  Once there, he snarled and refused to say anything, just shouting in Chinese, “Don’t want!  Don’t want!”

            His smiling mother, having a tight hold on him, refused to let him go until he had uttered the magic words, “Merry Christmas.”

            He never did.

            Nor did he want the candy, which he threw in a tantrum to the floor after Santa generously handed it to him. 

            His poor embarrassed mother!

            I immediately picked up the candy pouch and pressed it into her hands.  The distraught woman certainly deserved sympathy, that’s for sure.

            (Bring back any memories, parents of the classic child’s “I don’t like Santa!” nightmarish mall scene?)

 

The Party Activities

 

            Musical chairs, sack races and a few other Chinese favorites had both college students and little kids in an excited uproar.  Everyone was quick to volunteer, especially when prizes for the winners were at hand.

            One of the evening’s highlights was a “Send your classmate a gift” tradition which has been going on for years.

            On one side of the basketball court, we had volunteers at tables where students could go to send gifts to their friends on Christmas Day.   They would bring their wrapped presents to the table where the volunteers would write down all the information needed:  Who is sending, who is receiving, cellphone numbers and dorm number of the recipient.

             After tagging the gift, it was put in a holding area where Santa Claus (one of the Student Union members dressed as St. Nick) would deliver it the next day.

            Last year was a little unorganized.  I heard some students didn’t get their gifts delivered as was promised.  This year, due to the excellent planning, I’m sure everyone received their special Christmas gifts from their friends.

 

A Happy 2010 Christmas and Upcoming New Year

 

            I just wanted to wish everyone a Merry Christmas and hope you enjoy the photos of all the Christmas activities that we’ve had over the past weeks. 

            Many blessings for your upcoming New Year as well, and also many thanks to those who sent Christmas pencils.  The students are receiving those this week as we end the semester.  They will be thrilled with their holiday presents, coupled with a Christmas photo of me and Little Flower.

 

            As always, sending you Ping An (Peace) your way, and a very Merry Christmas, from southern China.

 

           

 

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A Walmart Bust

 

A Walmart Bust

 

            How can the Walmart possibly be a bust?

            In Guangxi’s provincial capital city, Nanning, the Walmart for foreigners is the motherload.

            Although a majority of the products and food items sold there are the usual Chinese fanfare, there are a few specialty products which just can’t be found anywhere else in the province. Cheese, Western butter, muesli, ground coffee, hygiene necessities (dental floss, deodorant, shaving cream), and certain appliances (such as coffee makers) are always in abundance at Wally World.

            Lately, the larger Chinese chain groceries have started to carry such things but not in great abundance or on a regular basis.  So most of the overseas’ community living in Guangxi depend on Nanning’s Walmart for their blow-out shopping sprees.

            For myself, the capital city’s Chinese grocery, Ren Ren Le (Everybody’s Happy), holds all my needs.  It’s directly beside the hotel and pool complex where I stay whenever I visit Nanning.  Fighting the Chinese crowds at the Walmart is not my biggest joy so I usually stay far away from it.  I’d much rather make my way through my Everybody’s Happy store and be just that:  happy, not hassled by bumping elbows with enthusiastic Chinese Walmart patrons.

            However, it’s this time of year when the Nanning Walmart demands a necessary visit.

            It’s holiday shopping time, when Land-o-Lakes butter for cookie-baking and new Christmas decorations are on the list.  Where else to go but the Walmart, where the aisles are fully stocked with such things?

            Or so I thought.

            On my most recent visit to Nanning, the Walmart proved to be a bust.

            After picking my way around the Chinese crowds, I excitedly wheeled my cart to the section I wanted only to find . . . vacant spaces.

            The entire refrigerated margarine and butter section was empty!  Not only was America’s Land-o-Lakes missing, but New Zealand’s Anchor and Japan’s Suki butter brands as well. 

            “How can an entire store be out of butter and margerine?” I muttered to myself. 

            I mean, really!

            Obviously, there are more foreigners in the city than I thought. Since Chinese don’t use margarine or butter, who else would be loading up for their holiday baking other than overseas’ people like me.

            Shoot!

            Determined to make my trip worthwhile, my hopes soared during the second floor visit to the Christmas decorations.  Surely the foreigners couldn’t completely buy out an entire Christmas section at the Walmart.

            True enough, the Christmas aisle was still intact but what a pitiful offering.  Limited tinsel roping, tacky Disney holiday door hangings, over-priced table-top fake trees, cheap plastic ornaments . . . What was all this?

            With my purse full of cash to buy out the store, I ended up leaving with a mere 50-cent Santa candle votive.

            And for that tiny purchase, I had to stand in line for 20 minutes at check-out.

           

Hope Restored

 

            With my shopping bag practically empty, I left Nanning’s business district  to return to my small, neighborhood hotel area. 

            Since Walmart was such a disappointment, I decided an Everybody Happy store visit was in line. 

            I didn’t expect much as far as Christmas was concerned at this Chinese supermart. After all, Chinese celebrate Chinese New Year, not Christmas since very few are Christians.  But in recent years, Christmas decorations and the festive spirit of Christmas have invaded the Chinese mindset.  People here enjoy the commercialized Christmas, even if they have not a clue about the religious meaning or why this holiday is celebrated.

            Grade schools and universities have Christmas-style parties. 

            Stores play traditional Christmas carols over their loudspeakers. 

            Cashiers dress in Santa hats and wear “Merry Christmas!” lapel pins.

            Live Santas parade about to entice shoppers to their store entrances.

           Every year, Christmas in China becomes a bit bigger than the year before.  It wasn’t unlikely that China’s chain store, Everybody Happy, would have something of use for my Christmas celebrations but I just wasn’t sure what it would be.

            Entering the store, I began wheeling my cart around the aisles.  Through the electronics section, the household appliances, the clothes, the toys. . . Where would the Christmas section be?       Then my eyes caught something flashing  near the cosmetics.

            Sure enough, there were the sparkling trees of all sizes with the store staff busy unpacking box after box of holiday items. Tinsel roping, jolly Santa posters, glittering tree ornaments, bows, window decals, satiny Santa hats, stuffed St. Nicholas toys and holiday bears, lights . . . .

            Where our American Walmart had failed, the Chinese Everybody Happy had excelled. 

             While the store staff tossed their newly-acquired goods onto table tops, dangled from display hangers and stacked into jumbled piles,  I started digging.

            It wasn’t long before my cart began to fill, thanks to the help of the Chinese store attendants and even strolling customers passing by.

            “How about this?”  a store worker would ask me, holding up a huge bow.  “It’s lovely!”

            “Not good quality,” a woman nearby would frown, inspecting it carefully.  “Don’t get that one,” she’d advise.  “Try this one.”

            By the time I left the Christmas center, I must have picked up about two of everything. 

I certainly had a stunning mound of glittery red, gold and green ornamentations on my way out.  The Chinese gazed in awe.  They had no idea to think of me!

 

A Lesson Learned

 

            On the last stretch before the check-out counters, I had the sudden urge to stop by the refrigerated section.  I had little hopes of finding my sought-after Western item for baking.  Why would a Chinese grocery carry butter?  It was just unheard of.

            Yet there it was, numerous stacked 1-pound boxes of creamy butter, courtesy of the Guang Ming dairy farms of Jiangsu Province.  What’s more, it was $1.00 cheaper than Land-o-Lakes, which sold for $5.00 at our American store.

            Lesson learned for the day? 

            Here in China, Walmart ain’t all it’s cracked up to be.

 

          Here’s wishing you Ping An (peace) for your day!  Hope you are enjoying your holiday season.  I certainly am!

             

             

           

           

             

           

           

             

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Embarrassing Moments

 
 

            I don’t have many embarrassing happenings in China anymore.  I pride myself in knowing enough about the culture by now not to have stupid foreigner moments, but last weekend proved I don’t have my act together as much as I thought.

            Last weekend, on our American black Friday, I decided to take a weekend trip to Nanning.

            I had wisely purchased my bus ticket the day before, a 2 p.m. departure, to make sure there’d be room on the bus for me. 

            I had U.S. dollars, Chinese yuan, my credit card and my Chinese ATM bank card tucked away in my purse.  After all, I might just find a great bargain somewhere and need plenty of money for a big purchase.

             I had my suitcase packed, including my swimming gear.  I even brought my wetsuit along in case the pool water (not heated) was too chilly for my mandatory swim whenever I visit the big city. 

            In other words, I was ready to go.
            I was especially smug at the bus station when I ran into one of our  English Chinese teachers who was going to Nanning as well.  Our 2 p.m. bus was full so she had to wait an entire hour until 3 p.m. when the next bus left.

            “You should have bought your ticket yesterday, like me,” I said knowingly.  “You wouldn’t have to wait so long.”

             She merely smiled and nodded.

             I next clamored on board and settled into my seat.

            The bus pulled slowly out of the station and we headed along the countryside access road that leads to the expressway, 20 minutes ahead of us.  The attendant passed out our free water bottles. The bus fell silent while the overhead travel TV played Chinese music videos of modern singers.

            We had crossed the bridge out of town and were cruising along when I started digging around in my purse.

            Oh, my gosh.

            Where was my passport??!!
            Sure enough, after all my prep work, I had forgotten to bring my passport, the one thing they tell us as foreign teachers never, ever to do. 

            The passport ID is  absolutely necessary for all foreigners in China.  Not only could I not spend the night in a hotel without it but because Longzhou is so near the Vietnam border, we have a check-point before entering onto the express highway.  Everyone on the bus must show their ID cards to the checkpoint police.  They walk the aisles and we must produce our identification documents. 

            For the Chinese, it’s not such a big deal if their card is left behind.  They merely get off the bus, sign in at the checkpoint table and get back into the vehicle.

            But for the foreigner, you must have your passport or you can’t go on any further.    

            What would they do if I didn’t produce my passport was something I didn’t want to find out.

            So in the silent bus, the foreigner’s lone voice had to shout out to the bus driver and attendant, “I’m so sorry!! I don’t have my passport.  I have to get off the bus.”

            The driver immediately slowed down but continued driving slowly along.  The attendant popped her head up over her seat, stood up  and gave me an “Uh-oh” smile.  Everyone in the entire bus was staring at me as well.

            A bus discussion ensued as to whether I could continue onward or not.

             I said I didn’t think so.  The foreigner must have a passport. 

            The driver agreed with me and nodded.

             The attendant, however, looked thoughtful.  A few on the bus said I could get by but they were Chinese.  They had no idea that foreigners can’t just sign in as they could and continue on their travels.

           Finally, the driver stopped the bus in front of a remote police station along the road.  Surrounded by sugarcane fields, I got off with the attendant who helped me with my luggage.  The driver said I could catch a ride back to town at the police station.  The little attendant, bless her, went with me to tell the officers I needed to go back.

            Unfortunately, there was not a soul manning the station.  It was completely locked up.

            I insisted the attendant go back, the bus continue and I would get a ride back into town.  I wasn’t sure how exactly I would do this. After all,  I was in the middle of nowhere, but I figured I could flag down a private car, play the pitiful foreigner card and get myself a ride. 

            At that point, I was so embarrassed about my stupidity I just wanted everyone to leave me alone to fend for myself.  Holding up the bus and making everyone late on their journey to Nanning was not something I wanted the foreign teacher to be remembered by.

            Although I started walking back along the road, the bus driver refused to continue onward.        The attendant did return to the idling bus but for a long time, the vehicle sat there while I looked desperately for a passing car to hail.

            Finally, the attendant came running back to me and insisted the driver wanted to take me back to the station in Longzhou.  It was O.K.  We were very close and I could exchange my ticket for another one.

            Reluctantly, I let her help me back on the bus where I apologized to everyone profusely. 

            I was so upset that the woman sitting next to me said, “Don’t worry!  It’s OK.  We don’t mind.”

            Well, maybe she didn’t mind but I certainly did for putting everyone out.

            Naturally, quite a few of the station employees were surprised to see our bus pull back into the terminal.  With my luggage in tow, I quickly clamored off the bus, waving gratitude to the driver.  My ride then backed up and sped away in a hurry, already 20 minutes late.

            I was ushered into the bus tickets’ back office where I had to exchange my bus ticket for another day, leaving on Saturday morning and not Friday because the buses were already full for the day.

            And to make matters worse, my colleague, who was patiently waiting for her 3 p.m. bus, spotted me.

            “Why are you back so soon?  What happened?” she asked with great concern, rushing over to my side.

            “I forgot my passport,” I moaned.  “I’ve never forgotten my passport before!  I feel so stupid and embarrassed.”

            Her words of sympathy?

            “Yes,” she smiled smugly, her 3 p.m. ticket in hand.  “Next time, you mustn’t be so careless.”

           

            From Longzhou, China, here’s wishing you Ping An (peace) for your weekend, the first Sunday in Advent.

           

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Happy Thanksgiving!

 
         For most of you in America, it’s turkey day and gearing up for shopping ventures to start out the Christmas season.
         In China, I am finishing up my Christmas lessons tomorrow and getting ready for final exams already, but I couldn’t help sending this along for your Thanksgiving Day.
         The below was emailed to me by a relative with his warning of giving sage (or basil?) advice on what not to do to your turkey for Thanksgiving.
         Hope it arrives in time for your dinner to be enjoyed, not destroyed.
 

          The turkey shot out of the oven and rocketed into the air.

          It knocked every plate off the table and partly demolished a chair.

          It ricocheted into a corner and burst with a deafening boom,

          Then splattered all over the kitchen, completely obscuring the room.

          It stuck to the walls and the windows.  It totally coated the floor.

          There was turkey attached to the ceiling where there’d never been turkey before.

          It blanketed every appliance. It smeared every saucer and bowl.

          There wasn’t a way I could stop it.  That turkey was out of control.

          I scraped and I scrubbed with displeasure, and I thought with chagrin as I mopped,

          That I’d never again stuff a turkey with popcorn that hadn’t been popped!

 

Happy Thanksgiving and Ping An (Peace)  from Connie and Little Flower!

 

 
 
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An Early Christmas

 

            Two weeks ago, I stopped in the English office to find out exactly when my courses should be finished for the semester.  As the foreign language teacher, my testing and classes are always completed earlier than my Chinese colleagues.  This is to give students time to concentrate only on their Chinese courses instead of adding mine to the pile as well.

            Chinese New Year being so early this year (Feb. 3), I figured our school year would be ending earlier as well.

            Sure enough, the official schedule had us finishing up mid-January. 

            And for me?
            January 1st was to be the end of my term.

            Heavens!  That’s early!

            It was a scramble to put together testing information and Xerox copies of what would be expected for the final exams but I did it. 

           With 280 students, my oral exams always take 3 weeks to complete with the last week being our “wind-down” class.  In other words, the entire month of December would be testing, testing and nothing but testing.

            With such a rushed agenda, choices had to be made about holiday lessons.  Would it be Thanksgiving as usual or would we make the leap into Christmas? 

            Good question.

            Do the Pilgrims take precedence over the wisemen?   Does the turkey trump Jesus?

            I think you can guess where I was journeying and it wasn’t on the Mayflower.

            Yes, it’s been the holy lands all week with our annual classroom re-enactment of Jesus’ birth.

            Every class has been enjoying our Christmas skit, performed via a name draw for a live and in-person touch of the Christian religion’s most important story.

            As promised to the students, the photo album assigned to this blog is all about them.  

            Have fun, everyone!  Enjoy your photos and memories of our first Christmas lesson together.

 

            Ping An (Peace) from Longzhou

 

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Info on Our College as Shared to Amity Guests

 
 

             Our school, which is run by the provincial government, was founded in 1939. It has two campuses — the Chongzuo campus and Longzhou campus. The Chongzuo campus is in Chongzuo, 1 1/2 hours away from here, and is the newest.  It opened last year in 2009.  The campus you are visiting now is our old campus, which will close in 2012 and all students and faculty will move to the Chongzuo school.

           We have 2,193 students on this campus.  Most of them come from countryside. There are three types of English majors in English department on this campus. They are English Education major, Business English major and Practical English major.  And we have 228 students in English Education, 206 students in Business English, and 292 students in Practical English.

            All our English majors are on a 3-year study program.

          We also have 33 English teachers on this campus. They teach reading, writing, speaking, listening, grammar, translation, interpretation. 

          For English Education majors, they pay 2,000 yuan ($294) for 1 year of study. The students should take numerous classes such as in integrated English, teaching methdology, grammar, and oral English.  In their 3rd year,  they go for a one-month teaching practice session in some nearby junior middle schools.  To receive their teaching certificate, they also are required to pass the government-mandated College English Test 4 and 6, known as the CET exams. Usually,  98% of these students become teachers after graduation.

            From 2005 to 2010, we have had 8 Amity teachers to work at our school: Elissa, Kyle, Thomas and Connie, from America ; Heidi, from Finland , Rex, from  the Philippines, and Tomas and Rachel, from Sweden .

 

Name List of our Amity Visitors for the 2010 25th Anniversary

 

1)  Peter Weigand                    (male)               Germany

2)  Renate Paulsteiner   (female)            Germany

3)  Christian Paulsteiner            (male)              Germany

4)  Katrin Feidler                       (female)           Germany

5)  Rebecca Asedillo-Cunningham  (female)  Philippines, working in USA

6)  Michael Tournee                 (male)   Germany

7)  Teresa Schwehm                 (female)            Germany

8)  Clarice Nobbs                     (female)            America

9)  Mozart Makafui Kudjo Adevu   (male)   Ghana 

10)  Anders Granberg  (male)               Finland, works in Hong Kong Amity Office

11)  Su Tong                            (female)          China, works in Hong Kong Amity Office

 

 

 

 

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